Reddit mentions of Why Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between)

Anyone who is offended at the thought of you liking them, based on your respective status, is an asshole. Man, woman whatever an elitist shit bag is an elitist shitbag.

But for the love of god, do not accept any philosophy that describes the motivations of "women in general". People do make value judgments when they decide who to have sex with, and yes there are some broad qualities that increase your value.

But thinking that there's one magic key to the way all women think is insane. Women and men want different things at different times for different reasons.

The links you posted are an unverifiable story about a deranged woman, and an article about the importance of self confidence warped to fit a TRP agenda.

If you're interested about how value enters into sexual selection for women, and what motivates women to have sex in general here's a great book

http://www.amazon.com/Why-Women-Have-Sex-Understanding-ebook/dp/B002N44XRC/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425167921&sr=1-1&keywords=why+women+have+sex

It's written by two well respected PHD's in evolutionary biology and presents verifiable conclusions without politicization.

Find a book with scientific references?

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Evolutionary Psychology has a lot of stuff about mating Strategies

Another Approach by Buss and a colleague

PUA and Seduction through the Lens of Evolutionary and Social Psychology

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for the sake of it is on the list, but the list is large. Sex is about everything but pleasure for the most part

This reminds me of the evolutionary psychology book named "Why women have sex?" (https://www.amazon.com/Why-Women-Have-Sex-Understanding-ebook/dp/B002N44XRC/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=) from my human sexuality psych course. This book was my white rabbit. Evolutionary/biologically speaking it is a woman's imperative to acquire the best genes(alpha aka Sancho/Don Juan) and resources/stability(beta aka sugga daddy)

Read it: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Women-Have-Sex-Understanding-ebook/dp/B002N44XRC

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/sep/28/sex-women-relationships-tanya-gold

In terms of opportunity to get easy/accidental flirting & dating practice in finding someone, that's pretty much up to 21-25 years old. The school years.

btw, an escort will not give him any practice in flirting nor dating. I'd also be surprised if it would 'help' him in any way, unless he's very scared about sex or something.

Maybe sort of prepare a 'care package' list, in case he ever wants to get out of this. It *might* be pretty brutal for him once he tries to grasp what he has been doing with his youth. If you look carefull there are good dating coaches, that don't just sell manipulative ways that can get you into pants of party girls. There are some good books that use modern 'evolutionary psychology' research (e.g. "Mate" & "Why women have sex").

Something to think about, but unsure whether helpful: https://mosaicscience.com/story/iceland-prevent-teen-substance-abuse