(Part 2) Reddit mentions: The best etiquette guides
We found 98 Reddit comments discussing the best etiquette guides. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 42 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. The Art of Civilized Conversation: A Guide to Expressing Yourself With Style and Grace
- soft back
- clifford the firehouse dog
- childrens
- scholastic
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Release date | December 2005 |
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22. Kurdish (Sorani)-English/English-Kurdish (Sorani) Dictionary & Phrasebook
Hippocrene Books
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23. Japanese At a Glance: Foreign Language Phrasebook & Dictionary (At a Glance Series)
- Used Book in Good Condition
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Length | 4 Inches |
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Weight | 0.65918216338 Pounds |
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24. Eastern Armenian-English/English-Eastern Armenian Dictionary & Phrasebook
Used Book in Good Condition
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Height | 7 Inches |
Length | 3.75 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Weight | 0.35 Pounds |
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25. The Russian's World: Life and Language, Fourth Edition (English and Russian Edition)
- Used Book in Good Condition
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26. Berlitz German Phrase Book & Dictionary (Berlitz Phrase Books)
- MADE IN THE USA - Proudly Made in the USA using Surgical Grade Stainless Steel
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- FITS MOST MODELS - For use with model DCC-1000BK, DTC-975BKN, DCC-750 Series, DCC-1100 Series DCC-1200 Series, DCC-2200, DCC-2600, DCC-2650, DCC-2750, DCC-2800, DCC-2900 and CHW-12. Filter is form fitting and will adjust from oblong to round based on the brew basket and will hold the required shape once coffee is brewed.
- EASY TO CLEAN - These filters clean easily under running water and are dishwasher safe
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27. Politeness: Some Universals in Language Usage (Studies in Interactional Sociolinguistics 4)
- Used Book in Good Condition
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Length | 5.5 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | February 1987 |
Weight | 0.93916923612 Pounds |
Width | 0.82 Inches |
28. The Art and Etiquette of Gift Giving
Used Book in Good Condition
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Number of items | 1 |
Release date | October 1987 |
Weight | 1.4 Pounds |
29. Passport to the Pub: The Tourist's Guide to Pub Etiquette
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30. Japanese for All Occasions: Mastering Speech Styles from Casual to Honorific
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Height | 7.43 Inches |
Length | 5.26 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | April 2011 |
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31. Brazil - Culture Smart!: The Essential Guide to Customs & Culture
- Measures approximately 36 by 36 inches
- Border features a beautiful celtic inspired design
- Black background with silver pentagram and gold border
- Tasseled edges
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Height | 6.75 Inches |
Length | 4.25 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | April 2014 |
Weight | 0.4 Pounds |
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32. The Amy Vanderbilt Complete Book of Etiquette: 50th Anniversay Edition
- Custom High Quality Die Cut decal
- Decal measures 5.5" at the longest point
- Many Color to choose from, just email us your request.
- Great for cars, laptops, tablets, skateboards, etc.
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Height | 10.05 Inches |
Length | 6.2 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | January 1995 |
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33. Making Out in Japanese: A Japanese Language Phrase Book (Japanese Phrasebook) (Making Out Books)
Tuttle Publishing
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Height | 7.5 Inches |
Length | 4.1 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | September 2014 |
Weight | 0.45 Pounds |
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34. Spoken Lebanese
- ISBN13: 9781887905145
- Condition: New
- Notes: BRAND NEW FROM PUBLISHER! 100% Satisfaction Guarantee. Tracking provided on most orders. Buy with Confidence! Millions of books sold!
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Height | 9 Inches |
Length | 6 Inches |
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Weight | 0.76 pounds |
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35. Brazil - Culture Smart!: the essential guide to customs & culture
- New
- Mint Condition
- Dispatch same day for order received before 12 noon
- Guaranteed packaging
- No quibbles returns
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Height | 6.7 Inches |
Length | 4.38 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | September 2006 |
Weight | 0.37037660016 Pounds |
Width | 0.54 Inches |
36. The Etiquette Book: A Complete Guide to Modern Manners
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Height | 9.5 Inches |
Length | 7.25 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Weight | 2.14 Pounds |
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37. A Frequency Dictionary of Czech (Routledge Frequency Dictionaries)
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Height | 9.69 Inches |
Length | 6.85 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | January 2011 |
Weight | 1.19931470528 Pounds |
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38. Living Language English for Chinese Speakers, Essential Edition (ESL/ELL): Beginner course, including coursebook, 3 audio CDs, and free online learning
- Domed Mineral Crystal
- Sleek Modern Design
- Japanese-automatic Movement
- Case Diameter: 40.5mm
- Water Resistant To 30m (100ft): In General, Withstands Splashes or Brief Immersion In Water, but not Suitable for Swimming or Bathing
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Height | 8.7 Inches |
Length | 6.7 Inches |
Number of items | 3 |
Release date | October 2012 |
Weight | 1.51 Pounds |
Width | 2.1 Inches |
39. Living Language Japanese, Essential Edition: Beginner course, including coursebook, 3 audio CDs, Japanese reading & writing guide, and free online learning
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Height | 8.78 Inches |
Length | 6.73 Inches |
Number of items | 3 |
Release date | February 2012 |
Weight | 1.57 Pounds |
Width | 1.96 Inches |
40. Debrett's New Guide to Etiquette and Modern Manners: The Indispensable Handbook
- Water-resistant bomber jacket featuring zipper placket with attached interior bib
- Ribbed collar, cuffs, and hem
- Pockets at chest and waist
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Length | 6.16 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Weight | 1.49 Pounds |
Width | 1.275 Inches |
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The valedictions in question never truly fell out of use, but have become abbreviated instead.
Valedictions in English writing have traditionally been very formal affairs following the French model. You can still observe similarities between 18th c. Georgian English valedictions and their modern counterparts in French:
My Lord, Your lordship's most humble, most obedient servant, Sam. Johnson, "Letter to Lord Chesterfield," Samuel Johnson, 1755
Nous vous prions d'agréer, Monsieur, nos salutations distinguées, Modern French, Calliope Source
English has long had a tradition of abbreviations although valedictions, as a piece of formal writing, withstood most of them until the 19th century. These long valedictions were eventually whittled down to the common form we see today:
There remain a few, rare times when the full English valediction is still employed. Diplomatic correspondence tends to be very formal indeed and it was considered good manners to conclude letters to ambassadors and Governors-General in Commonwealth realms with the full valediction until the early 1980s. As of 2000, Debrett's still mentions the full valediction although it described it as somewhat "old-fashioned" even then, so it may be totally out of use today although I wouldn't be surprised if it was still used sparsely in official documents between the Foreign Office and accredited ambassadors to the United Kingdom.
It might be better in your case to bring a phrasebook that you can consult when needed. I've always found it handy to keep with me so I can pull it out and ask what I need to know. The other person can also point at phrases so you don't have to worry as much about not understanding the reply. Barron's Japanese At A Glance has been with me on all my trips and has been very helpful. Lots of necessary signs are in english as well, and this book goes over some others you may see.
Consider picking up The Art of Civilized Conversation. http://www.amazon.com/Art-Civilized-Conversation-Expressing-Yourself/dp/B002ECEVB6/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1303156248&sr=8-1
It's full of tips on how to engage in conversations with strangers that go beyond cliches like "nice weather", among other things.
Linguistics dude here. I'm not going to waste time explaining descriptivism since OP specifically asked what clichés bug people, but I've seen a few that I can at least explain. It doesn't make them less annoying, but it may be interesting to know what's going on:
Sounds like quite a challenge. I don't have much advice or experience in multi-lingual environments (maybe /u/Rocknocker will chime in) but here are some resources my google-fu recovered:
I also found a pdf download of an Arabic Dictionary of Scientific and Engineering Terms(Al-Muntaqa) but I didn't download it and have no idea of the quality.
Hey there - fellow March 2020 CYD invitee here!
My Armenian friend highly recommended this particular Eastern Armenian phrasebook. I purchased it last week:
https://www.amazon.com/Armenian-English-English-Eastern-Armenian-Dictionary-Phrasebook/dp/078181006X
Two things: For history and high culture, you want "Natasha's Dance" http://www.amazon.com/Natashas-Dance-Cultural-History-Russia/dp/0312421958/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1420918749&sr=1-1&keywords=Natasha%27s+dance
For a detailed look at basically every aspect of Russian everyday life and worldview (everything from historic army uniforms to the culture of medicine to folk tales and superstitions), "The Russian's World" is where it's at. http://www.amazon.com/The-Russians-World-Language-Edition/dp/0893573809 The 2nd or 3rd edition will be much cheaper, but the information I got from my older edition (published 2000) about basic daily life was pretty outdated when I was in Russia (2012).
Frankly if I were you I would spring for one of those pocket-sized Berlitz books of useful phrases, like this one
https://www.amazon.com/Berlitz-German-Phrase-Dictionary-Books/dp/2831508835
I think they even have an app that does the same thing.
Can you get a rush order on this to give to her? https://www.amazon.com/dp/0553052233/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_qtZ8AbJ8D3MTF
"Oh MIL, DH was mentioning you were having a hard time choosing gifts lately so I thought this might help"
MIL: Oh I'd rather have your list.
OP: My list? ... Oh... The list of what I got from everyone at my wedding? (With a quizzical raised brow and side eye) I threw that out long ago. I used it for sending thank you cards and that's it. You could always call or message people to ask them what they'd given us.
Act completely oblivious as to why she'd need your list so your responses don't feed her entitlement. Have absolutely zero clue why she'd need your weeding list. That way she'd be forced to explain how brash she's being in wanting to match gifts tit for tat and if she's bold enough to do so, again push the book on her because it will solve all her problems. Hopefully she's not rude enough to elaborate and she'll just cbf and shut up about it.
Here is a book you might find useful
https://www.amazon.com/Passport-Pub-Kate-Fox/dp/1899344098
Same author as Watching The English
You'll be a bodyguard for your customers? How interesting.
I used this book: http://www.amazon.com/Japanese-All-Occasions-Mastering-Honorific/dp/4770031513 alongside wikipedias entry for 敬語.
No hay un culture smart! de Brasil? El de Chile lo encontré bueno (es una serie de guias sobre la cultura de cada país para turistas y emigrantes).
https://www.amazon.com/Brazil-Culture-Smart-Essential-Customs/dp/1857336895
The latest version of this book was written by Nancy Tuckerman, who served on First Lady Kennedy's staff.
Good manners don't cost you anything and will get you a long way in life. I see lots of bad behavior from folks who dress the part well.
If you ever need a reference guide on how to handle different situations in society, this is a good one.
thats basically marriage Really? That long?
all i really have is books on my wishlist
this book is 11 not really 10 but i will put it here just incase i win
Brazil - Culture Smart!: the essential guide to customs & culture
http://www.amazon.com/The-Etiquette-Book-Complete-Manners/dp/1402776020
I've seen a frequency dictionary for Czech language. It breaks down the most used words in several categories, including verbs.
> If only someone had published a book, "Japanese for Nefarious Lechers" (note to self - money-making opportunity...)
Already been done. There are several, but the most famous one is Making out in Japanese
Maybe try this-
https://www.amazon.com/Language-English-Chinese-Speakers-Essential/dp/0307972445/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1469574406&sr=8-2&keywords=English+for+Chinese+speakers
In fact, the link i posted is unavailable in the UK and i can't wait 3-4 weeks for delivery, what do you think about this one? http://www.amazon.co.uk/Living-Language-Japanese-Essential-Edition/dp/0307478645/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1380635115&sr=8-5&keywords=living+language+japanese
Only the nicest guys blame the murder victim. That's how you can tell they're old timey gentlemen! It's straight out of Debrett's:
"If a young lady has been murdered by Chad, call her out for the dumb slut she is. Make sure you do it where everyone will see. Manners maketh man, after all!"