Reddit mentions of Mastering Your Hidden Self: A Guide to the Huna Way (A Quest Book)

A few, in no particular order:

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
http://amzn.com/1591792576

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (Collins Business Essentials)
http://amzn.com/006124189X

Mastering Your Hidden Self: A Guide to the Huna Way (A Quest Book)
http://amzn.com/0835605914

My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies
http://amzn.com/0671019872

Introducing NLP: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
http://amzn.com/1573244988

What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
http://amzn.com/0061438294

The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature
http://amzn.com/0060556579

Outliers: The Story of Success
http://amzn.com/0316017930

Iron John: A Book About Men
http://amzn.com/0306813769

gonna share three books that deal with this, from less directly (at least initially) to most directly dealing with it:

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1- Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism

2- A Guide To The Huna Way

3- Oneness

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#1 and #3 are reference books to come back to every decade or so.

#1 addresses in great depth and detail the psychological processes you're now beginning to deal with (consciously) and warns of the pits on the way not so much to 'show' you how to avoid them but to make you know that you're not alone at all with any of those feelings and inner processes. Specially so regarding your last sentence.

#2 and #3 are directly dealing with the time-less nature of Reality.

#2 presents the Huna's 'Higher Self' –the most timeless entity out there; the Huna presents a hard-to-miss way of actually experiencing that timelessness yourself (if it goes anything like it did with me).

#3 may seem too 'fringe' to some people; I know it would have me years ago. Still, give it a chance, ignoring anything that may not resonate at first. I did; then it was non-stop mindblowingness. And my stomach feels funny when I think of reading it again, like 'ooooh rollercoaster ahead!'

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There is also Jung but you already know his work.

Last thing I want to share is (again maybe? if so, well my bad), I had come to such 'realizations' way before coming across any of these books or authors, it happened via 'journaling'; I write everyday, I've recently found out there's a thing called Narrative Therapy, this fused with my earlier routines of stream-of-consciousness writing and [Julia Cameron's] the Morning Pages, it's the way I have been 'journaling' all these years –a kind of fusion of them all. By doing this writing I was 'able' ('allowed') to become aware of this phenomenon. It sure fucked with my mind back then -at the very beginning, knowing nothing or no one into this- but ultimately it helped me discern what was (possibly) a synchronicity and what was entirely a fabrication of my mind.

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Give some feedback if you ever do get into any of that.

Learn to meditate. Meditation is the concept of relaxing and having control over your mind and emotion. Buy this book, it's amazing -

http://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Your-Hidden-Self-Guide/dp/0835605914

So, "The Red Queen" is a great book, but more for the material behind why the routines work.

If you're looking for something about the inner game in terms of mindstate, Style recommends "Mastering the Hidden-Self"

http://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Your-Hidden-Self-Guide/dp/0835605914

I know, I know, sounds super new-age. However, it's actually a basic primer on huna philosophy that worked wonders for me and several of the friends I subsequently lent the book to.

Otherwise, I think the only honest answer is Nietzsche or perhaps Camus