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Reddit mentions of The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

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Found 2 comments on The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition):

u/rocknrollchuck ยท 2 pointsr/Christianmarriage

God wants to be first in your life. If He is not, then He sometimes allows things to get like this so you will cry out to Him for help. God is a jealous God, and is deserving of the first and foremost place in our lives. So I would start by focusing on that.

Also, focusing on your marriage like this is unhealthy. Now some people are going to read this and go "What?!?", so let me explain. I don't mean you shouldn't care about your marriage, but you are placing an unhealthy focus on it at the moment imo. You're thinking about it a lot, aren't you? It's on your mind every day, isn't it? What did Job say? "What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me." (Job 3:25) So it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more you worry about it, the worse it gets.

So instead, focus on some other things. Stop trying to "fix" your marriage. Give it to God and let Him worry about it. He loves you, He loves her, and He hates divorce. Believe what the Word says, and stop doubting. This is having faith in negative things, and when you do that, you're believing for your marriage to fail, indirectly.

Go and do some other things for a while.

  • Get a hobby.

  • Go volunteer somewhere, and help somebody else.

  • Get a gym membership if you don't already have one, and start lifting weights. This will help how you feel inside more than you think. You'll feel better, and this will affect your marriage in a positive way.

  • Take a day and just go somewhere to be alone in nature, just you and God. Speak with Him, and listen so He can speak to you as well.

  • Set some small goals in your life, and accomplish them.

  • Take care of things around your house that you've been putting off. Maybe the garage needs to be cleaned up, maybe the dishwasher needs to be repaired. maybe those hinges need to be oiled. You will be amazed at what that will do for both of you.

  • Go camping for a weekend with some buddies.

  • Take a Vitamin D supplement.

    I'm also going to suggest a rather unorthodox book: The Way of the Superior Man. It's not a Christian book. Not everything in it will apply to you. Some of it is complete nonsense. But I have found that this book was invaluable to helping me have a different perspective on my wife, and my interactions with her. God bless.