Reddit mentions of FC Female Condom - Quantity - 3 Pack

First part of advice is not terrible: Study hard, make bank, stack up cash.

Yeah, at some point your money will attract thots you couldn't get before. Enjoy it, but cover up that dick! (check out FC2) Smarter gold diggers will figure out quicker, if you haven't put a ring on something yet you probably won't. The dumb ones might stick around longer.

Ok seriously, don't wash your condoms. You will chemically damage them. If the issue is a comfort/fit thing try female condoms. They are a little harder to source but can be bought online or in sex shops. My partner and I prefer them. FC Female Condom - Quantity - 3 Pack https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001GKK4EA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_4wAXAbB75J6XK

You are awfully dismissive of your provider. Your problem is to say the least unique. A lesbian who has vaginismus with orgasm is not an everyday problem. And he gave you a reasonable solution which you don't care for.

You have a few choices:

1. Not use the valium
   
   
2. Use a barrier of some variety as your provider suggested
   
   
3. Stop having sex.
   
   
4. Do everything you are currently doing knowing that your partner likely will get a small amount of Valium in the course of engaging in sex with you. You might be able to mitigate this by inserting the Valium 4 hours before sex, but that takes a lot of planning. Why necessarily is ingesting a little Valium so bad? A tiny dose of Valium is not likely to hurt anything. The only caution is if she works in a job that does random drug tests, Valium very likely would show up.

$18?? Whoa that's a ripoff! You can find them cheaper on amazon. Definitely give it a try! They do take some getting used to in the beginning because some people can find it difficult to insert at first. Once you have them in correctly you shouldn't feel anything though. There are some pretty helpful videos online explaining how to insert them.

I have an IUD (Mirena) and it's great, I have far fewer side effects than I did with the pill.
However, if your GF hates the idea of something inside of her, I'd suggest that an IUD is NOT a great option for you.

I would absolutely recommend the female condom though! It is nothing like a male condom- it acts like a liner in the vagina rather than squeezing around your dick. Much more sensation for the guy, and way less chafing that with a male condom for the woman. I know it gets a really bad rep, but they are fucking amazing. Try it!

Femidoms - female condoms

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B001GKK4EA/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?qid=1394019743&sr=8-2

Your problem is one of the most, if not the most common issue with condoms. It's the fumbling around, tearing the packet, putting it on, all while trying to remain hard. It happens to everyone, for any reason at any time. Easiest suggestion? Female condom. It allows for more of a spontaneous approach. They are little pricier than normal condoms, but since it's already inside her at any point, you can just go for it (as long as it's used properly of course). Something like this. It may be a little bit of an inconvenience for them, but think about how it's an inconvenience for you? It's just a thought.

Try female condoms. To me they felt way more realistic.
It’s basically a loose oversized condom that she inserts, Then you enter in her. Feels amazing, I always felt condoms were too tight, we discovered these and they feel great! A little bit pricey, but worth it IMO.

https://www.amazon.com/FC-Female-Condom-Quantity-Pack/dp/B001GKK4EA