Reddit mentions: The best lingerie camisoles & tanks for women

For myself, it honestly took trial and error, so I'll spare you the messy beginning and tell you where to start.

I'd strongly suggest getting this product. White, light grey, dark grey, and black spaghetti strap tank tops, no built-in bras, nice long length. Black/white monochromatic is imo essential to start.

Buy jeans in grey, black, and dark-wash blue. I personally don't like light-wash blue or tan, but if you do, then do you. Don't get busy with accents on your pants, and don't try for colored pants quite yet. You just want something basic that fits and is flexible.

Finally, find cardigans you like. Try to find styles meant to be worn with an open front, so you can pair with the tank top bottom layer for color experimentation. Again, initially, stick to monochromatics--find something black, find something grey, maybe something white if you're not a particularly messy person.

Then, just buy stuff and try it on. I started out buying jewel tones in purple, green, and blue; I quickly realized it just didn't work well for me, and I was better with earthy tones. Buy colors you wouldn't otherwise try and try them. Be realistic about the colors that don't work on you. Narrow down what works to three colors, then aggressively search for what matches those.

Target has a very nice selection of tank tops and T shirts for relatively cheap. They also have button-up cardigans, although I'm not so much a fan of those. Amazon has multiple listings like this, which help a great deal in mixing and matching. Always go shopping with a plan, though--wear at least two of the three items, and shop for the third. Don't let yourself get distracted by something that's theoretically nice--if it doesn't fit what you've already built, then it's never going to work.

Mermaid and a merman? :) They make super cute fish scale leggings and tops with shells on the chest. I bought this mermaid headband for an underwater themed birthday party and it was super cute. Your husband could wear a fish scale tank and have a little trident, maybe put some aquatic stuff in his beard? Fish scale makeup is really easy too, just a fishnet stocking/wig cap over your face and then apply shimmery eyeshadow.

I feel like it might be difficult finding something similar without a lot of scouring. The "lace overlay" style was more common then, I know I had a longer sleeve variant. A few brief Amazon searches, there are some similar, but different, tops here and here. I'll continue to dig around though, since I like the style as well.

Edit: This one is close as well, a little bit closer I think.

I don’t know anything about taping but if you have tops that fit but you feel show too much cleavage you could try a cleavage cover thing.

You're welcome! I have two, they're great.

Seems like something like this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07P63BV29/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B07P63BV29&pd_rd_w=Q9Hko&pf_rd_p=8a8f3917-7900-4ce8-ad90-adf0d53c0985&pd_rd_wg=p3qoH&pf_rd_r=F1Q2KNG0QFXXGHYQ70G3&pd_rd_r=42101d5b-832d-11e9-89d0-b7902472ba38 might work really well for you. I used to wear bandeaus over my bra under low v neck shirts, and that worked well, but the bandeaus tend to cut into your chest in a weird spot- I don't think you would have that issue with these. Hope you find something you like!

I have no idea how shallow-friendly it is in your size range but Panache makes a bra cami with a bra-sized padded underwire bra built in instead of just the shelf bra thing.

ETA: I think the Bravissimo strappy tops are made by Panache (same OV15 model number) so if tops from one end up working or not working you'll probably have the same/similar fit from the other.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B075NLWQNP/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1511195596&sr=1-1&pi=SL180_SX125_CR0%2C0%2C125%2C180_QL70&th=1&psc=1. I didn't have any shrinkage but I let all of my tops air dry.

I'm partial to these Maidenform Cotton Camis in XL as a 36HH, but they do leave a lot of top and side boob visible. They're fantastic to sleep in, though. No wandering ladies.

I buy mine at Amazon.com.

Pink Wind Women's Bra Padded Cami Tank Adjustable Camisole Basic Tanks Tops White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01D8HJ9AI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_qCoqDbCX90C29

Kurve Y-Back Cami with Removable Pad, UV Protective Fabric UPF 50+ (Made with Love in The USA) Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D3J5745/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_xDoqDbKGD3H1Y

I have purchased other styles too, but these can get you started.

I sometimes have that problem as I have small shoulders so shirts often go super low in the neckline for me. I've used half camis successfully. That might work if you're able to layer that underneath.

You could try an even more distracting hat to drive attention away :P

Otherwise, something like this may be useful https://www.amazon.com/Cleavage-Cover-Original-Snappy-Cami/dp/B00WDEG9Y2 as it only covers the cleavage on display and does not require a full garment underneath.

Oh and deals like this:
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Depending on your size these deals go down to 10$ for a pile of basics

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I looked for everything on Amazon:
Scarf
Pink top
Heart belt
Hello kitty themed sleep mask
Bootcut jeans
Baby pink slippers
Edit: I forgot about the camisole

I like it without the fabric too so I would want to attach something permanently. I have found a few lace mini camisoles on amazon that obthink would work. Like this http://www.amazon.com/dp/B001E5SW6Y/ref=cm_sw_r_udp_awd_5Kvrtb0YR28DK

As for the material, I would guess polyester with lots of stretch. It is at home so I can't check the tag, I tried to find it online. Lots of pictures if the dress but no material content that I could find quickly...

This may work.

http://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Cotton-Lycra-Camisole/dp/B003RMYSXS/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top?ie=UTF8

https://www.amazon.ca/PANACHE-Womens-Cotton-Lycra-Camisole/dp/B005THWJY4

I absolutely love these lace camis and use them all the time with lower necklines. They are silky smooth and stand up well to washing. They are a bit shorter than most other camis, but that's a plus for me because I'm petite, and I hate when others go down past my bum.

Is this post really supposed to be an apology? Because it certainly doesn't sound like one at all.

Look, almost everyone has issues with finding a bra that fits and we all need to make compromises. Whether it's needing a 26 band and having to go up to 28 or 30, or having to pay $60 for one bra when you were used to paying $20 for a pack of two, everyone here struggles in some aspect. Yes, you do face challenges due to your band and cup size, but it's not acceptable for you to belittle and insult those who you think "don't have it as difficult" as you. You need to seriously get over yourself; you're not some martyr who suffers alone while we all have it easy.

You need to get over your aversion to seams. They're there for a reason, okay? Bra companies don't just add them on for aesthetics. You have large breasts and they need more support than small ones. That's why seamless bras aren't offered in larger sizes: they lack the necessary support. Unless a moulded bra is made in your size, you need to accept the fact that the only way you'll achieve a good fit is by buying a seamed bra. If you're truly that against visible seams, go buy a half cami. Yes, they exist.

Nobody was attacking you on that thread (quite the opposite was happening, actually). This is a supportive community and we all want to help each other. The vast majority of us are not professional bra fitters or people who work in the bra industy, so complaining to us and blaming us for things we have no control over is not the way you should respond to people who are trying to offer your helpful advice.

Unfortunately, you seem to (even in this "apology" thread) reject all the help that's offered to you. I mean, someone offered to buy you a bra and pay shipping for you, and you turned them down because of "humiliation" (a reason I find completely baffling). If you're going to reject what is essentially the most help you could possibly be offered on this sub, then I just don't understand why you bother posting (unless you just like to complain and get attention).