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Reddit mentions of It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
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Height | 8.16 Inches |
Length | 5.82 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | September 2005 |
Weight | 0.95 Pounds |
Width | 0.94 Inches |
SO MANY HUGS. I was in precisely your shoes last year. My boyfriend of about 3 years showed signs of being unhappy for a couple of months, but assured me that things were fine (he was absolutely terrible at talking about things.) I went to visit him (we're also university students,) I asked him again if everything was okay and if there was anything he wanted to talk about. He said everything was good. Three weeks later he dumped me on the phone.
I felt like you did - in physical pain, devastated and feeling like the worst thing in the world had happened to me. I had to go to work the next day and spent the whole day shuffling around like a zombie. I cried all the time and begged him for answers as to why he dumped me. I got some vague ones but no real closure on the fact that he dumped me on the phone instead of in person (aside from the explanation that he's a coward.)
It's going to take time to get better. It's been a year since this happened to me and I feel a lot better about it. I'm over it but I'm not quite at the point where I can look back on our relationship with fondness. I'll share some of the things that made me feel better:
Feel free to PM me if you feel like talking. Take care of yourself - I know it doesn't feel like it but you're going to be okay <3.
I'm sorry. :( Mostly it just takes time - how much probably depends on how in love with your girlfriend you were. I have been there and the only thing that really helps me (aside from time and being busy) is reading this book nearly everyday. It's geared towards women but I have a guy friend who got a lot out of it too. It's brutally honest and also really funny. You can read the first few pages on the link I gave you if you click on "search inside this book."
You need to get this book
http://www.amazon.com/Its-Called-Breakup-Because-Broken/dp/0767921852
then i found the love of my life a few months later!!
I'm here giving you internet hugs! When I went through my last breakup, I bought this book and read through it. I'm usually not one for self-help books, but someone online had suggested it and I'm here paying it forward.
Other than that, just know that it's okay to feel hurt. You loved someone, it's over, and that really sucks right now. I believe in you. :)
I commend you for putting your foot down. This book is kinda amazing. This book is kinda funny. This book is kinda deep.