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Reddit mentions of Ease-in Anal Dilator Kit
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Ease-in Dilator kit has all you need for total anal pleasure.Sensually tapered tip allows for easy entry.Flared base keeps plug in place and gives you total control of your pleasure.Choose the size that fits your mood and experience new heights of sensuality.Once you get to the last plug, you will be ready to take anything that comes you way.
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Hi! Doctor here. 5 weeks is not enough time post-op to try full-blown anal (pun intended). Maybe a week or two of fingering and small toys first. There is likely a small bit of scar tissue where the hemorrhoid was removed.
Maybe try using one of these anal dilator kits: https://www.amazon.com/Ease-In-Anal-Dilator-Kit-Best/dp/B0091WPQE8
I used to suggest them to people with a much larger amount of scar tissue after cancer/pre-cancer surgeries.
EDIT: Please do not rush this. You're already at high risk of a recurrent hemorrhoid. Anal sex too soon will almost certainly increase that risk. BUT don't feel like you can never bottom again, that is almost certainly not the case. Please DM me if you have any questions.
In my experience with my female significant other, it takes longer to warm up and adequately apply lube for anal, but once I get going, I can go deeper and more vigorously without any later discomfort or bleeding. We even had to resort to exclusively anal for penetration (well, anything beyond literally "just the tip") after an in-office gyno procedure left her cervix very sensitive and prone to bleeding after any vaginal penetration. That only lasted a few weeks, but by week 2 of no penetration she was really missing it.
So if you like the feeling, and can handle the size, It's worth a try.
It did initially take a few weeks of regular work to get her worked up to it, and a few years before she would ask for it completely sober as well. So you'll need to experiment and see what works for you. One thing that really helped us was a set of anal dilators (This kit was what we got: https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0091WPQE8/ref=psdc_3777381_t4_B00AU8HZC8 ) But the largest one in that set is only 2" in diameter, which was enough to get me in comfortably, but you might need something more if he is significantly larger, as you describe.
LUBE: We used to use Wet Platinum, then Joh silicone. But a couple of years ago we switched to coconut oil (cold pressed, unrefined) and really prefer it. Makes cleanup easier and it leaves your skin feeling well-moisturized. Reminder, coconut oil eats latex, so don't use it with condoms or latex toys. It is safe with high quality silicone toys (tantus, bad dragon, etc) or non-porous plastic like the dilators above though.
Recently I got the idea to buy a set of silicone water bottle ice cube trays, ( https://smile.amazon.com/Silicone-Narrow-Material-Bottles-Assorted/dp/B01A7G2W5W?ref_=bl_dp_s_web_2595511011 ) melt the coconut oil in the microwave, pour into it, and refrigerate. Use them like suppositories near the beginning of the session and it keeps from having to re-lube nearly as often. You can use more than one if needed. If you do anal without an enema first, and you use these, you may want to avoid doggy style or any face down position, as some will drip downwards, and could possibly cause problems if it transports fecal matter to your vagina.
They also work really well for vaginal sex, and if he can slide in before it all melts you get some cool sensations. Just expect a good amount to drip out - more than using them for anal since the vagina is only open on one end.
Made it to level three the other day. https://www.amazon.com/Ease-In-Anal-Dilator-Kit-Best/dp/B0091WPQE8
Might try these. Don't know if there is a harness though.
http://www.amazon.com/Ease-In-Anal-Dilator-Kit-Best/dp/B0091WPQE8/ref=pd_sbs_hpc_4?ie=UTF8&refRID=05PCQ329KSPVRCG6R7T5