Reddit mentions: The best boy short panties for women

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Yeah, Im currently single, but ive definitely thought about what relationships i might miss. What ive decided though, is that if i find someone that really loves me, they will love me no matter what i do, and anything else isnt worth it. (Ik thats so oversaid, but i really think its the right idea)
That being said, it doesn't make it suck any less.

If you haven't talked about it with her yet though, i wouldn't count it out just yet. One of my friends recently went through a similar experience with his girlfriend, and she was totally accepting.

For tucking, i don't have a whole lot of experience, and dont really know what youre referring too haha. but what works for me is using this gaffe with some boyshorts under it because its assless lol.

And yeah, i have mild anxiety so i def understand.

As a sock wearing person, I also pride myself as a panty wearing person :)

I recently bought a pair of American Apparel brief-inspired panties for ladies. They run very small, and are individually a bit pricey, but I dig the style.

[Blackheart Lingerie](
http://www.blackheartlingerie.com/blackheart/Lingerie/ShopbyStyle/Panties.jsp) is also having a sale rn, 7 pairs for 30 bucks, decent selection, flat rate shipping and free returns if she doesn't like them, or shopping together could be a fun activity. I personally recommend the microfiber cheekies, they are v soft and attractive.

Hope this helps the search for the Perfect Pair!

Not quite the same, but I've been quite happy with "Kalon" stuff. Someone else mentioned them here as great for tucking, and I can confirm. I've not used LeoLines, but I've used other gaff panties, and I find these work better than many, and they're cheap.

Boyshort style works best imo, but the hipster panties work well too:
https://smile.amazon.com/Kalon-Womens-Spandex-Boyshort-Panties/dp/B01GK7FENE/
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01GKAECHU/

I like panties, but I also don't like it when they don't hold stuff in. The best option for me is boyshorts, which are almost cheating in that they're... imitations of mens' underwear. These are my favorite. They are so, so much more comfortable than any pair of men's underwear I've ever owned.

But for the most part, ladies' underwear is a lot tighter for obvious reasons. It's less comfortable in the sense of letting it all hang out, but I enjoy the feeling of wearing them.

I've bought panties in a store before, but it's not an especially fun experience. I'm not ashamed of my sexual kinks, but I am sensitive to judgment (it's complicated). Online is easier.

A lot of folks are mentioning padding - padded (gel) seat covers, padded shorts, etc. Not bad advice, but I kind of think a lot of the benefit of good bike shorts (regardless of what kind of junk you have) is that it sort of holds stuff in place and compacts it down a bit, you know? You might even have to arrange your labia a bit when you put the shorts on, to make sure they don't get tucked in there in a way that they're gonna get more pressure on them rather than less... you know? Hard to explain, but try (reading my mind a little and?) messing around with that.

And yeah, do watch out for underwear hems and stuff.

Good luck! :)

Edit: Also try bamboo fiber underwear. Or also any kind of boy shorts that don't have the usual kind of hem that briefs do.

I have coconut oil on my list but apparently it is not as weird as I thought! You can seriously use it for EVERYTHING!

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This - because I love Beetlejuice!

This - because they are magic, really.

This - because it is awesome and sloths are my favorite.

This - because it would be majestic as hell to drink my home brew out of.

And this - because they are delicious and I can't find them anywhere anymore!

On top of all that, I have a wishlist full of rabbit supplies for my baby buns.

Edit: We all know interspecies romance is weird!

First essential: Throw away all your male underwear. Amazon is an incredible resource for replacing your old male stuff with proper underwear. You don't need to wear male underwear anymore, you need to start dressing properly. As a starter, these are wonderful and very comfy (sadly out of stock at the moment, look for similar items). From them, you'll quickly progress to more skimpy things like G strings. I buy lots of clothes intended for girls but that aren't too overtly feminine. You'll soon discover your equivalent dress size, and when you first go out wearing nothing but girls' clothes - even if it's not obviously girly - you'll have such a smile on your face.

Secondly: Get your belly button pierced. There's nothing like relaxing and watching TV and idly playing with your belly bar to remind you that you're a girl.

And with that: Shave. You don't need pubic hair. You don't need chest hair. You don't need hair on your legs. You don't need hairy armpits. Shave everything - but do it gently and beware of razor burn!! The feeling of soft smooth skin is amazing.

Hypnosis. Listen to it through earphones while you're not doing anything important. There's lots of stuff out there to give you constant positive affirmations while you discover your new (true) identity. I don't think the hypnosis aspect of it actually works and there's lots of wild claims that binaural beats promote estrogen and breast growth -- of which I'm very dubious -- but use it to promote the mindset you're looking for. Your thoughts become actions.

Next: buy a cock cage. It reminds you that you although it's an accident of birth that you were born with a penis, it's not something that defines you. You don't use it any more. You don't need it. There's some people who say wearing a cock cage for an extended length of time even makes your penis shrink, probably through preventing erections and masturbation, and I'm looking forward to the day that mine shrivels to almost nothing. Remember your sexual organ is now your prostate and when you have your first prostate orgasm you'll never ever be satisfied with the pitifully small amount of pleasure you used to get from your cock. You're a girl, do everything you can to be fucked like one.

Grow your hair. It'll take a year or so from having short hair to getting sufficient length that you can put it in a pony tail or pigtails, but when you do, you'll never stop playing with it.

If you have the body for it, get used to wearing bras. Colder days are coming up soon so you can wear bulky jackets and things to hide the fact (if you want), but get used to doing it every day.

That's all off the top of my head for right now - you're on an exciting but difficult journey as you throw away your useless male ego and become who you are inside. Make every effort to discard your masculinity, it just gets in the way of your feminine nature.

Enjoy yourself :-)

I got mine ages ago from Old Navy or something, but tons of stores have them! Here's a pair on Amazon that looks good.

[Link!](https://www.amazon.ca/Womens-Essentials-Stretch-Cotton-Boyleg/dp/B0006U5HDE/ref=sr_1_25?crid=1ELM1711P5EU2&dchild=1&keywords=shorts+under+dress&qid=1573879852&s=apparel&sprefix=shorts+un%2Capparel%2C156&sr=1-25)

Stores like UA, LuluLemon, and La Senza will probably carry them too, if you want something more brand-name. :) Enjoy!

I can't comment on the meds, because I don't have any experience with anti-depressants and libido. However, as for underwear, these are pretty great for tucking. They also have a "boy/sport-style" waistband, which I enjoy because I can roll out in boy mode and be relatively assured that even if my pants slide down a bit, no one will be the wiser. I got them in a size smaller than I would normally wear, which ensures certain bits stay up, and the "gusset" is pretty wide compared to a lot of women's underwear, which helps other things stay put as well.

try wildfang they have a good selection of men's clothing for women and are meant to also fit curvier female bodies.

I found an awesome pair of men style boxers/trunks made for a curvier female frame on Amazon by a brand called Everybody Undies.

they are super duper soft, good fit for my wider hips. no opening or bulge in front.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DF54CFB

Hope this helps!!

Haha ok.

I like both of these but they're all different colors. If you get some with multiples of the same color you can wear two pairs for outfits that you want extra security on

6 Pack Kalon Women's Hipster Brief Nylon Spandex Underwear (Small, Sporty Tri-Blend) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GKAECJI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_SIJOzbXPCYK01

WS Women's Seamless Mamia Panty BoyShorts Stretch Classy Sexy Multi-6 pack (Jean-6pack) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01L6URNH0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_YKJOzbS0CHMFF

Those boy shorts will make your ass look great! I wear the ones that's look like daisy dukes

I'm also pre hrt but my tuck game is pretty strong but yes I also love me some boy shorts my faces are in the link these

Pretty sure those are the Calvin Klein Women's Modern Cotton Bikini Panty:

https://www.amazon.com/Calvin-Klein-Womens-Modern-Cotton/dp/B00GBD2NXC/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1540064813&sr=8-12&keywords=calvin+klein+underwear+women

It could also be the Calvin Klein Women's Carousel Logo Cotton Bikini:

https://www.amazon.com/Calvin-Klein-Womens-Radiant-Ashford/dp/B01IOYKLQQ/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1540064813&sr=8-6&keywords=calvin+klein+underwear+women

The logo placement matches (wrap-around and centered) whereas other panties in the same line are off-center.

The sides are too small to be boy shorts or hipsters. Bear in mind, I personally recommend boy shorts or hipsters over thongs/panties because the boy shorts do a better job of keeping certain things contained whilst walking around.

CK undergarments can be a little pricey, I've had good results with a brand I found on Amazon called EMPRELLA ($14 for 4):

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BLS2ZDM/ref=od_aui_detailpages00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Super comfortable, nice material, and cute as hell, and as mentioned they do a phenomenal job of keeping everything situated. Fruit of the Loom is "ok", reasonably comfortable but less aesthetically pleasing.

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Of course. Or, just go with a skirt and no panties under it!

If you want to really have a risk, put them in something like this, in a bright color.

If you don't want them to actually get caught, you can get them something like this in black. If they peek out of pants, they'll look totally mundane to any passers-by, but the guy wearing them will be constantly worrying and feeling like everyone knows.

Cock ring is also a good suggestion, throw a butt plug in for fun. Cock ring will also make the panties fit extra poorly.

Also, put them in some pink socks, or have them wear stockings.

If they're not into forced fem stuff, do a crotchrope under their clothes. Nipple clamps. Write on them like a tramp stamp.

you can get a 2 or 3 pack of sports bra's and a "grab bag" of underwear on amazon! maybe a bottle of nail polish and top coat too.
and for the summer some nice yoga shorts to wear around as well!

Everything linked are things I have personally picked up and recommend as great starting items (you may want to size up on underwear btw to make room for yourself) c:

It's MAGIC!

These panties are sinfully comfortable and cute. I have them in black and omg. Best. Underwear. EVER. And I have had A LOT of cute underwear.

I wear dresses. I wear bike shorts under, though. I like these because they are super light and not see through st all. I bought all the colors years ago, wear them regularly and they are still holding strong. They don’t look like underwear, if you do have an incident of flashing, they just look like shorts.

Jockey Women's Underwear Skimmies Slipshort, Bronze, S https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NALEE8C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_t3HoDbBEGNZG3

I bought these on Amazon over 2 years ago not expertly much, but I LOVE them. They’ve held up so well! I really like the material.

Caramel Cantina 6 Pack Nylon Spandex Plus Hipster Boy Short Panties (2X, Winter) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GKB915M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_QNxiDbGQY2H2D

I wear panties every day and own literally hundreds of pairs.
My favorite everyday panties are kalon boyshorts from amazon. these ones feel nice and feminine, are neutral colors, so they look like they could be just underwear, and the boyshorts cut has plenty of support for sissies with big balls Kalon 6 Pack Women's Nylon Spandex Boyshort Panties (Medium, Winter)

> how did you overcome feeling a host of negative emotions if and when you started presenting privately

For me the negative emotions were from two sources:

(1) Frustration from my masculine features conflicting with feminine clothes.

This is hard, especially if you don't want to go full bore HRT. It tends to vary over time, though, so if presenting femme is not working, maybe don't force it? Do it when it makes you feel good.

I found that moving to androgynous clothes helped. One of the first things I did was order these:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00C11AS9O/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Wearing something more colorful and feminine under my clothes helped. Those are also good for tucking, should you choose to do that. I also switched to skinny jeans, because they felt more feminine, but no one was the wiser.

Also, don't worry if your early experimentation with things like makeup are atrocious, because you will improve.

(2) Shame at being transgender. We all have it to one extent or another, because that's what we've been taught by the culture around us.

That one's hard to stamp out, and it takes time. What helped the most was going to a good support group with lots (40+) other trans people (both men, women, and some nb people). When you hear people from all walks of life talking about the same things you feel, it kind of cements the fact that you were born this way and that there is nothing wrong with it. Meeting trans men helped me extinguish any feelings of it being some kind of fetish and embrace the idea that some peoples brains don't match up with their genitals.

> Do you also have experience with low level HRT?

I don't. I started transition at 44, and found I was eager to make up for lost time.

I tuck 24/7 and I ware all sorts of bottoms, that don't ade in tucking.

I ware 3 pairs of Sakkas Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts, they look more like briefs when I do, but I can play hackysack without issue. ;)

-Kira

PS: I have a 34" waist and 39" hips.

Sakkas BS0210PL Women's Seamless Stretch Panties / Boy Shorts - Assorted Color 6 Pack - Solid - One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C11AS9O/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_A66iwbTNG8JAF

If you need a video on how to tuck (NSFW) go to vimeo and search there. There is one video on there that really helped me.

-edit- here is the video https://vimeo.com/95701148

Try these

Here is the desktop version of your link

btw, that link 404's, here is a correct link: http://www.amazon.com/Sakkas-BS0210PL-Seamless-Stretch-Panties/dp/B00C11AS9O