Reddit mentions of The Four Man Plan: A Romantic Science

I'm a HUGE fan of the Four Man Plan by Cindy Lu. It's a logical and simple approach, basically coming down to not putting all your eggs in one basket and dating (but not sleeping with) multiple people prevents you from getting clingy and too attached to one. She addresses how to approach the "dating other people" and other situations in her book. Very healthy approach if it's done right and honestly.

While I'm on the subject of books that have helped me in my dating life, another great book is You Lost Him At Hello by Jess McCann. She compares dating to sales -- whether we like it or not, we are selling ourselves in dating! This is where I started learning that like anything, dating is a numbers game. YLHAH was actually the first book I read on this topic, randomly and skeptically picked up at the library, that started my journey of learning about dating and relationships. Over the past 4 years I've read 30-40 books on dating, attraction, and male/female relationships and these are 2 of my top 3 books I'd recommend. The 3rd is The Science of Happily Ever After by Dr Ty Tashiro.

Have these books helped me? Yes! I recently ended a healthy and happy 3 year relationship with a wonderful man, because although I loved him deeply, I was not in love with him. Now that I'm dating again I can absolutely say that my personal development has given me a much healthier approach to dating than I used to have.