(Part 2) Reddit mentions: The best bras for women

I used to wear my old free college tshirts but then I hated how much they were sticking to me when I was super sweaty and riding the subway home with a soaking wet shirt is no fun at all. So I searched amazon for what felt like hours and I found these AMAZING tank tops from New Balance. They are longish in the back so they cover my butt and I think they come long enough to cover any camel toe action that may happen. I wanted a tank because during zumba and other classes I'm lifting my arms a ton and I didn't want the shirt to go up nor did I want to feel constricted. I have sensitive skin and hate the feel of polyester like some of the cheaper ones so I opted to pay like $20 and get a better quality over say champion. My SO has a few champion men's version shirts and I don't like the feel and they pill after a few washes. For pants I wear 3/4 capris from champion because after reading TONS of reviews these seemed like the best bet without paying $50+. I wanted a wider band on top so it wouldn't dig, thick spandex so it wouldn't show loads of sweat and become see-thru, 3/4 bc I'm taller and the normal length pants always look like highwaters on me, etc. I've been wearing both the shirt and pants for about 2 weeks and they are holding up nicely. For bras I have a few different ones for different things. Since I'm like a 34/36 F/G I wear this for regular cardio, this for light cardio/weights and it's a bit small on me but whatever still comfie and no uniboob, and this MothaFer for running elliptical type things. The band rolls on me so I can pretty much wear it when I'm going to be upright and not moving too much. It keeps my boobs in CHECK but it's really tight and I can't wear it all day. On another thread women were loving it and wearing it all day so don't take only my word. And what zeroeznonez said - DEODORANT haha. All of these things are for comfort and not aesthetic purposes as I go to an all-women's gym. I am loving your knee socks and chucks for weights. Overall super cool and badassness. I couldn't wear that because I try to get everything done in one visit since I'm short on time.

It's so close to Friday and yet it feels so far away. Last night's hamburger beef stroganoff was delicious as always and super quick- I actually had dinner done start to finish in 30 minutes!

My new bra arrived yesterday. It fits well enough although the lining is a bit thinner than I'm used to. And of course there's gap at the top of the cups but it's on par with my other bras in that respect though so I think I'm just destined for that to be a thing. On the positive side I feel like it makes my boobs look smaller and it's actually cute.

Tonight we're stopping by my IL's after work to drop off a second programmable remote that FH set up for his mom (he gave the first one to his dad last weekend). After that the plan is to grab food on the way home. We'd talked about getting pho but I'm not sure if that's what we'll end up getting or not. I kinda wish we could go out-out because I'd really like a glass of wine but obviously I don't want to buy a whole bottle since all I would get out of it is one glass anyways. On the one hand I feel it isn't fair to bring alcohol into the house because I know FH has a problem. On the other hand I don't like modifying my behavior because of his issues and what I feel like is a lack of respect for me. I don't want to resort to, like, having my own locked liquor cabinet but I don't know what a better option would be. I just want to be able to have a glass of wine when I want it and not have to actually go out every time I want a drink. I feel like that's not unreasonable?

Alright, time to get on with it. KCKO y'all! Have a good Thursday. ❤

Edit: AAAAAAAH I forgot to add all my cat tax from yesterday. I got stretchy cats, cuddly cats, and a Tiny Cat having some (supervised) fun in a plastic bag.

Edit: Sorry, I totally missed the measurements! Darn phone screens.

The calculator gives a starting point of 38H/HH. Judging by the fact you're wearing and are comfortable in 34 bands, I'd say stick with them, which gives you a calculated size of 34J/JJ.

If projection is your main issue I'd start with the Panache Jasmine and Envy - mainstay recs for projected breasts. They're generally considered even shapes, but both have stretch lace tops which are pretty forgiving if you're FOT.

Wires are another matter. Out of the brands you've mentioned, Elomi is widest followed by Panache, then Curvy Kate and Cleo with Bravissimo as the narrowest. While the Envy and the Jasmine may offer you a better shape and projection, the wires may not be comfortable. You have some other options, though:

• Bravissimo has a number of other bra styles in 34J-K, including a sort of Jasmine clone, Nordic Rose.
  
• Fantasie and Charnos have wires a bit wider than Bravissimo, but both top out at J cup except for the Jana - still might be worth a look for sister sizing 36HH/J potential.
  
• Freya is also pretty narrow in the F+ spectrum, but has the FOT friendly Gem in 34J-K.
  
• IMO, Curvy Kate/Flirtelle is worth another look. They recently redesigned their 2015/2016 line, and early reviews are pretty positive. The Ellace especially looks fantastic.
  
  Curvy Wordy is in your size/shape range and has a great blog and very active Bratabase profile; in addition to the above, I'd take a look at her top picks and see if anything appeals.

It's a bit harder to get diagnose fit and for some people to get the best possible fit in a moulded bra, but if you're not at all open to wearing a non-moulded bra, that's totally your choice. Your measurements put you between band sizes as well as between cup sizes, so you're likely to wear a 32 band in some bras and a 34 in others (in addition to being between cup sizes).

I'm putting only amazon links in here for ease of shipping/returns. Everything I've linked is available on Prime, but it might default to another seller if the size you choose is out of stock or they have a lower price so just pay attention when you're adding stuff to your cart as other sellers will have their own return policies.

For absolute basic, 'everyday' bras, your best choice to start would probably be Freya Deco. This bra runs bigger in the band, so you'll probably do fine in a 32 band here.

Personally I prefer the fit of the Parfait Jeanie to the Deco, I find the cups/straps are a little closer together so it's much more comfortable for me. (Also it's $20 cheaper, though, I'd still pay the extra money for something that fit better).

Strapless bras are fairly difficult to come by in larger sizes, the Deco Strapless is what I would consider the most useful one, it also comes in a longline version which may be more supportive if you don't find this sufficient. It is tighter in the band than the regular Deco, so you may take a 34 in this.

Panache Sport is probably the most consistently recommended bra on this sub, it comes in underwired and non-wired versions. It's not moulded, the cups are seamed and made of flexible foam. The underwires in the wired version are padded, so it's pretty comfy. You'll probably take a larger band in this based on the fact that you're lifting and doing yoga, and not running.

However, since the Panache sport is an encapsulation bra, it's really not my first choice for yoga. I prefer this Shock Absorber which is a strong compression bra, to just flatten my boobs as much as possible to get them as much out of the way as they can get. This runs tight in the band, so I might suggest trying a 36 band. The sizing is kind of weird on this as well, the boob section never gets any wider, it just gets taller (I own this in a FF and H cup in the same band size), so if you try it and think it doesn't provide enough coverage and is showing too much very squished cleavage, just size up even if it's a cup size much larger than you would normally wear.

$250 is a bit of a tight budget for the number of bras you want, but really not impossible once you've narrowed down your size. Even based on Amazon-pricing, if you like the Parfait Jeanie, you can get 3 of those, the Deco Strapless, and a sports bra for $260.....but you can also get 3 Decos, the Deco Strapless, and a Panache Sport from here for £161 which converts to $213USD. You can also often find new with tags bras on ebay from UK sellers that are selling off previous seasons' printed or fashion colour bras.

Most DD+ bras aren't padded w/ cutlets like VS bras, although they can be moulded or have kinda thick lining. So you don't have to worry about show-through, and some styles give plenty of lift for a nice shape and cleavage.

Since you like the VS Very Sexy, try the Jeanie or Casey by Parfait (they are essentially the same plunge t-shirt bra, Casey has cute lace details on the cups). They start with a 30 back, so no 28E available. Band is a little snug, so you might be perfectly fine with a 30DD or E. Cost is about $40. Here's a link to Casey (it also comes in a black w/ rose print and fuchsia): http://www.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Plunge-Molded/dp/B00I3HD4LO

Claudette Sophia Icon is available in a 28 or 30 back. I have yet to wear but hear that they're very soft. Good deals can be had on fashion colors here: http://www.herroom.com/claudette-101001-sophia-icon-balconette-bra.shtml

Freya Deco and Panache Porcelain are also great options, although cost about $10-20 more than the Parfait Casey/Jeanie.

Cleo bras are wonderful but are known for having wide-set straps, so be mindful of that. Note that some styles (Freya comes to mind) come with a J-hook that allows you to clip the bands together in back, which is nice if you have narrow or sloping shoulders.

Here's a Freya Deco with a J-hook: http://www.herroom.com/freya-aa1704-deco-vibe-underwire-contour-j-hook-plunge-bra.shtml

All these brands are fairly common on-line or at local boutiques that aren't all fancy and expensive.

Hopefully that helps!! Let us know how your search goes :)

I've been pretty happy with Glamorise wirefree bras from Amazon. Me and wires don't go well together, either. I have two of the Magic Lift band in 38DD and they are great and comfortable for every day and provide okay (not fabulous) shape for a wirefree bra. I honestly haven't found a wirefree bra that replicates a wire. But I can't wear a wire for more than an hour or so, so I usually end up trying one on for a big occasion, then giving up before I leave the house and putting on my Glamorise!

I also have one of their Sports bras and I will not buy another brand. Period. Fabulous for me.

I honestly cannot recall if they are UK or US sizing at this time. I have to dig out my numbers, which I've saved somewhere. But I can recommend them as great every day bras. One of my t-shirt bras (first link) is 3 years old and another is one year old and I basically alternate them every day.

It did take me a little bit to figure out sizing, as I look through my Amazon order history. Looks like I tried the 38F first and then went down to the 38DD. I think was a 38F by the calculator on here and may have confused UK/US sizing.

Your fit issues mean that you are likely shallow, so definitely check out the shallow guide we have.

Nordstrom online does do free shipping/returns. Amazon does too, for some (most?) bras. If you're shallow, I suggest you try the Cleo Maddie and Freya Deco Halfcup for a nice rounded molded shape. The Freya Deco has a bit of pushup padding and makes me look fantastic in a tanktop!

I also really like the kensie stella from Nordstrom but never get to recommend it! It's not really an everyday bra but definitely runs shallow and the slight longline is cute. It doesn't give much lift/oomph but has a more natural silhouette. I feel the same way about the Cleo Juna.

The b.tempt'd ciao bella is another great bra for shallow/wide shapes but I find it makes my boobs look pointy.

Aerie also has shallow-friendly bras in the 32C/D range, but I can't remember which style names work best!

People will recommend that you try unlined bras to get a better idea of your shape - it is easier to see fit issues with an unlined bra. I don't have any recommendations, though.

As an anecdote, I'm a 30D and wore 32A/B or 34A before finding my correct size. None of them fit right. My breasts fell out the bottom of 32As when I lifted my arms, 32Bs gapped sometimes but still felt tight, and 34A was the comfiest but there was definite gapping. Straps fell off my shoulders all the time. I don't have any of these problems with bras in a 30D that fit my shallow breast shape.

First, get sized on r/abrathatfits. I have to have ones with hooks because they provide far more support than the pull-over-your-head. Also, but ones by band and cup size, not ones that are S-XL sizing. This one by Glamorise is currently my favorite for support. I like my ones from Cacique too. Panache makes supportive bras for larger sizes, but for me the fit isn't right with that company.

If you live near a Cacique (Lane Bryant), you can order a bunch and then return them for free at the store. And certain stores on Amazon like NY Lingerie offer free returns. I recommend that and buying a bunch to try on knowing you won't lose any money if you have to return them.

I like the Glamorise No-Bounce bra that JessPlays mentioned, but I love the Glamorise double-layer custom-control bra.

I get good support from both, but the custom-control gives me a better shape (more rounded and more pushed-up). I ordered a bunch of the custom-control ones, and now I only use the no-bounce ones as a backup. I'm a 38H, so I know how important good support is!

As a general reference, bratabase can be a good resource for bra reviews and suggestions for your particular measurements.

I was a 34 DD when I went to basic. AF but relevant advice anyways.

Double up on the cheaper, less supportive bras.Also, consider going down one cup size from what you should technically wear.

If you have the money, Glamourise makes this one and Moving Comfort makes this one. Both are awesome but the Glamourise one is my favorite for bounce control and a bit of separation. I trained for three half marathons in the Moving Comfort ones and the Glamourise ones have ended up great for running since having kids/gaining weight and turning into a 38G.

Trust me on the bras.

There's no way your a 40B after a month of HRT. That's the volume equivalent of a 38C, 36D, or 34DD. Victoria Secret is notorious for sizing incorrectly. They're trained to do it in a way that doesn't put you in the correct size, but puts you into a size they carry.

If they sized you to a band of 40, that's most likely close. A 40B is near impossible to find. It's just not a size that's out in the wild for the most part. You might want to try looking at 38B bras. I measure to a 41, but fit in 38s without issue. 38B will give you a much broader choice of brands and styles.

Another option this early on would be to stay away from the tradition "grown up" bras that go on band and cup sizing. You're growing right now, so a training bra is a good option for you. Here's a few of what I would consider adult training bras. I relied heavily on these as I was growing out and before I could fit into traditional bras. Option 1 light padding. Option 2 unlined

Finally, go check out /r/abrathatfits. It's a super helpful resource for bras and they are accepting of trans women.

For the sports bras, definitely recommend shock absorber, i have 3 of those d+ ones https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shock-Absorber-Active-Classic-Support/dp/B003ZHXYJE/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=sports+bra&qid=1566565468&s=gateway&sr=8-6

Others i've heard good things about are she-fit...

With the breathing issues, you could well have a touch of asthma which is worth checking with your doctor, but it could resolve once you do some reasonable exercise and don't try and do it too quickly or too fast. Definitely loads on you tube "beginners" type things that walk you through exercises as others have suggested but weight loss is mainly about food....and there's been some great suggestions about food from everyone.

Good luck! you can do it

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00I54XGZE/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I have bought other binders, but I pretty much only wear these. They are incredibly comfortable and bind well. They don't get me completely flat (I'm about a C cup and a bit overweight,) but make my chest look acceptably masculine. Would definitely recommend.

For starters - stick to your UK size :-) That's how we refer to sizing around here as it's more standardized and the bras you'll find fit you will most likely be using UK sizing.

From the numbers and way you describe your shape, you are projected, narrow rooted, probably short rooted, and pendulous. This is a common shape among your size especially. You'll need to look for bras that allow for immediate projection - meaning there is a lot of space at the bottom of the cup for the underwires to properly sit in your IMF. It makes sense that a 40 band is riding up, as it's really too large for your ribcage, but I would hesitate to tell you to try 36 bands across the board. In brands that run stretchier, such as Freya, you'd probably be fine in a 36. Also as you get larger in bands, they often get stretchier so you may find 36's to be your best bet. For now I would start with both 36 and some 38s until you figure out what will work best for you.

Your 40DDD is roughly a UK 40E. The gap at the center likely comes from the cups being too small and also probably the wrong shape. Are you scooping and swooping all your tissue into the cups? How far away is the center gore and how much overspill are you getting? I suspect 38FF/G is probably an overestimation. From your numbers I'm getting 38E as likely the smallest possible and 36G as likely the largest possible size. I would start with 38F and 36FF. A good projected bra to start with available in that size is Panache Envy. Cleo Kali is good for fuller on bottom shapes but may or may not have enough room at the underwire for you and the wires are likely to be a little wide. Cleo Erin is a discontinued clone of Cleo Lily, also discontinued, which is like The Awesomest UK Bra for narrow roots and even fullness/short roots on the planet, but is difficult to find anywhere. There are a couple left in both 38F and 36FF on eBay though.

I suspect UK wires may run a bit on the wide side for you, but it's hard to tell without trying some on. Are you nursing? Cake Macaroon is a pretty nursing bra available in your size range but I don't know how it fits.

I'm not an expert on recommendations in your size range, so I hope someone else chimes in with more suggestions!

Maybe something like this? http://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Rebecca-Spacer-Molded/dp/B00UTGOCSG

or this? http://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Smoothing-Moulded-4500/dp/B00UTGODBM/ref=cts_ap_1_cts

Or this? http://www.amazon.com/Elomi-Smoothing-Seamless-Underwire-3911/dp/B0014VKKI6/ref=sr_1_12?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1452486860&sr=1-12&nodeID=7141123011&keywords=molded+bra+34GG

You can tell if it's UK or American sizing when you're shopping by seeing if sizes like FF or GG are listed... American sizes don't double letters after DD or DDD (depending on brand.) Good luck!!

Hey girl! Fellow 30FF 18-year old here. I relate to all of this. There's not much I can say that will help because I'm currently struggling with the idea of a reduction too, BUT I can help with your bra-finding issues.
I searched for months to find cute bras and these are some that I currently own that are supportive, sexy, and not tooo expensive:

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this one is my favorite!

The first thing that immediately jumps out at me is the discrepancy between your measurements and the bra band size you went with. Sister sizes get gradually shallower and wider as you size up in the band, while having the same volume. Does that make sense? In other words, a 28D/DD or 26DD/E is going to have far more projection in the cup than a 30C is.


It seems like you're experiencing what a lot of us on here did, stuffing our 30DD busts into a 34C and ending up with a fit that sucks. I think a 30 band size is going to be much too large for you given your measurements, and even if CK runs 'small' in the band it's not going to change the mismatch in cup shape, which means the C cup is going to be much too shallow for you.

I'd highly recommend trying something in a 28 band size, if not a 26. I understand that 26 bands are quite hard to find. In my experience 28 is significantly easier to find. What is available to you is probably gonna depend on your geographic area, but ordering bras in your size online to try on isn't a bad idea. Amazon Prime, for example, does free exchanges/returns.

Edited to add: Here are a couple bras available in 28D/DD on Amazon Prime.

Parfait Charlotte, assorted colors

Skarlett Blue Petite Plus Balconnet (I have this bra and it's one of my favorites! I would get it in all the colors if I could.)

Freya Patsy

In my case I originally thought my boobs were shallow, but later found out they are projected, just thin. I'm sure the fact that I wear binders somewhat regularly doesn't help them in that department, heh.

Just got this one a few days ago, so far its pretty good, I have somewhat of a larger chest and it flattens me out pretty well. Comfort is good too. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00I54XGZE/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

According to bratabase this bra's band is on the stretchier side, stretching up to 31". So that could be part of why the gore is not tacking for you. It's also harder to diagnose shape and fit issues with molded cup bras, so you might want to try out some soft-cup bras like the Cleo Marcie or Lucy so the lovely ladies here can help you get a better idea of your shape.
For a strapless, I really like the Freya Deco Strapless. And I think a 30DD would be a good size to start with for this particular bra.

I'm getting somewhere in the 38C/D range, but it does sound like you have a shallow shape, which is why you're finding that smaller cups appear to fit.

There should be plenty of bras available in your size on Amazon, which is pretty neutral/non-obvious packaging. I'd say it's worth trying Freya Marvel or Deco, which comes in soft cup and wired versions.

I would look at Fantasie bras with that. Rebecca and Eclipse are well-known here, but there are also Rebecca Lace, Leona, Neve, Smoothing Rigid and even unpadded Smoothing Seam Free Balcony and even Ella basque. You may want to size down in a cup at least in some of them being very FoB: when my daughter needed 32G in most bras and was on wide-set and FoBish side, she wore 32FF in Eclipse.

Freya Idol may be not what you want as I wouldn't describe it as 'front and center' look (even though on me it does give almost perfectly round shape to my very soft and pendulous boobs, the very placement of the boobs is closer to how Elomi Bijou sits on Georgina Horne, just a bit less extreme maybe - may look more 'hourglassy' under certain clothes, but may make one look heavier) , but Freya Muse may be an option. Also if you can, try Freya Idol Allure and Starlight - they were rumored to be more 'centering' even though I haven't tried them yet myself.

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I'm a 34F and I love the Anita bras. Kind of on the pricey side, but I have had 3 and they are the best support I've ever found, and have lasted months.

I think AA is unlikely when you've ever been this big but one can hope! You're probably not actually 34D or DD now btw, it is unlikely your band size went up unless you've gained weight in general? Probably the sister size 32E!

Pretty ones are usually nylon and everyday is cotton. I look for two layers at least and get them to fit really tight (almost binding, they're tiny and uneven anyway might as well go for the Tiny Titty Committee look)

I have this sticky bra that I have been reusing for like a year. It provides a little shape- not as much support, but you're never going to get much of that in a strapless bra- and stays on REALLY well. I am a 34C. It's lasted so long because the adhesive is SUPER sticky. When I take it off I just stick the cups together. Never had a problem with sweat but that's just me

I wore an adhesive strapless bra (https://www.amazon.com/Tidetell-Adhesive-Invisible-Strapless-Thickness/dp/B00PIAPPYI/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1480560080&sr=8-1&keywords=adhesive+strapless+bra) because I knew seeing the bra at all would drive me crazy. Definitely wore panties that completely covered my butt though!

I wore heels because I'm pretty short and knew I'd be wearing heels on the day of the wedding. So, I wanted to see how the dress would look on me when I was a bit "longer" :)

That said, I would just wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident!

thanks so much -- I own the seamless molded tshirt bra and it's great, but i can't wear anything lower cut with it and it buckles a lot when I lean over. I have such a small clavicle that it's just too large of a gore. I haven't been able to convince my usual bra shop to get me into the Jana ... I think for reasons that seemed very valid at the time but that I now no longer remember.

*and yes! I'd love recs for other brands!!

Cheap cotton sports bras are the best. They breathe, which is super important when you're in a bra 24/7. I was wearing a more lycra one for a bit and got boob pimples. Not attractive!!

I now wear these, and they work great. Hanes Women's Stretch Cotton Low Imact Sports Bras - 2 Pack, White/Black, Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009DJCHWI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_oQ9EzbNPMYBWP

I also hate wearing bras (I have smaller boobs and I find them all so uncomfortable) but I really love wearing this comfy bralette. It feels like I'm wearing nothing, smooths over my nipples, but doesn't have any padding or tightness. Also, it's really cheap. Consider throwing something like this on and meet in the middle?

Spacer bras! I have the Panache Cari and I've also heard good things about the Fantasie Rebecca. They're not quite moulded cups, more like a thick, stiffer mesh that breathes well. Note that these are European sizes, so if you haven't already, head over to r/abrathatfits to find the right fit :)

34DD to 34DDD here: I finally invested in a better-quality bra than Victoria's Secret (sorry, nothing there fits me) and this one is baller: http://www.amazon.com/Wacoal-Womens-Delicate-Notion-855162/dp/tags-on-product/B002FGUPUM

It's the only thing I wear now, and the bf loved it too. FYI, it's a bit see-through too. ;)


Ninja edit: It was recommended to me by a large-chested VS bra fitter, who prefers to direct people to the best bra for them, not to the best VS bra for them.

1. don't buy VS bras.
   
2. only handwash (or at least gentle cycle) bras.
   
3. only hang-dry, NEVER machine-dry bras.
   
4. buy better bras.
   
   If you have biggish boobs, the absolute best underwire bra I have owned is by Fantasie. It's not padded but gives FANTASTIC uplifted shape, doesn't slide around in back (assuming sized properly), doesn't create backfat bulges, etc. I know it's like $60 damn dollars but check eBay, sometimes you can find it new or tried on for more around $20.
   
   This model of bra lasted me, no joke, over 4 years of frequent use before getting stretched out because the elastic aged. I can't recommend it enough.

Nordstrom Rack can be quite hit or miss for sizes out of the matrix (aka the sizes that are most easily/readily found at most if not all stores).

UK brands are what you want to look at - not only are the sizes you're measuring at not available in any US brand, but boring/plain styles and neutral colors are actually quite rare in UK brands.

As for cleavage, most people only get buttcrack cleavage in poorly fitting bras. The cleavage you see Victoria's Secret models have is a combination of their natural breast shape and the fact that they are all wearing bras that are too small.

For projected with even fullness, I'd recommend checking out any of these: Cleo Hettie, Panache Andorra, and Fantasie Rebecca

u/xuenylom u/noys Do you have any recs for spacer or molded cup bras that are good for even fullness that come in 32G and 32GG?

Hi new friend, I have very similar measurements and I'm also shallow! I'm more full-all-over than FOB though, just FYI.

The Deco is my worst enemy. Worst. I've tried it in 6 different sizes and I'm convinced that it just doesn't work for larger cup shallow breasts. Two of my favorite bras are the Cleo Juna and the padded half-cup version of the Freya Patsy. The other Freya halfcups (the ones with the vertical seams AND the horizontal seam across the top... these can be identified by the contrast fabric, like this) may also work out for you. All of these should be pretty easy to find, too. I'd recommend going for a 28G in the Juna and a 28FF in the Freya halfcups based on what you're wearing now, though my same bust measurements have me in a 28GG with the Juna and a (very loose) 30FF in the halfcups. But that could be a shape thing.

I have two 34G (UK) Wacoal bras that are unlined. This one: http://www.amazon.com/Wacoal-Womens-Retro-Chic-Figure/dp/B002WJH3DY and this one: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002FGUPUM. The first is nude/black, and the second is black. I'd like $15 + shipping for both, but if you want to message me, I'd be happy to figure something out. I just want to get them out of my closet.

Are you in the US? For regular bras, I found some cute ones on Amazon with free prime shipping and free returns in either 28D or 28DD that you could try if you like any of them!

• http://smile.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Charlotte-Padded/dp/B00H7KS6F2/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Flourish-Underwire-Balcony-Blossom/dp/B00JOENC4O/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Gem-Balcony-Black/dp/B009W48W78/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Underwired-Moulded-Fuchsia/dp/B00KIQURQI/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Curvy-Kate-Womens-Portia-Spice/dp/B00KHJ6WRO/
  
  Also, you can turn any bra into a babydoll like so: http://www.instructables.com/id/Turn-you-bra-into-a-sexy-Baby-Doll-for-Valentines/
  
  Sure, it's not necessarily as pro (or as lazy ; ) as buying it premade, but it gives you a lot more options!
  
  

I had the same problem with the CK Princess and other CK bras. Just recently picked up the Cleo Lucy, and it fits perfectly. I also got it for $35, so that's pretty awesome.

28C is sadly one of those very elusive sizes that is hard to find. Cleo will be bringing out a 28C later this year and there are a few options if you really need a 28C, but until then it might be easier to just try a 28D and work from there.

Cleo Juna is a good beginner bra that comes in 28D and beige. Alternatives would be the Freya Deco Halfcup and the Freya Patsy Padded Halfcups or the Freya Deco Softcup. The latter comes in 28C.

http://www.herroom.com/cleo-by-panache-6461-juna-balconnet-bra.shtml

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Nude/dp/B006BSN4TY/

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Patsy-Padded-Ballet/dp/B00EM8N2S8/

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Soft/dp/B00AIIKRNO/

Also check out this thread:

http://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/1ub9fp/psa_for_those_of_you_with_small_shallow_breasts/

Wearing a bra will not prevent sagging. That’s a myth. Sagging depends on the type of tissue in your breast, genetics, pregnancies, age, etc. So wear whatever kid of bra you want. Since my boobs fluctuated in size while nursing, I got some comfy, stretchy bras that could clip down like these Hanes bras and wore them pretty much for the first 6 months. Still wear them now sometimes!

I would recommend that you try the specific cut/bra that I recommended above.

The Freya Longlines are also bras that are definitely on the shallow side i.e. not what you need.

Also if, in the future, you find a bra that fits perfectly but is stabby in the gore, you can use pliers to bend the underwires outwards, away from your sternum at the gore. But don't do this with this bra, return it and try one of the bras/cuts I recommended.

Edit:

This is Panache Envy: https://www.amazon.com/Panache-Womens-Envy-Balconnet-Ivory/dp/B00OZK81XE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315137&sr=8-1&keywords=Panache+envy

This is Cleo Hettie: https://www.amazon.com/Cleo-Womens-Hettie-Balconnet-Blue/dp/B01IAFMCTS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315173&sr=8-1&keywords=Cleo+Hettie

This is a Freya Side-Support bra: https://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Underwire-Support-Plunge/dp/B01291GFNI/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315208&sr=8-1&keywords=Freya+Hero+bra

These are Fantasie Side-Support bras:

Alex: https://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Alex-Underwired-Support/dp/B00VADTNDQ/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315259&sr=8-5&keywords=Fantasie+bras

Elodie: https://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Women-s-Underwire-Support-Fan-FL2182/dp/B0063P65DM/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315259&sr=8-12&keywords=Fantasie+bras

Rosanne: https://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Rosanne-Underwired-Support/dp/B01N7545MV/ref=sr_1_16?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315259&sr=8-16&keywords=Fantasie+bras

Amelie: https://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Amelie-Underwire-Support/dp/B01DD5TD1K/ref=sr_1_20?ie=UTF8&qid=1495315381&sr=8-20&keywords=Fantasie+bras

(Links are just to give you examples, you can buy them elsewhere if you prefer but make sure the name of the items match.)

Edit: Forgot that Fantasie doesn't go down to 28 in this cut. In that case get Freya Side-Support cuts instead.

Freya makes a soft cup Deco that is wireless, not a bralette, but it is padded. I've never tried it, but I remember looking at it at some point in time. Here's the Amazon link, although you might be able to find a better price somewhere else.

https://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Soft/dp/B00AIIKRNO/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467647402&sr=8-1-fkmr1&keywords=freya+wireless+deco

"Bandless" is a way to describe bras. Bras are either banded or bandless. It refers to if the band goes under the cups, like Marcie (a banded bra) or like Lucy, an unbanded bra. See how on the Lucy, the bottom of the cup ends at the underwire, where the Marcie has more fabric there that continues from the band?

I understand your heavy chest struggle. This bra saved the day for me when I was training(jogging) for a half marathon. You can customize how much lifting you want the straps to do which is nice. Not my cutest sports bra but definitely my most dependable.

https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8

Someone who shares the pain! Projection is just so hard to find, I don't really understand...

I usually just wear those built in bra tank tops (the only ones that fit well are the ones from Old Navy), soft cotton pullover type things (similar to these), or the one sports bra that I've found that wasn't a full on top style... I swear, being not full on top is almost as hard as being pendulous.

I saw your post above about needing to order 28s online -- the Cleo Lucy in 28F in black or white is on sale on Amazon (Prime) w/ free shipping and returns for $31.90.

1. Buy a box of Strap Perfects ($2.25 on Amazon). Not only does mine keep my bra straps out of sight when I'm wearing certain necklines or tank tops, but they also lift my boobs up and straighten my shoulders.
   
   
2. Always keep tampons, pads, or the device of your choosing with you! Even if your period is like clockwork, Aunt Flo's flight can get in early.
   
   
3. Don't depend on anyone else to supply sexual protection. Always carry condoms!!
   
   
4. Pores looking large? Smear egg white on your face, let it dry, then rinse off. It tightens your skin up. It can feel a little strange, but a drop of olive oil helps.
   
   
5. Shave your pits in two direction for the closest shave.

Try something like these bra accessories. They're really incredible - the straps don't fall, and they perk your boobs right up. Not to mention you can hide the straps under tank tops and dresses with racer backs.

I bought some bikinis online that are totally not flattering. Is there any way to add some "oomph" to salvage these non-returnable tops? I thought about trying one of [these] (http://www.amazon.com/Tidetell-Adhesive-Invisible-Strapless-Thickness/dp/B00PIAPPYI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1464564560&sr=8-2&keywords=invisible+bra) (link NSFW) silicone "invisible bras" underneath? Would that work? Has anyone ever tried these and do they actually give you some cleavage/uplift?

Give this bra a shot. I wear something like 34G and nothing moves for me. Also check out blogilates - her calenders are a mix of pilates, bodyweight workouts, stretching and high intensity cardio. It was/is really hard and I definitely saw results in strength. I also just started C25k but I wouldn't try to do both at the same time to start.

Do you think that a racerback converter might help?

This one is amazing!
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cts_ap_1_vtp?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_p=2897711222&pf_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&pd_rd_wg=PhPC8&pf_rd_s=desktop-detail-softlines&pf_rd_t=40701&pd_rd_i=B00553XFN6&pd_rd_w=pkFBI&pf_rd_i=desktop-detail-softlines&pd_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&_encoding=UTF8

A-maze-ing!
I'm a 36j and I shove myself into 38h and there is no bounce. May I repeat, no bounce! I do a lot of high impact stuff too.

I'm interested in the 34F set! I have a two Wacoal 34G bras for trade. this one and this one but in black. What do you think?

This is pretty much a binder but can pass for a bra.

https://www.amazon.com/Underworks-MagiCotton-Sports-Binding-Minimizer/dp/B00I54XGZE/ref=sr_1_4?crid=1BNWBIDTF684X&keywords=underworks+magicotton+sports+bra+and+binding+minimizer+bra&qid=1569009608&sprefix=underworks+bra+bin%2Caps%2C125&sr=8-4

Seconded this! Look into brand name Parfait, specifically the Charlotte style. It's a molded cup, balconette style. I think it starts around a 28D, and is available on Amazon. Parfait is more affordable brand, too, so that's a bonus.

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Parfait - Charlotte on Amazon

Here's a few links for you:

Freya Faye:
Amazon Link

Freya Siren:
Amazon Link

Cleo Lucy:
Amazon Link

Cleo Kali:
Amazon Link

I have these and I've never had a problem, though I generally use rubber bands or a bit of string in a pinch. I've never had the clips break (though I HAVE lost a few rubber bands) - just remember to loosen the straps before using anything to relieve some of the tension.

I ordered a bunch of these sports bras, and cut 2 holes where the flanges would go in a couple of them. If you have an old sports bra at home, you could use that as as back up!

> will i go crazy from having to constantly wear a sports bra for seven days straight?

If you've never worn one before, yeah. Before the end of day 1.

There are a couple types of sports bras: compression, encapsulation and both. Compression sample

Encapsulation sporting bras look like regular bras: cup for each breast. Sample

A combination sporting bra has separate cups for each breast and an adjustable panel that holds them secure. Sample.

http://www.rei.com/learn/expert-advice/sports-bras.html

> Keep in mind that i just have a very small bit of breast growth, but the whole nipple situation is a problem that needs to be hidden.

A t-shirt underneath a button down shirt works for me. Keep both dark colors so the areola doesn't show through. A single t-shirt works if the material is opaque and thick. I think the compression ones may suffice, but be aware that the band sizes for compression ones may not come in your size, they seem to stop around 38-ish and some brands stop at much smaller band sizes.