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> reviews on Amazon and it seems the biggest complaint is that they move when you're doing any activity other than sitting still,

99% of the ones I've seen on Amazon are cheaply produced in China and sold (under various brands) by US resellers. Many of them have uncovered PUL fabric (polyurethane laminate) which is slippery and will absolutely move around more than other materials.

As far as non-slip material, your best choices are:

• Pads that use a synthetic microfleece backing. The microfleece is water resistant (not water proof) but breathable, so good for hot weather. The microfleece has a nice "grip" on your underwear.
  
  
• Pads that have a regular fabric (like flat cotton or flannel) backing. Not water resistant, but if you use a heavy enough pad for your flow (and change regularly) this isn't an issue. (And is highly breathable.)
  
  
• Pads that have a hidden layer of PUL that's covered by flat cotton or flannel. Least breathable (so they get hotter and stay damp, more like disposable pads do), most waterproof.
  
  With any cloth pads (or disposable pads) wearing snug cotton panties that are full cut (not narrow around the crotch or bum) is useful for a good fit and them staying in place.
  
  If you do want to go the Amazon route, I would suggest something like [these]
  (https://www.amazon.com/Blossom-Menstrual-Sanitary-Charcoal-Absorbecy/dp/B00ZO8M7ZO/) for a budget option. The backing is a minky that is fairly slip-resistant. I own these pads and they're good for the price, but definitely not your best option out there. Amazon really isn't the best option for buying cloth pads at all.
  
  Etsy is the best source. My favorite shops are [Mamabearbabywrear]
  (https://www.etsy.com/shop/MamaBearBabyWear?section_id=5887106) for a high-quality budget option, or [Mothermoonpads]
  (https://www.etsy.com/shop/MotherMoonPads) for a high-quality mid-price option. But there are many other sellers with hundreds of good reviews. Mamabear's are the best if you are hand washing and hang drying, as they fold out to make them easy to thoroughly clean by hand. Either of these brands you can expect to last you 7+ years of monthly use with good care.
  
  If you will be hand washing, think about how many pads you use during your two heaviest days (to allow for drying time if you wash daily) and add a few extra pads for safety. Plus get a mix of absorbency that matches your flow.
  
  I've been super happy with my cloth pads, and would be happy to answer any other questions you might have.

I am not sure what you mean by how to get them fixed, but sometimes they do move, they are snap on usually - but if you find the right shape you can get one that will sit in the right spot. There are also many options for menstrual products! Ill link some resource below :)

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There's a whole sub to check out: r/clothpads

You could try supporting Etsy sellers, many people have gotten theirs through people who make them themselves!

Here's a handy site which is useful to anyone interested in cloth pads, not just making them: https://clothpads.wordpress.com

I bought thicker, fleece-like reusable pads before, I didn’t like them because I felt they were too bulky and held the heat/moisture in in the summer. I now use cotton, breathable pads by THINKCO: https://www.amazon.com/THINKECO-Organic-Reusable-Menstrual-Sanitary/dp/B071GKWPT8/ref=sr_1_16?keywords=reusable+menstrual+pads+100%25+cotton&qid=1558199515&s=gateway&sr=8-16

For laundry, some people can just fold them up and wait for laundry day, but I found mine stain. Not the worst thing in the world, they are going to stain, but I like to keep them looking clean. Someone told me to put them in a bucket to soak in-between washes. so that is what I do. Usually scrub them by hand together against themselves.

Various types of menstrual products: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3WQH4AQozB0

Period kit example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XUpUne3sbSw

Another tampon option is applicator free tampons! They are still wrapped in a small amount of plastic, but it’s much much less than normal tampons. It’s also easier on the go if you don’t have a place to easily recycle the cardboard applicator or can’t/don’t feel comfortable keeping it with you until you can recycle it.

Menstral cup

Get one that fits. Each brand fits differently and you want the one that fits YOU not what some influencer on YouTube enjoyed that fits them.

http://menstrual-cups.livejournal.com has and maintains sizing charts across all the brands on the market. Find the one that matches your depth-to-cervix and your vaginal canal diameter. That will be the one you are happiest with.

You wouldn't squeeze your size 7 foot into a size 5.5 shoe just because another person loves their size 5.5 shoe. Which is why it is important to find the right size to prevent discomfort. If it hurts- stop using it and try another one! :)

Real person in-depth menstrual cup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bapifJ5DcV4

More of an classroom-type setting in-depth how-to by Organicup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9fPUfm-uYE

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You can also check these youtube channels for menstrual videos:



The 5 R’s are the best way to navigate a low-waste journey: https://zerowastehome.com/2011/09/28/how-to-get-started/

In case you are looking for more, I’ll link a few YouTube channels that have good zero waste information :)

Shelbizzlee: *highly recommend* https://m.youtube.com/user/Shelbizleee

Sustainably Vegan: *highly recommend* https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkq2gEWE-i647M71bh7zDxA

Sedona Christina: https://www.youtube.com/user/720tanner

Blue Ollis: https://m.youtube.com/user/SophsChoices

Eco Boost: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3pE1IqHqbdf3vqtaALL4nA

*Note: You don’t have to agree with all the influencer’s values and opinions to watch or support their channel. There is a lot of good content to be found on these channels! :)

It's worthwhile to educate yourself on different styles and alternative concepts to find the right compromise for your lifestyle. You'll probably find a solution for one person that is an impossibility for another; keep that in mind as you travel on your journey!

r/upcycling is also a nice sub for repurposing things.

r/minimalism is a good sub and topic for assessing your belongings and future purchases.

Honestly, they've been amazing for me. There are lots of different brands out there, I have some of these which are super absorbent (they feel a little 'bulky' at first, but honestly, you get used to it very fast). Another benefit is that they don't move around much at all, and if they do shift in your underwear you can definitely 'tell'.

I also have these for 'lighter' days (which honestly still aren't that light for me). Plus I've had both sets for nearly two years now, and they're still perfectly fine, so I've saved money too!

Always and Kotex generally offer free samples. Won’t help in the short term, but they’re good to have on hand.

As someone else recommended, it might be worth investing in a few reusable/cloth pads as well. That way you know you’ll always have backup.

ETA: I’m in Canada so it doesn’t make much sense for me to buy them, but these look like a pretty good deal.

You can buy them online. A friend of mine makes them at Tiffany & Tot on Facebook. But they sell them on amazon, on Etsy. It generally has an absorbent inner layer. Then the back is something waterproof. The front is either cotton or athletic wicking jersey or fleece. Then you clip them around your underwear with wings. I’m sure you could make your own if you are a sewer. They make patterns.

https://www.facebook.com/tiffanyandtot/photos/a.1601716346546909/1601717139880163/?type=3

https://tiffanyandtot.wordpress.com/2017/05/29/cloth-pad-general-information/
I get her Titans. They’re like 20”? They’re SUPER long. Which I love for overnight / heavy bleed.

I have one of these overnights. They’re organic cotton. They feel nice but not as long as I like.
Hesta Organic Cotton Reusable Cloth Menstrual Pads (environment-friendly), Set of 3 (jumbo(overnight), Wing/Brown) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06X6HQ53S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_mNpxCbB5P87Z9

I also have one of these. I don’t like them as good as Tiffany’s. They’re not as long. And they’re a little thicker. But it’s hard to find the athletic wicking jersey I like.
https://etsy.me/2RIVy7P

1. Picking the right size can depend on how much you want the pads to absorb. I have a couple of different sizes, you can get a variety for overnight, heavy flow, med flow, or light flow.
   
   
2. I got my first cloth pads from Amazon because they were cheap and great as a trial run. I'm in Canada, but these are the same ones I have on Amazon.com: Link to variety pack and Overnight size
   
   
3. You change them like you would disposable pads, depending on your flow. They will feel damp but they absorb really well and are superior for wicking away moisture in comparison to disposables. I'd suggest paring them with period underwear or a menstrual cup if you are worried about leaks, some people wear two pairs of underwear to keep them in place. They don't have a sticky backing so it can take some getting used to. Overall they're way more comfortable than disposable pads.
   
   
4. A decent price to pay depends on what you're looking for. The ones on Amazon are cheap but they function well. When you want to upgrade consider if you want something made from organic materials, cotton, bamboo, hand-made off Etsy, etc. They will affect the prices.

The only time I had leakage with cloth pads was in the first two months learning what size I needed for my flows. Other than that I love them! I have loads of recommendations.

Pink Daisy by Blueberry Diapers
https://blueberrydiapers.com/collections/pink-daisy?sort_by=title-ascending

I use the ones biggest ones on my heavy days and overnight. Never had a problem with leaking.

Charlie Banana
These are super soft.
https://www.charliebanana.com/collections/women-1/feminine-pad

Charcoal Period Pads
This type does a good job if you are worried about smells.
Heart Felt Bamboo Reusable... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00VJNPOTE?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share


Just be sure to wash them before you use them. Otherwise they won’t absorb the way they were designed.

If you have any questions about how to wash them let me know. I’ve been using cloth pads for over 10 years now and love them.

You can search in amazon for some cloth pads as well. I just have the issue of one bad buy. The pads were made with very wide wings so the bad spins around in my underwear. I can send you a link of those ones so you can see how their are designed so as to avoid buy that shape. Otherwise if I double check the shape of the pads before buying I haven’t had any problems.

Etsy can also be a good place to buy some as well.

https://www.amazon.com/Wegreeco-Bamboo-Reusable-Sanitary-Pattern/dp/B07K68G39T/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?keywords=bamboo%2Bcloth%2Bpads&qid=1568562562&s=gateway&sr=8-7&th=1&psc=1

$13.99 US. (Just get the 30 day prime trial for free shipping, you can cancel before its over and after you get your pads if you dont like it or dont want to spend the $12 a month)

6 pack bamboo pads and a wet bag, thats the medium but you can also scroll to the small or large or get different prints. They're pretty cheap seeing as when I searched on etsy (the recommended) site for cloth pads it was $16 per ONE pad. And if youre using it as backup the bamboo is absorbent and soooo soft and comfortable against the skin for long days. Using seventh generation disposables are also an option for those days when you want to do good by your body and the environment but cant spring for a reusable option that day. Once finished fold the pad in half and clip the buttons together and throw it in the wet bag to take home and wash. The 6 should last you way past all day and still leave 3 for the next. I hope this helped!

I love my clothes pads! They're a touch bulky (I wear lots of snug jeans/yoga pants) but it's super easy and cheap, and they're comfortable. I just throw them in the wash.

These are the ones I have: https://www.amazon.com/Sanitary-Menstrual-Heart-Felt-Absorbency/dp/B00RMNEQLW/ref=pd_m_ba_rp_of_13?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=HMA5FZCTDS2JP0A160FB

I switched to reusable pads, which made a huge difference during my time of the month. I have been using the diva cup for a couple of years now, but I always use a pad for backup protection, and I've been loving the reusable ones I bought. I've also found that they're a lot more comfortable than disposable pads.

I also bought some canvas grocery bags and reusable produce bags. I'm so excited to go grocery shopping again so I can use them! I'm so sick of accumulating plastic bags. I have a massive collection of them, and I'm sure they will still accumulate because of my roommates, but at least I know I won't be contributing to it anymore.

In use cloth pads as backup on my heavy days & I really love them! They are thicker than the disposable ultra thin pads I used to use, and that took a little getting used to. I was worried they would show through my pants, but they don't. But they feel so much better against my skin! They are so easy to take care of, just rinse out in the sink & toss them in the washer with your laundry. I just bought the cheapest set on Amazon I could find (here's a link if you're interested. I bought both the pantyliner & the overnight versions. I'm sure there are thinner options out there if you are willing to spend more.

Washable/reusable sanitary pads are also a great option, when you are able to get some cash. I think mine cost about €1.70 each on Amazon, at the time, though they did come from China and not a local organic shop or anything (am in Europe). Much more comfortable than throwaway pads or tampons, cheaper, and better for the environment.
Something like this:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017D8IVJ8/ref=sspa_mw_detail_6?ie=UTF8&psc=1&th=1

I got these pads for the first few days that are super heavy. I still have some left, I only needed such a heavy pad for the first week. After that I was able to use these regular sized ones. The wings are really helpful in getting everything to stay put, and also the longer ones are good for night-time when you may be moving more. You can also get these pad ice packs, they gave them to me at my hospital and I loved them, but you could also buy some more to have on hand.

FTM, but I've been using cloth pads for a long time now. I love these from Period Mate. They don't need to be soaked which is a bonus.
Period Mate Reusable Cloth Menstrual Pads with Bamboo-charcoal Absorbency with Wet Bag (6 Pieces) (ZigZag) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01AFMJMT2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_52qBzbDGPGRDF

There are a few pads I would suggest for your sister. One package for every day use such as Always with wings and an overnight pad , which helps when we sleep. The directions are on inserts in the packages and she'll be just fine :) If she's cramping I advise advil or motrin over tylenol. You're doing great, big brother!

https://www.amazon.com/Wegreeco-Bamboo-Reusable-Sanitary-Pads/dp/B017D8IVG6/ref=pd_yo_rr_rp_5/134-3264127-4970360?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B017D8IVG6&pd_rd_r=a987f219-6e9e-47f0-a152-4cf33c36c943&pd_rd_w=gHzm9&pd_rd_wg=NY9BR&pf_rd_p=0c658712-1572-4aea-8288-836ba0ae83de&pf_rd_r=HAYS893MT21TDFZH72WK&refRID=HAYS893MT21TDFZH72WK&th=1

I am a big fan of these. There are also all sorts of handmade ones on etsy, but I don't have much experience with those. On top of saving money/the environment, I like them because they are better for your skin than the disposable ones.

I'm so sorry. I'll let other people give you advice on the surgery issues -- and I'll read it quite closely, as I'm getting a major surgery soon, too. My surgery is related to uterine ridiculousness, so, on that note, I can spreak to your question about pads with maximum coverage. The absolute best amazing why-did-I-only-just-find-out-about-these pads I've found are these: http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI

(I used to love and adore the super thin ones, but I can't use 'em anymore.)

Ibuprofen. And might appreciate a couple of heavy duty cloth pads for wearing at night, something like this - https://www.amazon.com/Sanitary-Menstrual-Heart-Felt-Absobancy/dp/B00VJNPOTE?th=1

They're reusable (no more garbage for the landfill), comfortable (can be less irritating to sensitive body parts), and come in a variety of designs and colors which helps to destigmatize a naturally occurring process. You just rinse with cold water right after use and then throw in the usual warm/hot water wash. Easy peasy. And seriously money saving in the long term.

Which was clearly used in the context that we won the trade in a landslide. It's a common euphemism that was not meant to offend at all. Maybe this will help you get over it.

The brand I use is called Teamoy. But I just searched for 'fabric panty liners' on Amazon and picked up the cutest, lmao. Here's a link to the ones I bought (from amazon.ca)

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07H57YTFB/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_I4NADb454EJMS

I bought the off of amazon for like 13.00$ for a five pack. I love them for at night especially. I may try another kind for daytime though. And I just wash them by hand with Castile soap, but I have run them through the washing machine. I just don’t like letting them sit dirty haha.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017D8IVJ8?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image

They are excellent. Just started using them. Just rinse em out and throw them in the washer/dryer. Very comfortable and the reviews are great for one ones I got here. For 25 bucks it's a steal
https://www.amazon.com/Teamoy-Menstrual-Super-Absorbent-Comfortable-3pcs%C3%9711-6/dp/B078S6KRX2?ref_=ast_bbp_dp

They do alright. The ones I ordered came with double sided tape, if needed, but I wear them with snug undies like bikini cuts and boyshorts. They stay put pretty well on their own, but sometimes I adjust them a bit when I hit the bathroom.

Plus, I only rely on them completely for light days. Otherwise they're just a backup for the menstrual cup.

Don't be anxious about it. If you end up with NO hospital bag, the worst probable thing that's going to happen is partner will go home and grab some things for you once you figure out what you want. The absolute worst thing is the hospital will help you out. My hospital gave us diapers, mesh panties, outfits for the baby and mama to help breast feed, the good pain meds, chapstick, ice for the torn up parts, poop pills and blankets.

That being said, I packed a bag with spare chargers, spare Kindle (older one without 3g, but containing books I haven't read yet), Eos because I could eat that straight, it feels so good. I didn't want to wear pants because of the c-section incision, but I was good with the gown and mesh panties. Hygiene kit with pads. I REALLY like the thin overnight pads, the ones the hospital gave me felt like diapers and actually gave me a diaper rash. I hate pads. Anyways, every time I've told my husband we were pregnant, I bought a little newborn onesie, and that is our take home outfit. Mittens for kiddo because the nurses will not trim their nails, and they will scratch their faces. Granola bars and things to sneak if labor goes longer than, say, 30 minutes (I'm a wuss).

But remember, even if you get none of it, don't worry. You will have time. You have support. And there's always a Rite Aid or CVS within 5 minutes of all hospitals that carry anything you might have forgotten.

Oh, and I'm due Feb 19th with twins (though they won't let me go past Feb 5th). Woot! When are you due?

There are the pads I use.

I find that they stay put, hold a lot of liquid, and aren't too annoying to to care for. After i'm done using one, I rinse it till water runs clear and then I set it aside to dry. At the end of shark week, I typically throw them all of them into the wash for an additional rinse and then dry them out in the sun :)

edit: I accidentally linked the medium flow version when I bought the heavy flow version so i changed the link!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07K68G39T/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=babybellykell-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B07K68G39T&linkId=0e0bdb40126d1425f510fc9214808168 these cloth pads are pretty good my sister uses them.

I prefer period panties as my backup I use this brand
https://ilovegenerationme.com/eco-friendly-family-products/evawear-period-panty

I bought these more than six months ago. They're holding up really well (aside from the one my dog nibbled on, yuck). I just rinse them out when I'm done using them and throw them in the wash with my other laundry. Easy peasy. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B078S6KRX2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1

Pretty sure the one I am talking about is bigger if you are talking always brand. They have wings spread out wide over your buttcrack area. Longer in the back than the front by at least 100%

http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI

I love my cloth pads! These are the exact ones I use. Dutchess Cloth Menstrual Pads - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00UZL0WCK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_6ojYzb18444PZ

For dealing with nighttime leaks, I have found a foolproof leak-proof method. These pads + biker/volleyball/spandex shorts. And I have a waterproof allergy protective cover thing on my mattress. Never leaked at night again.

For daytime, I wear these pads plus black pants that have stretch to them. I also make sure to take ibuprofen throughout the day to help with not only the cramps but I seem to get less clots on days I take it around the clock.

Also, frequent bathroom trips.

I but mine through Amazon. Brand doesn't matter to me just function.

I have some for light days, regular, and over night.

Simfamily 7 Pieces Set Including 1 Piece Mini Wet Bag +6 Pieces 8 Inch Charcoal Bamboo Panty Liner Mama Cloth Menstrual Pads Reusable Sanitary Pads https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071ZFH5WF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Vt.WBbRD68S6R

The brand I have has gone out of business. You want something like this with the little wet bag. I've never dared to empty my cup in public/at work but have changed cloth pads many times