Reddit mentions of Dear John, I Love Jane

Do you have an LGBT center near you? The nearest might be in a nearby city. If they do, see if there are any lesbian group sessions. It can be eye-opening to meet, hear and see other women who have gone through similar situations and survived: what went right, what went not-right and what they'd do differently if they had it to do all over again.

Here are a few books that I tend to recommend about your situation. They're written by women in your situation:
Dear John, I love Jane.
Living Two Lives.
Married Women Who Love Women.

They come in Kindle editions, so you could read them on your phone without worrying about leaving them laying around the house.

Dear John, I Love Jane: Women Write About Leaving Men for Women: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-John-Love-Jane-Leaving/dp/1580053394/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_14_t_0?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=XNSK2AXNZG9M28XQF6KT

Also this book is highly recommended, it's called Dear John, I Love Jane and is filled with stories of women who have left men for women. You are certainly not alone!

Okay...so I tried to reply to this during Reddit's awful down time yesterday. Here goes another try:

There is a great book about this very subject, called Dear John, I Love Jane: Women Write About Leaving Men for Women. I highly recommend it. Trish Bendix, editor at Afterellen, has a piece in the book, as well as a friend of mine.

http://www.amazon.com/Dear-John-Love-Jane-Leaving/dp/1580053394/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1323358890&sr=8-1

We get a lot of these questions on the r/actuallesbians so if you haven't already, you could try posting there! And you can also search the sub for terms like "married man" or "boyfriend" because a lot of good advice has been given over the years.

There's also a book called Dear John, I Love Jane, a compilation of writings from women who have been in your position.