Reddit mentions of The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be (Fourth Edition) (New Father Series)

https://www.amazon.com/Expectant-Father-Ultimate-Dads-Be/dp/0789212129/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?gclid=Cj0KCQjwn8_mBRCLARIsAKxi0GIQZAT9DkdzjY93ocM6HSo5H1ReLLLmiAW4UEe55jnVC91WEfYiD_waAh8AEALw_wcB&hvadid=174213914372&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011162&hvnetw=g&hvpos=1t1&hvqmt=b&hvrand=4452630806437102253&hvtargid=kwd-810889235&hydadcr=24629_9648897&keywords=so+your+going+to+be+a+dad&qid=1557414688&s=gateway&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1

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Your lives are GREATLY going to change after a baby. Especially the first few years, you're going to need to be a TEAM. He can't just off and go skiing at his leisure without some sort of plan or support system for you and if you need him to be there, then he's just going to have to make that sacrifice and vice versa. Having a baby is a huge responsibility. Maybe the reality of it hasn't hit him yet and it does take a while for men, but maybe this book will help him and his expectations. Maybe you two could even sit down and read it together. My husband and I read books about marriage and parenting together because my husband hates reading, so I read them out loud and he listens and responds. It's a great bonding tool but also a great resource for the future.