Reddit mentions: The best suit vests for men

First: Sorry I don't have more photos yet!




THE RECAP

We tried to do our destination wedding an inexpensively as possible as it was combined with our honeymoon, but we definitely splurged on our photographers. They were over 50% of our budget and totally worth it. Our parents and siblings were the only attendees so we ate at the Majestic Yosemite Hotel Dining Room (paid for by his parents), had a ceremony in Cook's Meadow (officiated by my dad), took photos with them before they were freed to explore the park, hiked around for a few hours with our amazing photographers, soaked up the moment at Glacier Point after sunset, then ate some cheesecake and called it a night. We had rented a cabin for the whole family in Yosemite West, which turned out to be totally perfect as a base for a few days.


THE BREAKDOWN

Note: I did not include our airfare as the wedding was a stop on the way to Hawaii for our honeymoon.

1. Bride
   
   

• Dress: $300, Moonlight Tango T711. I posted about this before; I got it at a wedding dress consignment shop where money goes to cancer support groups in the area. Though technically it was silver, it was pretty blue to me so this counted as my something blue.
  
  
• Alterations: $120. This included removing the crinoline, letting the waist out a hair, and shorting the length.
  
  
• Jewelry: $0. borrowed pearl necklace from mom, other jewelry I had
  
  
• Ring: $1085, custom morganite and rose gold -- in hindsight, I guess this must be my something new
  
  
• Shoes: $0. old hiking boots
  
  
• Hair/Make up: $0. After getting a quote that HMU in Yosemite was an average $750, this was all DIY. And after a windy day a few days before, I decided as I was getting ready for an updo. SIL and MIL totally winged it and it looked amazing (and stayed all dang day).
  
  
  

2. Groom
   
   

• Sharkskin slim fit suit: $125.75 shipped. We went to Men's Warehouse and found a $600 suit he liked, came home and bought it online. I think this is it. Moral of the story: Men's Warehouse is insanely priced.
  
  
• Slim-fit charcoal vest: $19.99 on Amazon
  
  
• Shirt-stays: $19.99 on Amazon. Another redditor recommended these and Husband says they were a total MUST! Thank you, stranger!
  
  
• Shoes: $0. Regular ol' tennis shoes, safer for climbing around.
  
  
• Peach Tie: Kohl's cash, otherwise $20
  
  
  

3. Flowers: $61.34. Purchased at Hobby Lobby (I'm so ashamed of that but the colors there were the best match) and assembled. They were padded to hell in my checked suitcase, but survived transit very well.
   
   
   
4. Ceremony
   
   

• Location: $150 park permit
  
  
• Officiant: $30 for my dad to get a 1-day State of California deputization to conduct the ceremony (he paid this, but I'll include it anyway)
  
  
• Paperwork: $60 for license
  
  
  

5. Cheesecake: $38 (seriously so delicious)
   
   
   
6. Photographer, DC Photo in Frenso, CA: $2885.23. 100% worth such a huge part of the budget. Photos were incredible important to us so this was really well spent, in our opinion. They were funny, professional, and man, they knew every cool nook and cranny to try.
   
   
   Total: 4,895.30
   
   
   I don't actually have any idea what the lunch cost, and the 6-bedroom cabin we rented for 3 nights was $2400 but our guests offered to divide the costs and cover it (still less expensive than 4 rooms, 3 nights at the Majestic).
   
   
   
   TAKE AWAYS
   
   When 96,000 acres are burning between the county clerk's office and your ceremony site less than a month before your wedding and the park is indefinitely closed, worrying about small wedding details sure seems silly. I was a pretty relaxed bride anyway, but that put perspective on me that everything was going to happen the way it would happen and no matter what, it was going to be a wonderful day. And besides, the best parts are the things you can't plan.
   
   
   With only 5 guests, I never expected much attention on our wedding day. I was honestly stunned when we got to the Majestic (our first stop all dressed up) and everyone in the dining room stood and applauded as we entered the room. I couldn't believe this massive room of strangers paused from their own meals, even ordering, to show so much love to a couple of people in fancy clothes. Such a small shared gesture, but it was a very humbling moment to me that made me feel so connected to each of those people. And they were only the first! Every staff person paused as they continued their jobs to congratulate us privately, several people in the gift shop told me how beautiful I looked, and before we even walked out of the hotel, we must've heard congratulations 20 more times. Outside we ran into people before the ceremony, and many more after, who stopped on the sidewalk or trail to tell us congratulations, or offered us kind words of support and advice. Cars full of people would yell "congratulations" out their windows, cheer as they passed, or honked like crazy. In all my research on weddings in Yosemite, I never saw anyone talk about how everyone in the park is so freaking pumped to see a wedding.
   
   
   People love Love. And it made our wedding so much more special to share our happiness with hundreds of strangers. <3

I solomnly swear up I am up to no good.

While I don't have a goblet, I do have something to drink alcohal out of - This lovely flask will do in a pinch And it is very theme appropriate.

While a broom is great for flight, those kinds of brooms are not found on amazon (not for lack of searching) but to fly perhaps these Wings might just do the trick.

Alas my hat, that was on my wishlist was gifted, but it was for my 4th doctor costume and as well all know that some hats whether the be Fezes, Cowboy, or Top are Cool. So too are Bowties Thus this bowtie and vest would be cool to get me closer to my 4th dr. cosplay.

Books - ahhh books how I love thee - look here is a whole list of the worlds and words to carry me away

Trunk.... to tell the truth I have two at home and both are full of these NSFW fun. If only I had one that was enchanted and could hold even more ;)

The closet to a cape I can recall was more of a cloak and it was unique but every student had one of these tied around their neck during the winter trip to Hogsmead.

I hope that this was enjoyable and now to end

Mischief managed!

Bow ties work with button ups, but they look better in addition to a sweater/sweater vest, cardigan, or suspenders. They do indeed sell neon suits for ~$100, which is definitely too much imho if you're only going to wear it once (and it's not your senior prom). I would ask if people are planning on dressing neon, though, since its uncommon to dress to the theme for prom. You could get a group together and all wear button downs, black pants, and bowtie/suspender sets. You could also get a vest/tie set like this. If you're going to wear a binder to prom, try not to wear it all day leading up to it. My main concern for that wouldn't be that you'd be dancing, but rather that you'd overheat pretty quickly.

I'm getting married this fall in an outdoor setting.

I'm not very interested in wearing a suit as it's not something I've ever wanted to wear.

Here's what I am considering, but would like some advice if it all "works" together. If you have any other suggestions please let me know. Total budget for all of it should be less than $500. Would prefer to spend more like $200 but I'm realizing that's not likely.

I'm guessing that the vest will come off at some point thus I was thinking a non-white shirt might be nice.

https://propercloth.com/fabrics/jackson-grey-melange-brushed-twill-2681.html

https://www.amazon.com/Mucros-Weavers-Classic-Tweed-Ireland/dp/B00XCIZ6JM

https://www.nordstromrack.com/shop/product/2368394/original-penguin-raonis-solid-tie?color=BLACK

Note that tie is narrow (2.25") and I am not (36" waist, 46" chest), but I much prefer the asthetics of the narrow.

https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/men-slim-fit-chino-flat-front-pants-400137.html?dwvar_400137_color=COL32&cgid=men-chinos#start=1&cgid=men-chinos

https://www.jcpenney.com/p/jf-j-ferrar-sandoval-mens-chukka-boots/pp5007870008?pTmplType=regular&catId=SearchResults&searchTerm=JF+J.+Ferrar%C2%AE+Sandoval+Mens+Chukka+Boots&N=507%201309&badge=fewleft

It would be really hard to find an exact match already made. The band has most of their pieces of their costume custom made. You could go for a vest that is similar but not an exact match (like: https://www.amazon.com/DONSON-Business-Formal-Striped-Necktie/dp/B07J37WNTW/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?keywords=mens+black+striped+vest&qid=1568958155&sr=8-10). Or you could buy fabric and make your own.

Fabric match:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/633371508/fabric-upholstery-drapery-brocade-satin?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_ts1-e-craft_supplies_and_tools-fabric_and_notions-fabric&utm_custom1=_kenshoo_clickid_&utm_content=go_2063581188_76452847135_367965825333_pla-295916403786_m__633371508&gclid=Cj0KCQjwzozsBRCNARIsAEM9kBPBFyI9AfQlJfKXvb9kC9RdrJmb8c4bUGaqvHzusv_ooOpNlACK60gaAtF8EALw_wcB

Hope that helps. :)

FYI, you can get a cheap suit that does the job.

I needed a cheap black suit for some reason (I forgot), and I took a chance on this cheap suit (I got it through groupon as almost a lark). https://www.amazon.com/Braveman-Classic-Single-Breasted-Piece/dp/B01GJHN9JQ/ref=pd_sbs_193_1/133-5983387-1689602?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01GJHN9JQ&pd_rd_r=cc446f63-5f32-4a5e-a119-9827e30f32bd&pd_rd_w=Fm7NT&pd_rd_wg=wLkrI&pf_rd_p=763ccc93-bfa2-47be-85ae-0cdd7e00b3da&pf_rd_r=7CEXHRE5W2Z2X5SHZN5C&refRID=7CEXHRE5W2Z2X5SHZN5C

Looked fine. Don't wear it to a Investment Banking interview, but it's perfectly fine for a student hiring event.

Thanks, this is helpful. I'm just not sure about the gray.

How about khakis/light blue shirt with a teal/jade tie like [this] (http://www.amazon.com/Fan-tastik-Eco-friendly-Handmade-Cashmere-Solid/dp/B00ZFERMS4?ie=UTF8&keywords=dark%20teal%20tie&qid=1465313884&ref_=nav_signin&ref_=sr_1_1&sr=8-1) and for the officiant a dark blue vest like this.

Would make sure the ties match the color of the dresses and the vest matches the color of the jacket well enough in person.

Honestly no clue. I got it from Amazon haha. DarcChic Mens Double Breasted Vest Waistcoat VTG Brocade Gothic Steampunk (S, Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MXXD108/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_YljMDbEP4MMR7

In true amazon fashion its just a bunch of keywords pushed together.

Hah! Thank you for that advice, I will definitely look into trying it. I might hit you up on that offer if I hit a wall. Do you think this is a good vest?

Joker costume? I'm assuming.

You may be better off just purchasing a new suit. Last year, a friend and I went to a comic book wedding as Joker and Harley-- he bought this and this, it was surprisingly well-made and fit him very well.

Polyester hates most dyes, but if you want to try it with what you have, RIT has some that I've used before. Granted, there's no guarantee that the dye will take completely nor that it will take consistently.

40$ black vest

I'm sure these men already own black slacks and a white button up.


and if they don't own slacks they can buy some for 34$

they have lots more color options than just black but its the most classic and would probably get the most use after the wedding.


Also with JC penny use the code MARBONUS and the vests come to 34$ and shipping would be free over 99$

annnnd I think ebates gets cash back on Jcpenny?


also amazon at 26.51$

There's this one from Jos A. bank, on sale right now for $50. They actually have several similar options if you browse the site.

This one seems to be on a uniform-buying site, but that means you could match them really easy.

Have you tried Amazon? I found this one and this one.

I personally don't like the Urban Classics one, because of the white stitching. Reminds me of the Cross Colors line of clothes from the 90s. Also, I like on the Ring of Fire how the buttons are grey/black.

What I have (in light grey/white) is the Levi's Trucker Vest, which I think is GREAT (but expensive), and I've been keeping an eye out for a black one at a good price.

For the price, I'd go with the Ring of Fire one (if it were me).

They sell his vest on Amazon 😂
Vest link

SUITS! NEver could afford one and a purple vest set seems fitting for a good start for a suit wardrobe :D purple monkey dishwasher

Try this or this, with something like this.

This is going to be easier than pm'ing everyone.

GET THE LOOK:
Red Suit https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0792PL6YS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_WHfRDbPP54X4T

Yellow Vest https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077MMF7BC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_SIfRDbXT4RG4G

Green Shirt https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MMW7W5F?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Call the store, ask to speak to a manager, and tell them what she did. They lost a customer because of her, so they probably want to know about it.

I found this vest on Amazon for $25, or you could try another party/rental store. Don't let her make you miss out on a fun time.

What kinds of shirts should I wear with a vest for a casual look, without a jacket? I have a dark blue vest that I can't find a picture of and I have a [brown vest] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078HTJKY8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_koGjDbAYFYERJ). Right now I have a dark red and a white long sleeve button down shirt. Price range is anything less than $40

So I've found this tutorial for the mask, and this or this for the vest, though the second one is not really accurate.