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I'm sorry that you are going through this. I recommend counseling for both of you individually and possibly marriage counseling so you can really discuss this with a third party who can help lead the conversation. I recently read an excellent book called "Intimate Deception" by Dr. Sheri Keffer (https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Deception-Healing-Wounds-Betrayal/dp/0800729129). It really goes into the different reasons men find themselves addicted to porn and also helps you process your feelings about it. I highly recommend it.
I also recommend looking into Accountable2You (https://www.accountable2you.com) an internet accountability and monitoring software. He can put it on his computer and/or cell phone. You'll get alerts if he looks at anything inappropriate and will be able to see what he does on both his phone and computer. It's $6/month but the piece of mind is worth every penny.
This addiction is about your husband, not about you. I get it, I've always been incredibly opposed to porn and made that clear to my husband time and time again. I didn't know he was silently struggling and keeping it from me for our 5 1/2 year marriage out of fear of how I would react. I wish I didn't make him feel like he had to hide it so we could have dealt with it sooner. We're in the midst of it now but it gets easier. He's taking the proper steps to get help (group therapy, joined Celebrate Recovery and is going through the 12 steps now) and I think eventually we'll be able to come out the other side.
When I first found out I was devastated. It felt like he had cheated on me and that I wasn't enough. But through counseling and honest discussions with him I've learned it's not something I brought on, this is all him. He has to work through what led to this and how to beat the addiction. He's gone about 4 months now without any slip ups so things are looking up.
Good luck.