Reddit mentions of Refuse to Choose!: Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams

I'm the same way. I'd like to recommend two things...

1. Read this book
   
   
2. Check out this website

I'd recommend several books by Barbara Sher, but especially including this one, Refuse to Choose and an older book called Wishcraft. Her style is more about how to be strategic in planning and taking actions to get you on the right path rather than a detailed business plan.

You're a scanner and it's perfectly normal :)

Well, thats basically what i try to ask everyone as well. At least after 28 yrs i realized that noone will be better than answering this question than myself, even if i suck at it ... maybe i can recommend you this one though, if you didnt read about it yet:

https://www.amazon.com/Refuse-Choose-Interests-Passions-Hobbies/dp/1594866260/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1521511569&sr=1-3&keywords=barbara+sher

Read these books (advice I wish I'd had when I was younger):

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https://www.amazon.com/Renaissance-Soul-Design-People-Passions/dp/0767920880

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https://www.amazon.com/Refuse-Choose-Interests-Passions-Hobbies/dp/1594866260

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https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Everything-Guide-Those/dp/0062566660

You sound like a Scanner. Which isn’t bad. I’m definitely one (a hardcore Sybil).

https://www.amazon.com/Refuse-Choose-Interests-Passions-Hobbies/dp/1594866260/ref=nodl_#mediaMatrix_secondary_view_div_1551363837292

It’s a fun read.

Look up the author Barbara Sher and these books of hers:

"I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was"

"Refuse to Choose!: Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams"

Barbara Sher is the real deal. She is like the streetwise, brilliant grandma you wish you could have grown up with for figuring out honestly what to do with your life. Read everything you can get your hands on of what she's written, ESPECIALLY the two books I mention above. Then write me in about 6 months and let me know how you are doing. :)

(you may also find these books useful:

I Could Do Anything If Only I Knew What It Was by Barbara Sher

and

Refuse to Choose, also by Barbara Sher )

Your question is intriguing because I often ask myself the same thing. I'm 24, graduated undergrad, and have a decent job, but I often find myself wondering what the hell I'm doing.

If you're truly searching for that one thing, it might take a while. You might not discover it when you're 23, or even 33. It has to be a passion, not just a job/trade. Therefore you must be fascinated by it and have a desire to do it -and improve your skills- whether money is involved or not.

But I feel that it's necessary to mention this: you can do multiple things with one life. If you're someone who has trouble sticking with something, I would highly suggest reading this book: Refuse to Choose.

It's a book for people who have a tough time figuring out their "thing," and the message is that you don't have to choose one thing. You can become good/great at multiple things. It's a great book.

Life is long. You seem to be doing ok right now, so don't rush into something just because you're desperate to find your calling. You might end up following the wrong voice.

ooo! And they mentioned this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Refuse-Choose-Interests-Passions-Hobbies/dp/1594866260

Read this https://www.amazon.com/Refuse-Choose-Interests-Passions-Hobbies/dp/1594866260