I shop on Amazon because I get gift cards for work (camgirl). I'll list whatever I find in my order history - Apologies if it includes anything discontinued. I shop on Amazon.com and Amazon.ca as I am Canadian, so I'll include finds from both.

Loves

Bombsheller octopus leggings - They don't carry these on Amazon anymore, but last I checked, they do allow you to pay via Amazon on their website. The size chart was off when I first ordered them so I exchanged them for a size up, and the company was very accomodating. The leggings are comfy and sturdy.


Jellyfish socks - Adorable and well made. Definitely plan to purchase more designs from this seller.


Snowpants - I don't wear these a lot since I'm more the summer outdoorsy type, but they were excellent for walking my ex's dog in the winter and I still occasionally wear them for running errands on foot when it's really cold out.


Burned velvet leggings - I bought these in "blurple" and adore them. They're slightly sheer, so I wear other leggings underneath (these ones from eBay do the trick).


Anna-Kaci search result link - Anna-Kaci is an awesome vendor with well priced attire. I listed the vendor since the specific items I purchased are no longer available.


Thigh high socks - I have found these cheaper on amazon.ca, but this was the first pair I bought. Cute and sturdy! I now have 3 more pairs on their way!


Zebra print scarf - I was impressed by the quality of this one. I did donate it when I was gifted a similar scarf in black/gray as I try not to keep duplicates of non-essentials, but I would still have it otherwise.


Timberland knee high boots - Bought these in black, and they are probably one of my favorite Amazon purchases ever. If I were to ever re-buy these, I'd go a half size up, as I had to get them professionally stretched once they arrived, but holy fuck I love these boots. Waterproof, and fantastic quality. They're my go-to boots and I wear them more than any other piece of footwear I own.


Underbust belt - I'm not huge on the price tag, only because I once bought a nearly identical one on clearance pre-breast-augmentation. I'm glad I was able to buy this one post-op since the old one stopped fitting though. Will buy in more colors if they ever go on sale.


Booties - Pleasantly surprised by the quality! Will definitely consider buying more if I ever want/need them in different colors. Comfier for longer wear than most of my other heels, too.


Suspender Skirt - I love this thing so much, I bought two more on eBay after buying this one in black. This one's definitely better quality than the other two, though. I'd recommend wearing them with a shorts slip since there's not a lot of length to them. I'm actually really sad that they don't ship this to Canada anymore, otherwise I'd buy a couple more colors.


Beechfield beanie - This is definitely more my style when it comes to fit, but isn't as warm as the cable knits. Definitely one of my go-to hats.

Likes

Wet look batwing top - Surprised by the fit/quality for the price. Fabric looks/feels a bit cheap but overall the piece is well made.


Chunky cable knit beanies - I ordered this hat in olive, mustard, and teal. They're comfy, warm, and feel well made. I find them to be a little too bulky for my head, so I'm trying to stretch them out/break them in a bit. Definitely personal preference though, and not a quality issue.


Glitter loafers with spikes - They're gorgeous, but not high quality. I'd put them under "meh" for lifespan, but I did love them up until they started falling apart.


Holo creepers - I really need to wear these more, but my day-to-day fashion is much more casual and I don't party like I used to. Working my way towards wearing them more. The quality is decent but I don't think they'll last forever.


JollyChic search result link - JollyChic is great for cheap-ish stuff. I've bought from them a number of times and rarely been disappointed. Some of their synthetic stuff smells chemically at first (shiny leggings being one) but the smell dissipates after a couple washes. Their customer service is also stellar. Shared the search results since the specific items I ordered are no longer listed.


Iron Fist sweater - Bought in a size small, fits more like a medium. Will be shrinking it.


Waist belt - Great quality for the price (~$13CAD if I recall correctly). Fit is a little stiff, so it can look a little boxy with some outfits as it isn't flexible around curves, but overall still nice.

Meh

Faux fur vest #1 - Not the worst quality, but definitely felt cheaper than a couple other vests I own. Ended up selling it since the size chart was off and I didn't love it enough to exchange it for the right size.


Faux fur vest #2 - Slightly lower quality than #1, but same deal - Size chart was inaccurate, but not worth exchanging so I sold it.


Thermal leggings - Smelled awful at first, but it went away overtime. They are still pretty warm even after washing/wearing them for a couple years now, but they pill, so they're not the most aesthetically pleasing. Great for layering, but would not buy again.


Skull cardigan - It's cute and cozy. I wear it around the house more than out, since I noticed after washing it that the bottom corners started curling up a bit due to shrinkage. Also wish it was a tad bit longer.


Spiked slouch beret - The creases are a little harder than I wanted/expected, so I'm trying to stretch it out/break it in a bit. I have other hats that I like more though, so this one doesn't get a lot of love and might just end up being donated.


Leg warmers - Quality-wise, they should be in the "loves" section, but I bought these back when I was on a wild spree to better prepare myself for winter, and while I do love how warm they are, the patterns/colors just aren't my style.


Digital print tanks - The quality is about what I expected for the material, but I found the fit to be off on most of them (especially in the armpit area). I modified a few for a better fit, but mostly I wear them as slips now. The material is perfect for layering under sweaters that normally "grab" onto cotton camis. They can definitely be found cheaper elsewhere, though.


Fleece lined leggings - I bought these in damask, which I guess is no longer available. They're completely matted on the inside now, and not what I'd call "fleece lined" anymore. Still pretty on the outside, but definitely no good for warmth.

Downright Awful

OURS vendor search results - Seriously, don't buy anything from OURS. Their photos are stolen from other brands and the quality of their clothes are laughably poor. I threw them away rather than donate them because I knew that they would never be rebought, even at thrift store prices. They were the worst. Woooorst.


Bikini - The shittiest shit that ever shitted. Everything about it was just awful.

I've been through these cycles of binge and purge so many times over the past twenty years, I can't even possibly imagine how many thousands of dollars of absolutely adorable clothes and accessories I've throw out in shame, only to regret it later. I think I'm finally past that, and while I can't necessarily help you get to that place, can't help you work through the associated cognitive dissonance and cultural pressures, I can maybe at least help you rebuild.

Panties are where I always start back off. Simple, plain, cotton panties. Fruit of the Loom, Hanes, whatever, something cotton and with a gusset. I've become partial to Fruit of the Loom Heathers, both in bikini and hipster varieties. I've tried all variety of novelty, skimpy, silky, frilly, and the tried and true panties that make me feel the most feminine, that I'm actually willing to wear day in and day out are simple and breathable. I've recently given Amazon Essentials a try, fully expecting the worst. I was prepared for them to be the sheisty garbage you'd get eBaying from China, poor stitching and loose threads and you wash it once and it falls apart. Not so! Though not as fantastic as Fruit of the Loom Heathers, I'm enjoying the Cotton Stretch Bikini and Cotton Stretch Thong varieties.

From there, no feminine boy is complete without a pair of shimapan! And naturally from there, you'll need to pair them with appropriate stockings!

Of course, one of my favorite things in the world after panties and stockings are skirts! I was just talking to somebody elsewhere on reddit today here, I'm currently wearing the shorter version of that specific skirt. Go long, go short, either way the material is thick and flowy, perfect for going spinny!

I'm also partial to spaghetti straps, and these are my daily drivers. The color set that I have isn't there anymore, but those are all great too!

The next part requires bravery. I have gone thrifting at Goodwill for skirts and tops exactly once, just a couple of months ago. And while I found a haul and was extremely proud of myself, it took all the psyching up in the world to be able to just go and do it. I got a few looks but nobody said anything to me and I powered through. I want to go again, I will go again, but wow that's going to be another brave journey to work up to.

Nail polish I pick up at Big Lots, usually for about $2 per bottle, nail polish remover too. I get all sorts of stuff there anyway so one or two feminine makeup items never raised any eyebrows. I've been shopping there for years so I figure most of the employees get who I am but not a one has ever given me a single bit of grief over it. You can tell from my personality, from how I walk and talk and present myself - it's not the biggest secret in the world, but holy fuck it's scary sometimes just being open with other people face to face. I'm not big on makeup outside of nail polish, that is to say I'm not very experienced, so the $1 and $2 brushes, mascara, eyeshadow, and eyeliner I pick up there do just fine for me. I imagine if I were more experienced or more than a basic bitch I'd be appalled at the quality therein, but I have the bliss of ignorance right now!

I wish I could be more helpful addressing the underlying problem, the shame and cognitive dissonance, the need to hide and the desire to do away with your secrets in order to feel safe and clean. It took me twenty+ years to be even a little ok with myself, to accept myself for who I am, to finally be past purging all my cute and feminine things, so I absolutely get it. Wishing you the best, the strength and resilience to be who you are, to not have to change to satisfy any outside ego structures, to enjoy what you do, and to recognize your inalienable right to look like on the outside how you feel like on the inside. It's a path, a journey, a long hard road that's tough to walk alone. The only thing you can ask of yourself is to do your best, to be the most genuine you that you can possibly be!

I have a pair of these Simms and they are incredible. Simms just cancelled this pair and started selling a this new one on their webiste, but mine are still available on Amazon, though I'm sure the new ones are great.

Let me mention a few things that I really value in these gloves, that were annoying in other winter fishing gloves I've owned:

-They are relatively thin. Fleece gloves are bulky and get caught on things.
-When removing the flap that covers the thumb and fingers, it has a thick elastic band that keeps it pinned down against your thumb/hand so that the free fabric isn't flapping around and getting caught on your line while casting. And trust me it works, the fabric is entirely out of the way, never gets caught casting. The new version appears to have a button/snap to accomplish this goal.
-the material they are made out of dries really quickly, but also keeps your hands warm if/when wet.
-They appear thin, but I've fished in these in Utah and Idaho in February in temps down to single digits and have been fine.
-They are a little pricy ~60 bucks, but well worth the investment if, like me, you do a lot of winter fishing/spring steel heading. It's the only glove you'll buy.

I'm gonna make you a little outfit.

fleece leggings I do own a pair of these. They are thick, and warm, but I like to dry them with my under things, because they can pill.

boots i'm wearing these right now. I've had them for over a year. They aren't as all as you'd think, but very comfy and warm.

boot socks I have these in the grey/white. They are kinda long, but I love them. They come up pretty high, so they look best with a tall boot. One button did fall off, but I fixed it. Buy these here on Amazon. I got mine as a gift from Etsy and they were $29.00. They are the exact same thing.

As mentioned elsewhere, Amazon is a great bet when it comes to long socks, for example

Another great place is Sockdreams. I've been getting from them for years and they have tons of great colors/styles and lots of pictures to show what you're getting. Would definitely recommend!

Good luck! 😊

Agree with the above posters that you are a badass! What about leg warmers? I have these from Foot Traffic and really like them —they are warm and you can smush them down, or pull them way up (they’re super long so they will go as high as you like.).

Foot Traffic Super Long Cable Knit Leg Warmers in Your Choice of Colors,One Size,Charcoal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000UJZDDU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_RePVCbXQW7CRE

Here you go wuvie 💜💜💜💜

Knee High Stockings for Girls Gift,Light Pink,One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NCANY17/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_KiUVnf1DTxvgo

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This is kind of odd, but it'll help. I work at a publishing company and I sell local/regional books to independent retailers/museums. It's a neat "travel" guide that may help me pick out some new locations to sell to.

Or more tradtionally, this. Which is actually for a job I don't have yet, but am aspiring towards. I want to be an instructor at this dance studio I go to and leg warmers are my JAM when working out.

you can get em on amazon for like $11. trust me, it's worth it, I love mine.

I think a lot of people have pointed out the realistic constraints with wanting a commissioned last minute christmas gift. You said you weren't set on having them hand knit so here are a few commercial options thigh high [knit](Velice Womens Winter Wool Thigh High Socks Knee Socks Over the Knee Socks (Dark Green) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JG79JF4/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_YiDrybWQNN17E) [panda!](Bopstyle Christmas Soft Warm Socks Coral Velvet Knee High Stockings for Girls Gift (Panda) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018TJ9HZ2/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_MkDryb7QC3QD3)

Not thigh high but knee high custom name socks

Just to give you some options. But if you are set on handknit it might be better to get a jump start on next xmas/a birthday instead of rushing for this one.

Clothes that fit well is the #1 important thing.

• V-neck T-shirts
  
• Earrings
  
• A simple metal necklace
  
• Do your eyebrows
  
• Women's gloves
  
• Okay, these might be a bit too feminine
  
• Some nice shoes
  
• Some athletic clothing
  
  You really just gotta find your style and spend some time browsing. Don't be afraid to buy women's clothes, 90% of the time you can make them look andro as long as they don't have any flowery lace or whatever on them.

I am super obsessed with thigh highs right now. And I like Carol of the Bells. So powerful!

As a fellow thiccie, I find it useful to wear thigh highs on top of tights, as it keeps them from slipping down. I live in a northern climate, so this also functions to keep me warm snow or shine, so ymmv. I wear these socks from amazon almost every other day. I'm 5'7" and around 180 lbs, so they may work for you.

Ohhh SNAP, this is my jam! I have like, 75% of an entire list dedicated to socks.

Peacocks

Deadpool


Jellyfish

Yoshi

And then there's your run of the mill, fricken awesome, colorful, nonsense pattern socks.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073XMNQC2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_6yim71gPvoKDX

The material is a bit thinner than I'd like, personally. Very cute though.

My (now) mother-in-law gave me leopard print fuzzy boot covers. I was so surprised that I didn't have a chance to mask my expression, and it hurt her feelings that I didn't like them. I'm sorry, but I've never worn animal print, so I'm not sure where she got the impression that I would wear them. She loves animal print, though, and she ended up taking them back.

They were very similar to this:

http://www.amazon.com/EH9131WL-Leopard-Warmers-Covers-Sleeves/dp/B0069U4YN4/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1324233930&sr=8-2

I usually just use amazon. [Exotic Apparel] (https://www.amazon.com/Exotic-Apparel/b/ref=dp_bc_4?ie=UTF8&node=7586174011) There are costume kits that work, like [this,] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01H4REKAC/ref=ox_sc_sfl_title_40?ie=UTF8&smid=A2THRMP5DYX43S) or you could just search a colour and find something. [Pink] (https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=node%3D7586174011&field-keywords=pink)

[Pink Tights] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005I68CMO/ref=ox_sc_sfl_title_38?ie=UTF8&smid=A2XZNAPQ91VJQ0&psc=1)

Pink Leg Warmers

[Not-As-Pink Arm Warmers] (https://www.amazon.com/EGELBEL-Womens-Winter-Fingerless-Knitted/dp/B017KB80WQ/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1473905321&sr=8-12&keywords=pink+arm+warmers)

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Kayhoma-Extra-Cotton-Stockings-Warmers/dp/B07YQQ99CR/ref=mp_s_a_1_16?dchild=1&keywords=thigh%2Bhigh%2Bstockings&qid=1572165023&sprefix=thi&sr=8-16&th=1&psc=1
Otherwise just take a pair of knickers and sow a pair of socks to them.
Or go to a lingerie store and see if you fond some there. Big feet? Ask them why they are so insensitive and discriminatory towards men and ask them to do something about it

I decided to find a whole outfit.
(Top) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CPW1X72/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_zTnzCbFXA2ZDN

(Bottoms) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MJKXK47/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_QSnzCb4KVX352

(Socks) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074VBMQ4M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2TnzCbQY5ZBAP

(Shoes) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LETQGDA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_RUnzCbZSAMHEF

(Accessories its a pack of ten so you could mix and match) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M6VWDR4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2ZnzCbX553WGM

What did the guy say when he was recommended a new alcohol? Ill give it a shot.

This contest is so fun. I love this style of clothing so it was fun to create a whole outfit.

I just ordered these on Amazon - Zando Women Plus Size Over the Knee Thigh High Socks https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07LFXSP6B/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_i_t4EXDb017H7YF

Hopefully they work! Cheap enough if not...

Um, real link please...
Edit for science
Chalier Womens Long Socks Striped Thigh High Socks Cotton Over the Knee Socks Boot Stockings Leg Warmers https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073W8HHBN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_4TmSCbSEXH9F0

Here you go!

These:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073W8HHBN/ref=twister_B07BMTRJ7T?_encoding=UTF8&th=1#customerReviews

I think it was this link, but don't quote me on that.

I've also been linked these too.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B073W8HHBN/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 found them theres several different colors in a pack

https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01LZK0TOQ/
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B073W8HHBN/
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B06XFRHCCR

They’re available on Amazon.fr:
https://www.amazon.fr/Chalier-paires-longues-chaussettes-au-dessus/dp/B073W8HHBN/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?keywords=chaussettes+hautes+ray%C3%A9es&qid=1564114293&s=gateway&sr=8-9

Aquamarine!