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Reddit mentions of Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love: A Roadmap to Finding the Right Partner and Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams (Conscious Lesbian Guides Book 1)
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| Release date | October 2015 |
You're definitely not the only one. I was a strict conservative Christian for ten years until age 26, when I started to question and deconstruct my old beliefs. I also started to embrace my identity as a sapphic woman to a greater degree around that time. I had known for a few years that I was bisexual but believed I was required to be celibate and could only have platonic partnerships with women.
I also dated a woman and explored sex for the first time at age 26 which was an amazing experience for me. It helped that the woman I explored with had been friends for me for nearly a year by that time so we were close and I felt 100% safe and accepted with her. Getting comfortable with masturbation, self-pleasure and sex toys was a great place to start before I ever tried having actual sex with a real person. You can order them online if you feel awkward going into a sex shop. I'd recommend exploring your body and getting comfortable with pleasuring yourself.
If you're really nervous about dating or having sex, perhaps you could start by making some LGBT friends on the apps? Or maybe joining a local LGBT meet up group? I started off by finding a few platonic cuddle buddies through r/cuddlebuddies and other websites before I got comfortable with actual dating.
Here are some resources that might help as well:
For sexual health and sex education: Scarleteen
This article in particular is great: Figuring Out How to be a Lesbian Safer Expert
General tips for dating women: How To Be A Girl Who Dates Girls: Your Syllabus For Lesbian Dating 101
Finding other sapphic women: 10 Queer Women Reveal Where They Go To Meet Women, & It’s Really Great Advice
For flirting tips: A How-To Guide on Flirting
You might find the following books relevant to your situation:
Conscious Lesbian Dating
Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
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