(Part 2) Reddit mentions: The best bedding sheets & pillowcases

What's your price range? Also are you in the US or another country? I can put together something more detailed if you give me that. Going to assume this is a college dorm if it isn't let me know. Side note: my partner says your room looks just fine for a college room but she thinks I'm a bit too into design stuff anyways.

Won't make your room look nicer but if your college will let you replace the mattress do that first, if not throw a mattress pad on top. Sleep is so undervalued in college, both you and any visitors will appreciate it. Here is a mattress pad for ~70 and here is one for under $20.

Along the same line get some nice pillows. Here is a decent set of 2 for ~$20.

Can't see your sheets but if you only have one set, please please get at least more than one set and wash them weekly! Amazon basics get the job done and are dirt cheap for sheets Here is a twin xl in spa blue for $13.99.

Before you buy anything else, you can also go a long way by just organizing all the stuff on the top of the dresser and the bookshelf. Try to have a home for everything and anything you don't use regularly should be out of sight.

Ok that out of the way, we can now go into fixing some of the design/color issues. The dark blue comforter and the black clash too much with the white walls (black wall hangings rarely work btw). Also, none of the wood finish matches and there is barely any color in the room.

Here's how to fix those in order of importance

Step 1: Ditch the giant yin-yang tapestry, unless it means something to you. Same with the meme poster. Also, you don't need three whiteboards...Replace all that with some wall art. Erstwhile is my personal favorite for wall art, really any of there pieces will do. They are a bit pricey ($200-$400) for a college student though. I'd look through Etsy under wall art to find something you like at a decent price point. Or try society6.com like the other poster said. As a note get framed pieces or something that doesn't need to be framed if you can.


Step 2: Get rid of the Black curtain and replace with a lighter color or even something with a pattern. Match it to whichever wall art you chose above.

Step 3: Get a plant, assuming your college allows it. Arichea Palms, Boston Ferns, and Ficus are all super easy to take care of and don't need a ton of light.

Step 4: Replace your comforter and throw pillows and match to the wall art/curtain.

Step 5: This is a personal pet peeve but match the wood finishes unless you know how to make them play off of each other. I'd watch craigslist and slowly replace the furniture as cool things pop up. The desk would be the first thing I'd try to replace, it is way too small to be a decent workspace. There are tons of sub $100 dollar computer desks on Amazon. Also, check out IKEA if you have one near you.

If you need advice on color matching or anything else please let me know.

This is going to be fun. Across my multiple wishlists...

1.) Something that is grey.
Grey bedsheets.

2.) Something reminiscent of rain.
Pet water fountain.

3.) Something food related that is unusual.
Astronaut Ice Cream

4.) Something on your list that is for someone other than yourself. Tell me who it's for and why. (Yes, pets count!)
This Bruins banner is for my BFF Becky. She loves the Bruins more than anything. Hockey is her obsession. I put it on my list to remind myself to get it for her at some point. It would make her happy.

5.) A book I should read! I am an avid reader, so take your best shot and tell me why I need to read it!
The Name of the Wind. Of everything I've read in the past 6 months, this one I devoured and have been desperate for the second book in (it's on my list to pick up this week, actually, if my paycheck EVER comes in).

Look, I hate... HATE... first person perspective. I see it as a sign of sloppy writing. However, this book had me SOLD on it. Kvothe is possibly one of my new favorite characters OF ALL TIME.

Avid reader doesn't even begin to describe me. I have my own library. I need books like air. And if I had to make a list of 100 books that were all I was allowed to have for the rest of my life, THIS WOULD BE ON IT.

6.) An item that is less than a dollar, including shipping... that is not jewelry, nail polish, and or hair related!
This kindle book

7.) Something related to cats. I love cats! (keep this SFW, you know who you are...)
The most interesting cat toy in the world

8.) Something that is not useful, but so beautiful you must have it.
This choker. Enough said.

9.) A movie everyone should watch at least once in their life. Why?
The Breakfast Club Why? Because. It's a good movie. Whether you were the jock, the brain, the spoiled brat, the loser, or the troublemaker-- there's a character you can identify with, and it shows that whatever and whoever you are, you can get along with someone who isn't in your clique.

10.) Something that would be useful when the zombies attack. Explain.
A Seed Vault

Everyone worries about fighting zombies.

Dumb. You see, when the zombies come, I'm holing up. A few weeks and if they are undead, they'll have rotted themselves to death. If they are fast moving, viral sumbitches, then they'll have likely ended up offing themselves through dehydration or whatever.

In any event, I'll wait them out. But then, I will need to rebuilt and eat.

(Besides, I have my trusty zombie-killing baseball bat, and a bow. Quiet. Efficient.)

11.) Something that would have a profound impact on your life and help you to achieve your current goals.
This book on Aztec and Inca expansionism. I'm back in school, and my focus is Mesoamerican Studies. Eventual degrees, here I come!

12.) One of those pesky Add-On items.
Zucchini seeds.

13.) The most expensive thing on your list. Your dream item. Why?
A KitchenAid Mixer Why? I like to cook and bake. My mother has one that I used for years when I was a kid and still living with her. I'm 30 now. I remember she got it when I was like, 5. IT STILL WORKS. Over a dozen moves, being abused for holidays making bread and cookies and cakes, being used by my Dad (I swear, he looks at appliances and they break) and it STILL FUNCTIONS PERFECTLY.

I cannot think of a kitchen appliance that would be more useful.

14.) Something bigger than a bread box. EDIT A bread box is typically similar in size to a microwave.

This loft bed

15.) Something smaller than a golf ball.
How about 7 somethings? A set of dice.

16.) Something that smells wonderful.
Italian Herb Bread Mix It smells good when you open the box. When it's mixed. While it's rising. While it bakes. After it bakes. As you've slathered butter on it and begin to nom.

17.) A (SFW) toy.
Hawkeye is so SFW I would bring him in to put on my desk.

18.) Something that would be helpful for going back to school.
This book, of course.

19.) Something related to your current obsession, whatever that may be.
Funko Tyrion Lannister because even a small man can cast a great shadow.

20.) Something that is just so amazing and awe-inspiring that I simply must see it. Explain why it is so grand.
This.

No one will understand the magnificence of this plushie.

It is a rotund, cuddly, snuggly Cthulhu.

But Cthulhu does not cuddle. He does not care. When the stars are right, he will rise from the deeps and from his seat Ry'leh, devour his cultists-- and everyone else-- by the millions, and bring forth an end to all things.

But how can you deny his Elder God wrath? HOW?! Look at him, all squishy and warm and soft. Look at his little T-Rex arms, reaching out for your love and devotion. His eyes, his wiggly little face tentacles. YOU MUST SNUGGLE HIM.

fear cuts deeper than swords

What do we say to death? NOT TODAY.

I'm a guy, but my hair used to look kind of like yours earlier in the year when I used ManeLine Premium Shampoo Alternative. The problem? Hydrolyzed Soy Protein. Some hair is protein sensitive and it can really make your hair look like trash.

Also, don't put too much product in your hair. I used to use SheaMoisture Shea Butter on my hair because it was all I had, but while it looked nice and shiny at first, it weighed my hair down and made it look stiff as straw a while afterwards. Same goes for showering. Heavily soaked hair throughout the day that doesn't get the chance to dry will end up stiff as well.

To fix it, I used a traditional ethnic natural bar soap (not the ordinary kind you find at Walmart) and pretty much scrubbed my hair silky clean for a fresh start. I let it sit for a while and washed it all off with moderately cold water. I then brushed it, which I probably should have used a wide toothed comb for instead, but it was tangled really bad. My hair was unbelievably weightless and looked like a lion's mane lol. After a few days, waves started forming again. However, don't let that deep wash be a part of your routine. It's only necessary to reboot your hair. Allow your hair to develop its natural oils after a few days, then clean it again. Scrunch your hair with your hands so it takes shape. Make sure you scrunch not only the bottom, but the top and sides as well to avoid flat roots. Be careful not to put too much pressure on your hair while doing this.

Next, I detangle my hair with a wide toothed comb and coil my strands with my fingers. My hair is longer than yours and I didn't do this when it was short. Tying my hair up in a towel was enough for me at the time. Also, because my hair is longer now, I have to frequently detangle it. I use a wide toothed comb once a week and comb with my fingers from there. Detangling gives it more volume too.

Also, do not use traditional towels and don't scrub your hair with them aggressively. They are really harsh on your hair and it looks terrible. Tie a microfiber towel on your head to let the hair take shape. Then after a while, let it air dry. I use https://www.amazon.com/DuraComfort-Essentials-Absorbent-Anti-Frizz-Microfiber/dp/B00YE3CPW0. Cotton t-shirts are okay, but they aren't very absorbent, so I don't use them as much anymore.

I sleep with a satin pillow case with my hair spread out above my head, but most recommend to tie their hair up in a bun or put a scarf over it. I use https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01N6N6V94. I don't really know what it does, but I guess it maintain's the waves/curls.

Now, I don't put any product in my hair at all. I don't use conditioner either, but that's because I don't know what to choose. My hair is more straight/wavy with moderate curls at the ends. You'll be surprised at what a little splash of cold water and frequent scrunching can do for your hair as well. I just wish it was slightly more defined like Chris Cornell's. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/42/a4/f3/42a4f382dde6f6e06dd4d23581d9fbba.png.

Don't forget to eat healthy and get enough sleep! Drink plenty of water. It will show in your hair.

The lesson? Avoid protein in your products, don't over moisturize your hair, and don't be aggressive with your hair.

For a grown-up bed, I find that a more "grown-up" style might be appealing. However, it can still be fun!
First of all [these] (http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00D6PJ3ZE?qid=1405387428&qid=1405387428&qid=1405387428&sr=8-5&sr=8-5&sr=8-5) are the Best sheets. Jersey knit makes me feel like I'm wrapped up in my comfiest, softest t-shirt.

Next, you mentioned you like yellow. I suggested gray sheets because I think gray and yellow to great together. I personally would also chose a gray bedspread of some sort. I'd finish it of with [this] (http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007CW0IHO?cache=1d0d5788f6958ef2ec7009cf82b64177&pi=SY200_QL40&qid=1405387882&sr=8-2#ref=mp_s_a_1_2) for accent pillows.

I've always been into different fandoms and whatnot, but at some point I decided to change to a more adult style and put all the memorabilia type stuff in my fun room. My bedding makes my whole room feel a lot more clean and welcoming. I don't mean that in a bad way, I just grew to love a more muted, adult style than I thought I would, and you might too!

If you want some more whimsical bedding though I found a marauders map throw earlier that is in my wishlist! You'd probably like it as well! :)

I know you said Supima, but I went on a sheet spree a few years ago and researched for hours daily on what to get lol. I bought some Egyptian cotton sheets that felt great, but pilled extremely badly after a couple of washes. Then I bought some Egyptian cotton from Kohl's which turned out to be comfortable and are still good to this day, but I don't use those anymore.

I use bamboo and let me tell you that it's incredible. I got a random email from some dude saying his product just hit Amazon and he gave out a half off limited time offer code. I purchased them and the guy sent a personalized thank you note with the item. I can't tell you enough how comfortable these sheets are. Cool in the summer and keeps you warm in the winter. Look up bamboo.

Bamboo Sheets by Bamboo Tranquility - Supreme Quality 4 Piece Bamboo Bed Sheets Set https://www.amazon.com/Bamboo-Sheets-Tranquility-Supreme-Quality/dp/B01FIJWCHQ/ref=pd_sim_201_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01FIJWCHQ&pd_rd_r=QM9AKKEKVEAEB4MMQGW6&pd_rd_w=u2OJr&pd_rd_wg=tFm1t&psc=1&refRID=QM9AKKEKVEAEB4MMQGW6

OK, I got the Amazon sheets, washed them according to the instructions, and put them on. Here's an album : http://imgur.com/a/yIVo6

I got these sheets : http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NY4RUW

They are definitely not as soft as the Wamsutta Dream Zone but they feel sturdier. The Dream Zone makes the top sheet of this set feel like a burlap sack. The Pinzon fitted sheet is much softer than the Pinzon top sheet, but still nowhere near the softness of the WDZ sheets. In fairness to Amazon, the WDZ sheets were washed a lot over the last couple years, so the Pinzon sheets may catch up in softness after a while, but the difference right now is noticeable. They feel like they will last more than two years, though ($200 for two years, thanks a lot, BB&B!)

The fitted sheet has elastic all the way around the sheet instead of just at the corners and it has deep corner pockets. It fits over my mattress and topper, about 18" worth of bedding. If you have a king, make sure you get the right version (king vs. CA king) because the CA king are definitely made to spec and wouldn't fit a regular king.

One of the other posters mentioned Target. My gf bought sheets for her old bed, now our guest bed, at Target. She got some of the 500-or-so-thread-count sateen sheets. They're very soft. My experience with the BB&B WDZ sheets makes me think that soft, sateen sheet sets don't last, but if the Target sheets, which were $50, last 10 years as the other poster said, I would definitely buy those over either the BB&B (crappy quality) or the Amazon (not as soft) sheet sets.

edit : didn't get it in the picture, but the Amazon sheets are made in China.

I'm not sure about "shabby chic" but 100% linen sheets are the best in my opinion. They are more expensive up front, but with care, will last generations. At least among bed sheets, 100% linen sheets are the most buy-it-for-life.

I have sets from Linoto (sold on Amazon) and Restoration Hardware. RH sells both cotton-linen blends and 100% linen sheets; be sure to get the right ones. They also have pretty reasonable sales from time to time. I've had great experiences with both!

Edit: West Elm has a sale right now on Belgian Flax linen sheets. Not sure if the quality is up to snuff (others may be able to shed light), but the price isn't terrible for linen.

I got my first apartment a couple weeks ago but my roommate went out of town shortly after and it took him a while to move in, but now he is and we have furniture! We have a complete cooking set and living room, now all we need are plates and silverware. I'm super excited. I also ordered my first bed. I've never owned my own bed before. I'm psyched!

Edit: Here's the mattress: [Zinus Memory Foam 6 Inch Green Tea Mattress, Full] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MT85NGJ/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_F3kmzbQTPCW0R)

And here's my beautiful bed

I'm going to buy light pink sheets and I have a cream colored comforter which I've had since college. I'm also going to have a bench at the foot of my bed.

It's so nice to finally be feminine after so many years ❤❤

I got you fam

Pinzon 400-Thread-Count Hemstitch Egyptian Cotton Sheet Set - King, Light Grey https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009C4NUU2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_dM.Jxb6MVHSFB


For real though, these sheets are awesome and hold up well. Had them for over a year now. Super soft, look great, breath great, reasonably priced.

Bonus duvet cover, use it with out a filler for year-round comfort and good weight.

Pinzon Heavyweight Cotton Flannel Duvet Set - King, Graphite https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007NE88UU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_9N.JxbR63BZQN

Okay, understood.

If you want soft foam, something like Casper but softer, then there are basically two ways to go. Either memory foam, or latex. If you want a soft memory foam mattress, you could try the "soft" option from novosbed.com , but I would not recommend that as your best option for two reasons: (1) the soft novosbed uses 3.7-pcf density memory-foam which is below the 4-pcf density minimum for decent quality memory foam and (2) with soft memory foam you tend to sink in more than with other foams, which could result in sleeping hot.

So, I suggest that latex may be your best option. But you would need a soft latex layer, preferably Talalay because it breathes better, and a thin, stretch cover over the latex, otherwise it would not feel as soft as with latex below a thicker quilted cover. With that in mind, I recommend you try sedonasleep.com , where you can buy a two-piece mattress: a polyfoam base with a Talalay latex topper. The topper has four firmness options, and I assume you would prefer the softest ("#19 Soft").

I also suggest cotton jersey knit sheets, and (after the trial period is over so you are not forfeiting your ability to return) no mattress protector or mattress pad. You can double up the fitted sheet if you want to add a little more cotton above the latex. It is difficult to find good cotton jersey knit sheets. Here are the best I have seen:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BX9ZCEA/

I have one of those pillows with the cooling gel which helps me a lot
https://www.amazon.com/Classic-Brands-Reversible-Memory-Standard/dp/B00MGLOX40/ref=sr_1_7?s=bedbath&ie=UTF8&qid=1497840698&sr=1-7&keywords=cooling+pillow

 

The heat totally does me in too.

 

Also, I tend to run cold water over my wrists (underside, where you can see the veins) or hold an ice cube between my wrists for a few seconds or as long as I can. It really helps even though for some it's just an old wives tale. Also putting a cold cloth on the back of your neck, groin area, and on top of your head is supposed to help.

 

If you can Percale sheets tend to stay cooler longer, they tend to be a bit expensive (around $60US) but I've had mine for 5+ years and they are still my favorite sheets https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Percale-Egyptian-Cotton-Comfortable/dp/B01LMDQ994

 

A strong (8000btu) window a.c. unit is helpful too, and sometimes you can find them on Craigslist.

 

I hope you find some relief

I had this problem ALL the time when I was at my highest, just over 400. It’s interesting to hear that someone else experienced it. I did toss and turn a lot more than I do now, due to my untreated hip dysplasia, but so did my ex, who was normal sized, and his side only rarely popped off. Now that I’m 100+lbs lighter, it only happens when I’ve waited too long to wash my sheets, which is a good reminder that I’ve been a little gross and forgotten to strip the bed, lol. I used all the clips, too, and they would work for a couple days, but what I found that finally worked for a week at a time or so was the select comfort sheets, because they have big ol elastic straps in the corner, but they were like $150/set of king sheets...still, as a big ol fat cripple, you gotta pick your battles, and paying a ton for sheets was worth it then. It used to be nearly impossible to find sheets with those pre-sewn straps, but now lots of amazon sellers have sheets like that, and now that I’m spoiled by them, I’ll never go back!


ETA:

Reasonably priced sheet recommendation
Have had 2 sets of these for 2yrs, and they’re as good or better than $150+ select comfort sheets.

I agree duvet and hypoallergenic comforter. I love these duvets and they come with matching pillow cases. High end look and feel for great price.

For sheets I really like these . I have two sets of sheets and duvet that I rotate for same day turnovers. Have gotten many compliments on comfy bed.

I do sheets, light blanket, duvet-covered comforter, two soft pillows, two memory foam fill pillows, and a cute throw pillow, with towels rolled and placed at the end of the bed for hotel effect. All white so when I’m washing everything together if there’s a stain I can throw in a little fabric-safe bleach.

HAPPY CAKE DAY!

Sheets? I bought these in yellow recently and they are very comfy and wash/wrinkle release easily.

I would love these $9 Ball Mason Jars because I use them for very pretty cocktails I want to make on Easter. OR I would love BOMB entries. OR I would love to be surprised. I am not able to choose anything today!

you suck at shopping

Okay so I went with the "I love you to the moon and back".
I don't know if he wears Jewelry but I thought that looked pretty manly and non expensive. I also found this which could be sort-of manly. Kinda expensive but I thought these were cute. OKAY AND I KNOW THAT THIS IS way over budget, but it includes sloths and what's a better gift than you?

TJ Maxx/Homegoods often have fantastic, name brand pillows for about $10 each. They're sent there because a seam is crooked or some of the batting is sticking out. Fantastic quality though.

These are the best sheets I've had, especially for their price. Great quality, super soft. Target has really nice high thread count cotton sheets, but they're 2-3x the cost and honestly, I like these better.

I think Amazon has a great selection of sex & BDSM stuff, but the website makes it hard to find the good stuff. I'm convinced it's designed to lure buyers to buy specific products from certain vendors, so window shopping might be difficult and lead the buyer to cheaper products.

The way I shop on amazon for kinky stuff, is I find a really good pro domme's Amazon wishlist and go from there. Seriously, you find some REAL gems that amazon never suggests (or even shows up in feed).

That's how I discovered this. With the rest, this isn't a bad crop IMHO and this guy is fun and simple.

I bought a yard of linen fabric intending to hem the edge, producing my own Iinen bath towel for about $8.00. Great plan, except I can’t find it, and might have tossed it in the goodwill bag for some insanely stupid reason.

Just received this one https://www.amazon.com/Green-Foster-Product-Natural-Indigo/dp/B01NB9IQLG which looks decent out of the package. Currently its in the dryer. I’ve run it through the laundry once to get any shrinkage out of the way. We’ll see what happens. Initial impressions are that a full-size bath towel that doesn’t take any more room in a bag, or weigh more, than a shirt is a good thing. I’ll probably get a hand-towel or washcloth sized one for the times when I really want to travel light, but the bath towel sized one might be a good one for even ultralight packing, just because it doubles as a tablecloth or beach/picnic towel .


Edit:

Size: 27” x 57” (ca. 68cm x 144cm), 180g
For comparison, a cotton terry towel from the shelf at home: 27” x 48”, 485g.

Tested it out this morning. Different feel, as it doesn’t have the terry-looped texture of a traditional bath towel. Drying off with this towel requires more of a squeegee action than a rub-and-let-it-absorb. That said, it did its job.

I left it draped over the back of a wooden chair to dry. I came home four hours later to find a completely dry towel.
I rolled it up - it takes about as much space as one of my t-shirts (usually XL). I can even fold it and stow it in my toiletries cube.

Between the quick drying time and packability, I give it a two-thumbs-up. If it were about a foot longer, and I had a third hand, it’d double as a scarf and I’d give it three thumbs up.

On Amazon! :) I have tried a few brands now, and they each work like a charm for my wavy (normally tangly and frizzy) hair!

Some brands:

Alaska Bear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CXQZNC8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_OK0vDbS0QTH97

Mommesilk: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LXSZ736/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_iM0vDbA5G5057

And another (cheap) brand not worth mentioning, because it was the first one I bought before I learned about what momme is, and it doesn't mention it anywhere.

I have Amazon ones, this one specifically to maintain my curls 2nd/3rd day.

I got this one off amazon. Not as pricey as Outliers.

Saw the bamboo on Bamboo and linen I'm swaying towards the bamboo cause its a quite a bit cheaper. What do guys think in comparison? I've never had any experience with any of these before.