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Fam! Wow! Thanks so much for all your input! Mind if I ask follow-ups?

> Bring LOTS of cash. Fucking ATMs here charge ridiculous 220 baht ($7 USD) fees. EVERY SINGLE one of them. Exchange a small amount at the airport but do most in town to get a better rate. - Some places take credit cards (Visa and Mastercard, I've yet to see AMEX) but expect a 3% markup at most places. This is still preferrable to the ATM fees though unless you're withdrawing over $200 at once. Many places, especially 7 eleven have a 300 baht ($10 USD) minimum to use a CC as well, which I don't know if you've ever tried to spend $10 USD at a 7 eleven in thailand but it would be enough food for days. - Cabs are fucking ridiculously expensive compared to mexico and even the US, at least where I am. Even grab is a minimum $10 per short trip. Plan on renting a motorbike or taking buses unless you're going to be in Bangkok. It sounds like crazytown, but renting a motorbike for an entire day costs less than a 1km cab ride. Most places will want a 2000 baht deposit or your physical passport though, so again, bring LOTS of cash.

Yuuup! This is the case pretty much everywhere in The Global South / Developing countries. I always bring about 75% of what I plan to spend in the local currency, + the other 25% in USD, and try to stay within a tighter budget while having a safety net. Does 45,000 baht sound like enough for 2.5 weeks, including 8-10 dives? Or should I bring more?

I am never ever giving over my passport to anyone ever again, for any reason. Too many experiences with corrupt fucks. Someone asks me to hand over my passport, I fucking bolt unless there's nowhere to go, or they're physically holding a gun. Most folks in developing countries, even corrupt ones, don't get paid enough to chase you, in my experience.

> RAIN JACKET (especially southern areas). Personally I'm torn between bringing a nice one, or buying a crappy $1 one size here. The plus side of the one size is it'll cover you plus your backpack and most of your shorts, the downside is the hood sucks and it immediately starts getting holes in it

I was planning to bring this: matches my waterproof daypack and stuffs down pretty small. Reckon it'll do the job?

> Bring a light jacket. Once you get used to the weather if there's a cooler day or you're on a motorbike at night it can feel downright chilly

I live in one of the coldest cities in the world (-45-60C is common in winter) and dive in just shorts -- reckon this still applies? I was planning on bringing just this for coverage but it legit provides less warmth than a tank-top. I could bring this too -- pretty light, packs small, looks amazing. Honestly it's probably my favourite garment, and cheap to replace. Think it'll be light enough to wear with versatility? If you reckon it'd be too warm, are there any better alternatives you might suggest?

Maybe I'll wear these outfits in a sauna and see how they hold up, ha ha.

> I'm wearing Icebreaker 150 weight short sleeves, underwear, and midweight socks and have no complaints at all

Perfect. I think my short sleeves are 150 weight, antonica. Two black and one bright blue. Will probably just bring them + 3 of my dopest 100%poly tanks and be good to go for tops... would I avoid overheating, do you suppose, in typical dancefloor situation, wearing a 150 icebreaker T and the Uniqlo comfort jacket?

I have two pairs of icebreaker underwear -- one briefs, that have been super prone to wearing out, and one boxer briefs, which just don't provide any support at all. Is there a model you'd recommend?

> all I need is about 30 Liters

I reckon this 35L sleekness will be pretty appropriate then? The iPad & Keyboard I'm bringing for work will probably amount to nearly 5L, but the bag is designed so that it allegedly carries like a 25L.

> Personally I wouldn't bring the chacos unless they're you're main shoes. They're just too heavy and bulky as a second pair for me

I was planning on using them as my mains: shoes are mainly for air travel, bikes & possibly protection from insects. They're comfy AF and give me an extra inch of height which is cool when you're 5'9. The sneakers I was planning to bring have fairly large soles, but they're ridiculously lightweight. I'm slightly concerned about using them for hiking but will chat with my local shoestore and get their opinion.

> Bring a small daypack that you can stuff flip flops, swim trunks, backup battery, sunglasses, and a rain jacket.

This one should fit the bill! Stuffs down so small you can fit it in a shirt pocket, is submergibly waterproof allegedly, and best of all doesn't look touristy.

> - I'd bring the iPhone 11, slap an ESIM on there for your US number or get a google Fi esim and then use a local SIM for the physical SIM. You'll also have the benefit of a much better camera and probably battery life

Sadly my (Canadian) carrier (Telus) doesn't support eSIM yet -- but I'll check out the TRUEMOVE deal! But thanks for the additional confidence boost to bring the 11. One nice thing about iOS devices is they can all locate each other via GPS, including the airpods, in case anything does get lost or stolen.

> It sounds silly, but if you plan on staying at a hotel or anywhere with a TV bring a fireTV stick and a VPN. Most places have big flatscreens and It's really nice to be able to watch english TV programming occasionally and most places just have the free Thaisat so you'll get maybe one english channel like RT or CGTN or something. There's apps you can get to enable airplay on Firestick as well which is nice to have.

So I'd stick the Firestick into the HDMI, load up NordVPN on my phone, and cast it to the TV? The VPN is so I'm able to access services like Netflix from within Thailand? I'm thinking my downtime will be spent either doing work for school or my solopreneur non-profit, or else hungover in bed with my tablet -- but I'll look into this for the social aspect of it.

Thanks for all your amazing feedback!!!

ok no problem here you go. It's getting pretty late here though so it might be a day or two before I'm back online again:

>Yuuup! This is the case pretty much everywhere in The Global South / Developing countries. I always bring about 75% of what I plan to spend in the local currency, + the other 25% in USD, and try to stay within a tighter budget while having a safety net. Does 45,000 baht sound like enough for 2.5 weeks, including 8-10 dives? Or should I bring more?

Honestly I'd probably just bring your home currency and exchange here because it's gonna be much easier than trying to get Baht currency in the US or Canada or whatever, and I'd imagine the exchange rate would be just as good or better. 45K baht is a shitload man. I usually only withdraw 5k baht at a time from the ATM and that lasts at least a week. If you're not using a CC and doing LOTS of tours or dives and activities and going to bars and tourist restaurants all the time eating 500 baht lobsters and steaks then maybe 10k baht a week, because still you'll probably be booking places on Agoda using a CC to get the best room rates.

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>I am never ever giving over my passport to anyone ever again, for any reason. Too many experiences with corrupt fucks. Someone asks me to hand over my passport, I fucking bolt unless there's nowhere to go, or they're physically holding a gun. Most folks in developing countries, even corrupt ones, don't get paid enough to chase you, in my experience.

I'd prefer not to give mine up either, so I always pay the deposit. They will make a copy or at the very least get your passport number for the paperwork though.

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>I was planning to bring this: matches my waterproof daypack and stuffs down pretty small. Reckon it'll do the job?

Lol you're gonna be riding around lookin like darth maul in that ikea parka. If it's durable I'd say it's worth a shot. The only potential issue I see is that there's no sleeves so your arms are gonna get all wet if you're riding a bike, then puring rain is possibly gonna come thru the large arm slits. I'd get one and try it out though!

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>I live in one of the coldest cities in the world (-45-60C is common in winter) and dive in just shorts -- reckon this still applies? I was planning on bringing just this for coverage but it legit provides less warmth than a tank-top. I could bring this too -- pretty light, packs small, looks amazing. Honestly it's probably my favourite garment, and cheap to replace. Think it's worth it for my purposes? If you reckon it'd be too warm, are there any better alternatives you might suggest?

You'd think so, but there'll be that odd time when you'd wished you'd had a jacket. The one you linked looks just about perfect, but the blazer might be little too formal and possibly bulky? I was thinking more of just a simple zip up wool or synthetic. I've got an arcteryx delta LT personally cuz it's warmth to size and weight ratio is really good without being TOO warm. I might need to pick that Uniqlo hoodie up if it's lighter and smaller than the Delta LT cuz honestly it's a bit overkill unless it's below 50 or 60 F out.

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>I have two pairs of icebreaker underwear -- one briefs, that have been super prone to wearing out, and one boxer briefs, which just don't provide any support at all. Is there a model you'd recommend?

That's just the nature of the beast with the Icebreaker underwear. I'll usually have to replace them once a year or so, but considering I only have 2 or 3 pair it's not too bad, I just wait for a 25% off sale. I prefer their boxers for sure. I've tried some others wool brands in the past but they don't fit nearly as well. I've tried Exofficios too, but not nearly as comfy or odor resistant.

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>I reckon my 35L sleekness will be pretty appropriate then? The iPad & Keyboard I'm bringing for work will probably amount to nearly 5L, but the bag is designed so that it carries like a 25L.

Oh yeah you should be good. I wish I could get away with just an iPad Pro, I'd save considerable amount of bulk and weight.

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>This one should fit the bill! Stuffs down so small you can fit it in a shirt pocket, is submergibly waterproof allegedly, and best of all doesn't look touristy.

That matador looks pretty sweet. I've got an REI flash which is a little bit bulkier but has some back padding. The main thing I wish for is more than one small pocket to stash wallet, room key, motorcycle key, coins, sunglasses, battery bank, etc. Maybe the freerain is better in that regard? Might have to pick one up if so.

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>So I'd stick the Firestick into the HDMI, load up NordVPN on my iPad, and cast it to the TV? The VPN is so I'm able to access services like Netflix from within Thailand? I'm thinking my downtime will be spent either doing work for school or my solopreneur non-profit, or else hungover in bed with my tablet -- but I'll look into this for the social aspect of it.

Yeah, but sometimes regular VPN services can be blocked by some services because they're easily detectable. I use OpenVPN to my router at home for maximum compatibility, and also it's free. There's also the issue that you can't always airplay or chromecast to a TV from apps like netflix, HBO Go, etc. so if you want to play it on the TV it's got to be on the stick with the VPN app connected. It sounds trivial but it's real nice to have some english language anything at the end of the day, even if it's just on in the backgroud.

I left my stick at home because I thought there's no way I'd have time to use it or I'd forget it somewhere, but after like 4 or 5 days I realized that was pretty dumb. I broke down and bought a "TrueTV" box here because Amazon Fire TV isn't a thing you can really get, neither is Roku, neither are smart TVs that have apps built in like flat screens everywhere else in the world, and Apple TVs cost like $100 or $200 more than in the US with major limitations since you can't use VPN apps on them.

Oh, and one more thing I forgot on my original list: SUNGLASSES

Holy shit you'd think you could find some knock off ray-bans or something for cheap in thailand, but outside of Bangkok it's been the exact same shitty dollar store sunglasses at every vendor, or fucking shops in the mall that want $200+ talked down from the $300 of $350 MSRP for *maybe* legit ray-bans or armanis or whatever. Fuck that. There's literally no inbetween. Unfortnately I lost mine before I left and the new pair didn't make it in time.

I forgot to post my deepest darkest kinkiest story involving said object on my first post. My NSFW wishlist is here and the item I want the most is either the cane or the bit gag, probably. But I really love everything on my list so I'd be excited about anything from there!


Using /u/FooTew 's wishlist - this particular item. This is a true story. Hope you like it, /u/NotStuck haha.

So, basically, I'm a Domme. It just comes naturally to me. My boyfriend is quite a sub. While we are not necessarily Poly, we do invite special people into our play occasionally. We occasionally invite in our friend, M. (shortened name for privacy, haha) She is very inexperienced in all senses of the word - but she is a beautiful pale skinned, black-haired beauty who reacts naturally to submission. And has a pain tolerance I haven't seen in quite some time!

M and I are on my couch, watching Secretary in some sexy little lingerie. I'm wearing this item, while M is in this little number. My boyfriend is wearing a french maid's outfit and a chastity cage. He was ordered to prepare us dinner, serve us drinks, and basically be our footstool for the evening. Oh. and foot massages/toenail paintings.

After awhile I stripped him of his outfit and took off his chastity cage, which released one hell of an erection. I tied his knees together and his hands behind his back, and stood him to the side. I also put a blindfold and ballgag on him and teased that he could just spend the rest of the evening guessing what we were doing without him. M and I started to kiss and fondle, and do all of those lovely things (which was really awesome in my crotchless bodysuit!), while the boy whined and somehow wiggled closer and closer to our faces (we were kneeling.) So when we looked up from our kisses, we had his erect dick right in our face. Of course, I had to punish him for invading our space, so I started slapping and flicking his cock, until he apologized around the gag. I returned my attention back on M, and used the nipple/clit clamp I linked on her. She has a reaaaally sensitive pair of nipples so it was great. I made the clamps really tight so they'd leave beautiful indentations when I was done. It was pretty hard to get the clit clamp on (she was pretty wet), but when I finally managed there were definitely some sniffles from her. I consoled her by letting her know that she could help be slap and hit the boy's cock and balls. She slapped the cock while I rubbed my feet on his balls and it was great. I felt a little bad for the poor fucker after awhile, so I slowly led M in to a two-woman blowjob. She wasn't the best, being new to it and all, but she definitely made up for it in exuberance. I ordered her to not let him cum though, because I didn't want to ruin my amusement so early.

After edging the boy for awhile, I pushed him back on the couch and told him I was bored of him and would rather play with M anyway, because he whined too much from the beatings. She sat next to him and spread her legs, so I yanked off the clit clamp (to much yelling) and placed a hitachi on her and then kind of scissored her so it would be pressed between us. Our bodies were close enough to his that he could feel the shaking and trembling of our bodies, but could do nothing but sit there and hump at the air. She didn't take very long to cum at all, and when she started screaming I'm pretty sure I heard the boy whimper, haha.

I felt like after enduring all of that he deserved some fun, so I crawled off of M and sat down on the boy's cock in one swift movement. I think it took all about four strokes before I was cumming hard and so was he.

It was a fantastic evening. We cuddled on the couch for about 30 minutes and then went and got Waffle house! :)


(wow I hope this wasn't too wordy. I loved writing this out. I might even consider writing it out fully over at /u/gonewildstories actually!)

I don't think you are too far off at all. The band seems OK, but maybe just one or two sizes up in the cup.

I find Panache bras in this size range are generally on point in terms of sizing.

If I were you I would buy this: http://www.amazon.com/Sculptresse-Panache-Womens-Molded-T-Shirt/dp/B00EJCHU1C/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1463199782&sr=8-2&keywords=40F+panache+t-shirt

In both 40F and 40G. That's one and two sizes up, although there is FF in between as well. If you find 40F too small and 40G too big, then send both back and try 40FF.

That to me is a really great every day t-shirt bra, and it minimizes more than you'd think, with a decent lift. Makes a really nice rounded shape.

Once you are happy with your size on that bra, then you can go find something a bit sexier like this in the same brand: http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Andorra-Full-Pearl/dp/B003P9WGM8/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1463200070&sr=8-6&keywords=40F+panache

If you need a plunge, Elomi make some amazing plunge bras. They don't plunge HUGELY but way more than a normal full cup, so you can wear v-necks and low cut. This one has stretch lace on the top of the cups, so you get a really great fit if you are a
bit full on top. The sizes between panache and elomi aren't too bad, I think MAYBE Elomi is a bit smaller in the same size as panache, but your milage may vary. I would try the same size that you find works with the panache, then adjust if need be. There is often a slight variance around the same sizes across different brands.

This is a new this season bra from Elomi called the Carmen, so there aren't a ton of reviews, but what is there is positive. I've just ordered this although it hasn't arrived yet. I do have it's predecessor which was the Jocelyn, and it is a fantastic bra:

http://www.amazon.com/Elomi-Womens-Plus-Size-Underwire-Stretch/dp/B011X6FCR0/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1463200130&sr=8-2&keywords=elomi+plunge+40F

Another really comfy t shirt bra I have to recommend is this one:

http://www.berlei.com.au/lift-shape-underwire-bra-yzkd-p83.html

It's in australian sizes though so assuming you turn out to be a 40F, then you would need 18F in australian. You might be able to find it on her room or something. Absolutely worth it, I'd probably recommend it MORE than the panache t shirt bra because the microfibre is so so smooth and comfy.

Hope this helps!

I actually have somewhat similar measurements to yours (except my snug underbust is 40 inches and my leaning bust is about 54 inches). The calculator gave me a 38HH/J, but I've found that I'm having better results in a 38H/HH. I remember when Lane Bryant was the only place from which I bought bras; but finding cuter bras in a size that actually fits my boobs was an eye-opener!

I think the calculator averages your last three measurements to find your cup size, but since pendulous girls will have a larger leaning bust measurement (even though the extra inches aren't actually breast tissue), it can throw off the measurements. I'd start with 40HH bras and go from there.

I can't give too much in the way of specific bra advice, but one thing I'd recommend is to start your search at Amazon. There's quite a few bras there that have free shipping and returns (without needing Prime) so you have the freedom to experiment without wasting a ton of money. Also, the vast majority of bras sold there will be in UK measurements, so you won't have to do too much conversion; just be on the lookout for the ones that do have US sizes.

One bra I'd recommend not getting is the Panache Flirtini. I would have had a better result with this one in a 40H, but even at just a cup size down it made my boobs... disappear. Literally, I put on the bra, looked down, and went "where did they go?" Which is sad because it was super cute; for someone with high projection, though, it doesn't seem to be ideal.

Two other bras I have are a Curvy Kate Bardot and a Curvy Kate Jewel. Both fit okay on me - but they're still a bit too shallow. I've been trying to refer to the cup depth spectrum on the shape guide page here, so it might also come in handy.

From your measurements 36G/GG looks like a good place to start. In US sizing that would be 36I/36J. In fact you may even take 34GG/34H in bras that have stretchy bands. Your current 36 bands feel too tight because the cups are too small. Test this out by trying them on upside down with the cups to the back.

You might be able to purchase in person at Nordstrom or a local lingerie boutique but you will spend a bit to do so. Amazon Prime is your friend here with free 2-day shipping and free returns for any reason.

I wear 34G, also even horizontally and center full. I've tried some of the cheap bras and can tell you you really do get what you pay for. I'm close set, my best fits are Panache Jasmine and Panache Ava Plunge.

To begin with stick with the unlined bras recommended for even fullness in the shape guide. In our size range I feel you're doing well if you can get a good brand name UK bra on sale for $25-$50. I looked some up for you. I noted the sizes most likely to fit you based on data I looked up on bratabase.

Elomi Caitlyn 34GG stretchy band and cups are sized generously, thus 34GG. Wires are on the wide side.

Elomi Anushka 34H

Panache Andorra 36G. Sorry, couldn't find it on sale! $62.

Panache Envy 36G. Again, not on sale with Prime shipping, but a great basic bra and good for "diagnosing" your particular shape. $65.

I'm the one who suggested the Tamara, and while I glad it feels good I think we can find you an even better fit!

In your last fit checks you were worried about not filling out the tops of cups and the side band of your bras rolling down - a half cup has no top to fill out and I knew the Tamara had side boning and wide wires, which I thought would help with the band issue. But it doesn't have enough immediate space for your FOB shape and - in my experience - most half cups don't.

That's being said, there are models that may still work better for you like the Curvy Kate Ritzy, Elomi Anushka and Fantasie Marianna. Freya has a plethora of padded half-cups, but the Patsy and the Rapture are the classic stocked styles. You should also give balconettes another chance: Sculptresse Flirtini is pretty closed on top/FOB friendly, as is Curvy Kate Bardot/Madagascar. And if you can swing it, try 38F and 38E in some styles to get a better idea of fit (as suggested in your previous fit checks).

A word on wires: Curvy Kate probably has the lowest, followed by Panache/Sculptresse then Elomi. I really don't know what will be more comfortable for you and the side panel issue - trial and error might be your best bet.

I think I linked this before, but Mrs. BeBe is a blogger in your size range (38F, FOB) and has some good recs on her site, too!

>I will most likely return this because I'm 99% positive the lace will quickly give out and my breasts will not be covered as they should.

Don't. Or at least rethink.

I need a much larger size than you and my breasts are much heavier, when my bras give out it is not the lace that is a goner, it is the band. The band ends up stretched out and becomes unsupportive while the lace is usually still ok.

So I doubt the lace will give out on your bras.

>the top half is literally lace so my areola and nipple tries peeping through that lace.

First time this happened I was bothered by it too, but I soon got used to it. Using silicone nipple pads or re-useable cotton nursing pads can help you feel less self-concious.

>do think that if it wasn't a full figure (full coverage?) bra that it wouldn't cover my breasts like it should though.

This indicates that you might need to go up to UK 34G or US 34i or even larger.

That is of course assuming Delimira runs true to size, not always a given with these cheap "brands".

>Any advice on what I should do for my next bra? Should I do a bigger size due to my breasts barely being covered?

Please get a known brand and bra that runs true to size. Cleo Marcie or Panache Andorra Fullcup would be a good idea.

https://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Clara-Balconette-Lace/dp/B01IB8U0OI/ - Clara better in 34GG since it is known to run about a cupsize smaller compared to Andorra

https://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Andorra-Full-Pearl/dp/B003ICM6CC/

You should also know that many bras are cut to give you less than full coverage. Plunges or halfcups are good examples.

Curvy Kate Ritzy is a halfcup: https://www.amazon.com/Curvy-Kate-Padded-Balcony-Underwire/dp/B01N3PEQ9G/

Freya Deco as example for a plunge: https://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Plunge/dp/B00N4OMY44/

Knowing how much coverage is normal for a certain size and bra takes experience though.

WACOL STRAPLESS RED CARPET BRA I SWEAR

This bra was around $60 and I don’t know how much you mean by “breaks the bank,” but I feel the strapless bra was so worth for me because it let me wear all the strapless/off the shoulder/square neck tops I want. These tops are flattering on me but I didn’t wear them often because I couldn’t without the straps showing.

I’m a 28 F but got a 30 DD and it stays up all day, I’m able to wear it under anything even if the outfit doesn’t even call for a strapless bra!

I bought mine on amazon (linked below) so if you have prime you can try and return.

Good luck!! Don’t give up!!

Wacoal Women's Red Carpet Strapless Bra,Pecan,30DD https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CEBGOIO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_2RlhDbQHDZBA0

Thank you! I think these are the ones I got here.

They are a bit pricey, but definitely worth it. Great quality. I’m sure you and your wife will enjoy them!

I'm actually seeing a 32E UK sizing as your best starting point (which would be a 32DDD in US sizing) as you shop around, you may find that a 32DD fits better, at least in some brands, but don't rule out trying those E/DDD bras too!

My first recommendation would be the [Panache Andorra] (https://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Andorra-Full-Black/dp/B003ICQ7ZO/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1502385910&sr=1-1&nodeID=7141123011&psd=1&keywords=panache%2Bandorra&th=1&psc=1). It's a great "diagnostic" bra, and will give you a good idea of what to look for moving forward. It's very flattering on even-full, projected breasts, and has a high gore which I think you'll like. It runs about half a cupsize small (IME) so a 32E will likely work.

I had almost exactly the same size progression. Wearing a 38DDD, took my measurements, and should actually be wearing a 38H/HH. I fought it for a long time because I didn't want to have such a ridiculous sounding cup size. But I eventually saw the light. Wearing A Bra That Fits has absolutely changed my life and my confidence. I don't feel any bigger...and in fact...I think my boobs look better and maybe even a little bit smaller than they did in the horribly ill-fitting bras I was wearing before. If you don't have Amazon Prime, I'd recommend signing up for a free trial so you can get free 2-day shipping and free returns.

Panache Envy is one of my new bras since getting properly fitted and I think it's one of my favorites. Prime eligible in your size and in several colors so you can buy a few in different colors/cup sizes, try them on at home, and return the ones that don't work out.

Panache Andorra was another one recommended to me by this sub as a great bra to test my fit and shape with.

Ah, okay.

I would recommend sticking with 32DDD (UK 32E) for now and trying bras with a different shape.

Just like breasts come in all sorts of different shapes, so do bras, so in addition to finding the right size you also have to find bras whose shape is right for your breasts. What you're describing, both the space at the top and the space at the bottom, indicates that this bra is too shallow (not deep enough) for you. Victoria's Secret bras are shallow in shape so they're too shallow for a lot of people. I think you'd do better in fabric seamed cups (aka unlined bras) like this and this. I'd be more than happy to recommend you some bras to try if you'd like.

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2 Simon Pegg
3 A book you are eager to read
4 Eating Utensils
5 Animal
6 Purple.... NSFW
7 A game
8 A guilty pleasure
9 A Tool
10 Something from your childhood
11 An organizational item
12 Hobby-for ghost hunting
13 Nerdy/ Geeky
14 Something Natural
15 Green
16 Something you wear
17 Funny
18 Beads, Bees or Beans
19 Gardening
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Item from your high priority wish list...these are cool

Happy cakeday! Thank you so much for the contest!

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At the moment I can't think of any silly stories, though I have many lol. How long have you known your husband? How old were you when you married? Just wondering!
-PS I am sorry, not sure how to hyperlink or anything so this long with all of the urls.
VAT should probably stop with the complicated contests.

Definitely try another brand. Maybe also another size.

The few people in our size range who tried Alegro said the bras were "cheaply made, badly constructed".

I've found Elomi and Goddess to be good brands, especially if you got wide roots.

Your measurements also point in the direction of a larger cup - UK 44H/HH or better 42 HH/J.

You might also consider going for a 40 band (UK 40 J/JJ) with an extender, it would give you more choice in brands.

I have an underbust of 39 and 43 and wear 40 and 42 bands.

If you think you are full on top (and your measurements indicate you are) consider ordering the Goddess Alice in a bunch of sizes. I know this bra is very full coverage, but it really gives amazing lift. It is boobs in clouds. The Alice runs tight in the band and large in the cup.

Another bra that works well for full-on-top shapes is the Goddess Rose Banded 6080.

Note that Goddess uses US sizes, a 44GG is a 44J and a 42H is a 42K.

http://www.amazon.com/Goddess-Womens-Banded-Underwire-Black/dp/B001JQLOXQ

http://www.amazon.com/Goddess-Womens-Alice-Underwire-Black/dp/B003TRPXNA/

Goddess Clara runs similar to the Alice.

http://www.amazon.com/Goddess-Womens-Clara-Banded-Underwire/dp/B00EZ06GYU/

I also got an Elomi Jocelyn for sale in UK 42H that just calls for firm full on top boobs (mine are not, so it is too large on me), let me know if you are interested.

Agreed. I have been switching to racerbacks for aesthetics with tanks but this is my go-to bra when wearing t-shirts.

Decent price at Amazon too: Champion Women's Spot Comfort Full Support Sports Bra, Black, 34D https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004GXA8S6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_r7LDxbNPB0Q0X

Look at the Kiyonna dresses on amazon. If you have a nice black skirt (like a pencil skirt shape) that you like, just get one of the Kiyonna lace tops. You will look plenty festive.

Separates are so much easier to fit than dresses.

Edited to add link:


Kiyonna Women's Plus Size Linden Lace Top Nouveau Navy https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Q8JXVT6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_wvX1Db6VHMG5N

They have a 25% off coupon on the main page today.

Here with a few more suggestions!

[Magic Wand] (http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0089175GE/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=1KOJU68XO5O4X&coliid=I7MEJ9FRA2YGI&psc=1) - So your wife could enjoy some her time or you can use it to tease/intensify everything.

[nice lingerie] (http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0172J81WA/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_S_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=1KOJU68XO5O4X&coliid=I3HZSV1EP73CMW&psc=1) (plus size just in case ) // nice lingerie - Something that always helps me is feeling sexy & some good lingerie always does the trick.

From my other comment:

You can see the watermark style brand/label that says "Trasparenze" on her hips.

It's these exact ones:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00A9K5UPG/ref=yo_ii_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I know because my gf owns them and I've seen the video. She also owns some of these cheaper ones from Amazon like this one. They're not nearly the same. The Trasparenze ones are very nice compared to the others.

Yesssss I've spent so much on Sofsy stuff. Always decent quality. The higher denier items develop a visually unnoticeable piling after a while, but I think that should be expected.

Also, for an opaque suspender-style, Trasparenze makes a good product too. They've held up very well.

https://www.amazon.com/Trasparenze-Cortina-Opaque-Denier-Panties/dp/B00A9K5UPG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=transparenze&qid=1571806095&sr=8-1

I searched amazon for you! I’m sure there are others this is just a quick search! “34D Sports Bra” and the checked the images on them to check the closures

https://www.amazon.com/Champion-Womens-Comfort-Support-Sports/dp/B004GXA8S6/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2F1I2AUENGM9O&dchild=1&keywords=34dd%2Bsports%2Bbra&qid=1572106239&s=apparel&sprefix=34%2Bd%2Bsport%2Cfashion%2C149&sr=1-4&th=1&psc=1


Natori Sports Bra https://www.amazon.com/Natori-Control-Performance-Convertible-Underwire/dp/B000JXA9PO/ref=sr_1_24?crid=2F1I2AUENGM9O&dchild=1&keywords=34dd+sports+bra&qid=1572106306&s=apparel&sprefix=34+d+sport%2Cfashion%2C149&sr=1-24


https://www.amazon.com/Wacoal-Womens-Sport-Underwire-White/dp/B07CYL6FDX/ref=sr_1_50?crid=2F1I2AUENGM9O&dchild=1&keywords=34dd%2Bsports%2Bbra&qid=1572106306&s=apparel&sprefix=34%2Bd%2Bsport%2Cfashion%2C149&sr=1-50&th=1&psc=1


https://www.amazon.com/SYROKAN-Womens-Impact-Racerback-Support/dp/B00R0Q7HEY/ref=sr_1_61?crid=2F1I2AUENGM9O&dchild=1&keywords=34dd%2Bsports%2Bbra&qid=1572106666&s=apparel&sprefix=34%2Bd%2Bsport%2Cfashion%2C149&sr=1-61&th=1&psc=1

Nope, the one on the video is smooth, it doesn't have that net below the hip. If you want the one on the video, then that would be this one. "Trasparenze" brand and all. But that one is quite expensive, which is why I liked the first one on my original comment

/u/raewild

Both of those are on Amazon. Cleo Lucy and Panache Andorra.

Trasparenze Cortina Opaque 100 Denier Strip Panties - Made in Italy (Black, Small/Medium) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A9K5UPG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_PXr4BbHMZB6T8

Amoretu Womens Crotchless Hosiery Pantyhose Sheer Strecthy Suspender Tights Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XY1C1VT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_NZr4BbR4NBWHR