Reddit mentions: The best shoes for girls

My 7yo daughter is also a huge fan of Dino Dana (and Dino Dan/Trek)! We recently moved from the West Coast to New England and she's been struggling to find new girl friends because the gender expectations are more traditional and she hates toys like Barbie, baby dolls, ponies, etc. She likes cars, Pokémon, dinosaurs, every Lego show except Lego Friends (the "girl" Lego products), ninja, and science toys. At the same time, she's temperamentally gentle, maternal, so the more boisterous behavior of some boys is a bit frightening to her.

All of this was not a big deal where we came from, since there was a lot more fluidity in gender expectations. Now, she finds that she has no interests in common with the girls, and intimidated by the behavior of a lot of the boys.

Her class had a game day, where the kids could bring games from home and the kids could try playing the games, and brought in her favorite game Dinosaur Escape. She was excited to bring it in because she loves it so much and was sure other kids would, too. When she came home the excitement had deflated completely. Only one girl tried the game and told her dinosaurs were boring, but the game was so popular with the boys they wanted to play it over and over, and she didn't know why the girls didn't want to play.

I tried Girl Scouts, but she didn't like it because "all they like are LOL dolls and Hello Kitty" and they made fun of her favorite boots because they were combat boots. (I mean, they're awesome boots, denim with pink stars and more glittery than the picture, what's not to like?!).

I'm frustrated and sad for her, and afraid she is being pressured to act and dress like the other girls just to make friends. So far, her most reliable friend is the gentle autistic boy down the street who's 3 years older. He tends to make friends with the younger girls because he finds the boys are too rambunctious for him as well.

In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.

1.) For this I choose a pencil box because when I was in grade school I collected pencil shavings mostly from colored pencils to do a craft project idea I had with them. Sad ending though, I never did get around to making the craft.

2.) I know this notebook would make me insanely jealous. I wasn't much of a note taker however so it would end up mostly filled with doodles :P

3.) I think any teacher would smile if they saw one of their students wearing this shirt

4.) YAY! Art class! I think with this I will be fully prepared!

5.) In my state (Washington) it rains a lot during the school year, so these fashionable rain boots are a must have for splashing around in the puddles!

6.) If I could pick my school's mascot, it would definitely be the blobfish because I don't think anybody else has him as a mascot yet. And of course because he's so cute!

7.) You would think a box of nerds candy this big should last the whole school year, but it's kids we're talking about here, come on.

8.) I have always been in love with the Shel Silverstein books such as Where The Sidewalk Ends. Also they rhyme and have silly drawings!

9.) There is no way to beat this amazing spectacular backpack any kid wearing this would be the most popular kid in school!

10.) Between homework and dinner, my favorite activity would be playing the Wii U with friends or family. It's a fun video game system that can also keep you up and active!

Bonus #1 - School newspaper?

I'd love to help you out! In addition to some other gifts, I really want to buy your daughter those ugg boots she wants, but I would hate to see someone spend that much money for boots that will probably get ruined after a single season. In my experience, Bearpaws have been proven to be more weatherproof and cheaper than uggs. I've had my pair for about 5 years :) Here are a few links:

Classic Bearpaws

Tall ones


Sparkly ones :)

Please let me know which color, style and size she would like and I'd be more than happy to buy those for you in addition to some other items on your wishlist. If she really has her heart set on those uggs then I, unfortunately, can't afford to buy those for her, but I sincerely hope that someone else on this sub does. Happy Holidays!

First off you have my sympathies, for your loss. And some internet hugs! I've never lost anyone so I can't say I understand, but I know it hurts and im sorry.

I included a bunch of things to represent what I think people might have on their wishlists. If I win Sort My Priorities and surprise me!

Japanese Candy kit I'm sure snacks are a big hit on peoples WLs. I want one of these specifically for my son.

Backpack/rucksack Classes are starting back up for many including me so these might be in high demand soon.

New Shoes Again classes are starting soon, if not for parents maybe for their kids. OR maybe people need new shoes to prepare for a climate change. I live in Indiana and weather is insane, so I try to always have boots and flats.

Seeds I have a ton of seeds on my WLs. They are usually cheap, and they make my yard pretty!

Thanks so much for hosting, and good luck everyone. I wish your Debit card super speed on its journey to you!

Sorry to hear of the hard times your family is going through. I hope your husband has no on going medical issues and is on the mend. Ive grabbed 4 things for each child. Tried to get a combo of clothes and toys.


FOR A

Engino Discovering STEM Newton's Laws Inertia, Momentum, Kinetic & Potential Energy Construction Kit

ALEX Spa Sketch It Nail Pens Salon

MITILLY Girls Flower 3/4 Sleeve Pleated Casual Swing Long Maxi Dress with Pockets 10 Years Dark Blue
National Geographic Kids Just Joking: 300 Hilarious Jokes, Tricky Tongue Twisters, and Ridiculous Riddles

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FOR R

The Children's Place Baby Boys' Bootcut Jean

Hawkwell Boys Girls Breathable Lightweight Running Shoes(Toddler/Little Kid/Big Kid)

Doinkit Darts - Magnetic Dart Board

Bubble Gun Blower for Kids (Boys & Girls) | Dip&Press Toy Blaster with Soap Solution | Futuristic Shooter w/ 4 Wands | Fun, Colorful, Indoor & Outdoor | Leak-Resistant | Parents & Toddlers | w/ eBook

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I have a son and daughter. My 3 yr old boy loves playing and dressing up as a dinosaur. He then chases his 1.5yr old sister around the house and the find it so fun. Ive found this on amazon and added it to your order. I got a Green one for your son and a pink one for your daughter. I hope they can run around the house together and fill your home with laughter on Christmas Day.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N418ZQG/ref=twister_B01N0E67IE?_encoding=UTF8&th=1&psc=1

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Much love and Merry Christmas from Australia.

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Both my daughters a were in keens hiking boots:

6yo (proper waterproof hiking boots with good ankle support):
https://www.keenfootwear.com/p/C-TARGHEE-MID-WP.html

4yo (waterproof and easy to slip on for her):
KEEN Unisex Kootenay II WP Hiking Boot
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077BM7MDJ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VpGpDb6B8V3CM

They both did great! Good waterproofness and good traction... both were at the upper end on what I’m willing to spend on kids shoes.... but they use them all summer for hiking and hopefully into this winter for snow season.

Wife was in a pair of Oboz
https://obozfootwear.com/products/womens-sawtooth-ii-mid-waterproof

Also good boots.... (not GYW or resoleable or anything... but very good modern boots if based on glue construction methods)

Hi, I ordered a few things from your lists just now. Should be there soon.

Hawkwell Kids Classic Ankle Boot(Toddler/Little Kid),Tan PU,9 M US https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07423N81X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_.sF9BbBJK7RHK

DREAM PAIRS Toddler Maple Black Red Knee High Winter Snow Boots Size 9 M US Toddler https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0737K5PNH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_VtF9Bb21XAY5A

DREAM PAIRS Toddler Klove Grey Pu Faux Fur Lined Mid Calf Winter Snow Boots Size 10 M US Toddler https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0733RFT2H/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_cuF9BbE1GVX5Z

Nova Mountain Little Kid's Winter Snow Boots,NF NFWBN820 Purple 10 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DWHYRD8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_BuF9BbSPTC88Z

Peaceable Kingdom Mermaid Island Award Winning Cooperative Game of Adventure for Kids https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004HVKABC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_UuF9Bb1EABR7T

PAW Patrol - Ultimate Rescue Fire Truck with Extendable 2 Foot Tall Ladder, Ages 3 and Up https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07B83HP9Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_jvF9BbZ20AF7T
Nerf N-Strike Elite Strongarm Blaster https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DW1JT5G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_nyF9BbECS452B

Barbie Made to Move Barbie Doll, Pink Top (Amazon Exclusive) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015EB27VY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_EyF9BbJDXHN91

Prextex Pretend Play Electronic Toy Cash Register with Mic Speaker and Play Money Included for Kids https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MQFYCY1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_WyF9BbSGZ3YJZ

LilPals Princess Karaoke -Children's Toy Stand Up Microphone Play Set w/ Built-In MP3 Player, Speaker, Adjustable Height (Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073SKKN3L/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_dzF9Bb8T5HYXC

M SANMERSEN Piano Keyboard for Girls, Keyboar Piano 37 Keys Multifunction Portable Piano Electronic Keyboard Music Instrument for Kids 2-6 Year Old Girl Toys Girls Gifts Age 2-6 for Girls(Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G415H63/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_wzF9BbV5JCJEE

ALEX Spa DIY Bath Bombs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06ZYHRHL3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_OzF9BbY1GMBK6

Saltwater sandals. I know I like the look of them, but I have some questions.

1. What is the ankle strap like? Is it comfy? I've never worn ankle strap shoes, and I'm apprehensive.
   
   
2. Just in general, are they comfy? I mean, obvs they're flat, so there's only so much comfort they can provide, but beyond that. Is the leather soft or annoying? How long do they take to break in?
   
   
3. Can you really get them wet? I want to replace my beater sandals with these, so that's kind of key. Also, how hard are they to clean if they get gross?
   
   
4. Finally, is there another place I can buy them besides Amazon? Amazon Prime has failed me here :( Preferably free returns. It seems that Zappos only carries the children's sizes. EDIT 1: Okay, so it seems that the "big kid" sizes are kind of like adult sizes, so I can buy them on Zappos. New question: Is it true (as Amazon tells me) that a 6 in Big Kid sizes is an 8 in normal Women's sizes? EDIT 2: FML they're out of stock. OKAY. So old question: where can I buy these with free returns? Amazon only has them with paid shipping and Zappos is out of stock.
   
   TL;DR paging /u/argonauts

Last year we got these crocs ones, which I can't recommend as a waterproof boot, but they were easy to get on and new-ish walker friendly.

Everyone loves baby bogs, and they are especially good for the smaller ones who still aren't super coordinated. We went with classic bogs this year, and we have a pair of See Kai Run waterproof boots/hightops that we bought for hiking this summer.

[Shoe Wings] (http://www.amazon.com/Black-Foil-Shwings-One-Pair/dp/B00A1SGWEE/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1394206926&sr=8-6&keywords=shoe+wings) so they can feel super speedy when running/ jogging etc.

[Built Lunch Totes] (http://www.amazon.com/BUILT-Neoprene-Gourmet-Getaway-Lunch/dp/B004RCE6YS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1394207030&sr=8-1&keywords=built+lunch+bag) for bringing healthier options from home. (These are super insulated)

[Cooking for One] (http://www.amazon.com/Cooking-One-Seasonal-Preparing-Delicious/dp/0867308222/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1394207496&sr=8-1&keywords=cooking+for+one) because it doesn't matter if you making healthy meals, if you are making a whole recipie for just one person you tend to eat a lot more.

[Another Cook Book] (http://www.amazon.com/Isa-Does-Amazingly-Delicious-Recipes/dp/0316221902/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1394207663&sr=1-1&keywords=cooking+for+one) because it looks awesome!!

[Reuseable Snack Bags] (http://www.amazon.com/Itzy-Ritzy-Happens-Reusable-Jungle/dp/B003FGX8S2/ref=sr_1_1?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1394207810&sr=1-1&keywords=reusable+snack+bags) for responcible snacking.

1 no scotch in this water bottle

2 shorts that work 60% everytime

3 beach towel use the force

4 floatie far far away

5 sun glasses at night

6 classy beach bag

7 lite reading and espianoge

8 [blockbuster movie time] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B076Y4M98R/ref=s9_acsd_top_hd_bw_b2rfnRz_c_x_w?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=merchandised-search-5&pf_rd_r=AJZ7Y9CKT1JG1CV0AHZR&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=0bf21515-1eaa-5336-924c-fa1216514d45&pf_rd_i=2625373011)

9 movie snack time

10 outdoor gnome decor

11 for my pop
who loves napping. He's the greatest and still treats me like a kid, in a good way.

12 [Ahhh-murica] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01DYQG5QY/ref=sspa_dk_detail_3?psc=1&pd_rd_i=B01DYQG5QY&pd_rd_wg=Zsv3A&pd_rd_r=Z5PB2MF5ZQG803AN77BT&pd_rd_w=U7gSq)

13 my thunder buddy

14 indoor boredom :|

15 musack

16 snacktime

17 pineapple is yummy

18 baby pineapple plant?

19 bocce balls!

20 ahh sharks!

Hey, I got a response from Amazon in the form of a refund. So that means the shoes aren't coming. Unfortunately, the shoes you had linked aren't available in size 12M anymore.

I found these: http://www.amazon.com/Frozen-Slippers-School-Comfort-Toddler/dp/B00M1ORWWC/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1418937628&sr=8-10&keywords=anna+elsa+clog+mule

That are available in size 12M. But I can't select your shipping address. I don't think you have the Third Party Shipping agreement checked on the address page. Also, you need to add your address to your own wishlist. :)

Let me know if you need help doing so.

1. You guys look great today!
   I am going back to school and this would help so much.
   
   
2. C'mon...gimme My son really wants a Tom Nook
   You guys are amazing!

My son is 8 and has been coming on runs with me since he was 4. We've gone through a few brands and found Nike to be the best all-round option. He found the New Balance shoes too wide with a lot of lateral foot movement. Adidas always fit well and were generally good, but we found they degraded pretty quickly. The Nikes fit him well, don't break down at an unreasonable rate, and aren't too expensive, all things considered. He's currently running in these and I think I'll just get him another pair when he outgrows them: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MSZH1T7/

If you loved the sparkle in the Kate spade keds and your feet are under women’s size 9, puma has several options for glitter shoes in their children’s line. Subtract 2 from your women’s size to find the corresponding kids size. I have these in blue and I like them because my toes actually fit. PUMA Unisex Smash Glitz Glamm JR Sneaker, Sargasso sea-Pearl, 4 M US Big Kid https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DDFNR7F/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Imj0DbX2S0QP6

ASICS shoes are nice and reliable, and cliff keen headgear is also great. Here are some links to get you started

https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Matflex-GS-Wrestling-Little/dp/B00U8ZWQJK/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=matflex&qid=1569814394&sr=8-2


https://www.amazon.com/Cliff-Keen-E58-Headgear-Color/dp/B001GKZSSM/ref=sxin_2_ac_m_rm?ac_md=1-1-Y2xpZmYga2VlbiBoZWFkZ2Vhcg%3D%3D-ac_d_rm&keywords=cliff+keen&pd_rd_i=B001GKZSSM&pd_rd_r=7dbdbc90-c2f7-431f-a761-da4325d277ed&pd_rd_w=NCLJ3&pd_rd_wg=LT9bn&pf_rd_p=73c1eab1-1449-4c6d-b922-1dce21aded6d&pf_rd_r=VYQDCKKV97F8NDV052XF&psc=1&qid=1569814423

I don’t use knee pads, so I can’t help you there. Also, if you have braces, you need to get a mouth guard.

Flower Liz would be so tickled to get any mail!!

This pair of Dorothy red sparkly high heel shoes are my fave item atm. I want to get them for Liz for her birthday so she'll stop stealing her sister's high heels and trying to walk on them lol plus there adorable as all get out :)

I ended up buying my daughter size 10's and thick socks last year because they're so expensive for half sizes. Luckily little feet grow fast and this year she's comfortably fitting in a 12.

Edit-I found a pair on amazon, 1 2 3