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I've been pretty happy with Glamorise wirefree bras from Amazon. Me and wires don't go well together, either. I have two of the Magic Lift band in 38DD and they are great and comfortable for every day and provide okay (not fabulous) shape for a wirefree bra. I honestly haven't found a wirefree bra that replicates a wire. But I can't wear a wire for more than an hour or so, so I usually end up trying one on for a big occasion, then giving up before I leave the house and putting on my Glamorise!

I also have one of their Sports bras and I will not buy another brand. Period. Fabulous for me.

I honestly cannot recall if they are UK or US sizing at this time. I have to dig out my numbers, which I've saved somewhere. But I can recommend them as great every day bras. One of my t-shirt bras (first link) is 3 years old and another is one year old and I basically alternate them every day.

It did take me a little bit to figure out sizing, as I look through my Amazon order history. Looks like I tried the 38F first and then went down to the 38DD. I think was a 38F by the calculator on here and may have confused UK/US sizing.

Your fit issues mean that you are likely shallow, so definitely check out the shallow guide we have.

Nordstrom online does do free shipping/returns. Amazon does too, for some (most?) bras. If you're shallow, I suggest you try the Cleo Maddie and Freya Deco Halfcup for a nice rounded molded shape. The Freya Deco has a bit of pushup padding and makes me look fantastic in a tanktop!

I also really like the kensie stella from Nordstrom but never get to recommend it! It's not really an everyday bra but definitely runs shallow and the slight longline is cute. It doesn't give much lift/oomph but has a more natural silhouette. I feel the same way about the Cleo Juna.

The b.tempt'd ciao bella is another great bra for shallow/wide shapes but I find it makes my boobs look pointy.

Aerie also has shallow-friendly bras in the 32C/D range, but I can't remember which style names work best!

People will recommend that you try unlined bras to get a better idea of your shape - it is easier to see fit issues with an unlined bra. I don't have any recommendations, though.

As an anecdote, I'm a 30D and wore 32A/B or 34A before finding my correct size. None of them fit right. My breasts fell out the bottom of 32As when I lifted my arms, 32Bs gapped sometimes but still felt tight, and 34A was the comfiest but there was definite gapping. Straps fell off my shoulders all the time. I don't have any of these problems with bras in a 30D that fit my shallow breast shape.

Yep, you're in the right place! :)

First thing I want to say is I recommend checking your size with us. We have instructions on how to measure yourself here. This is something I mention to basically everyone who comes through here, but I think it's especially important for brides because your breasts will look their best, get the most lift and support, and be the most comfortable in a well-fitting bra.

It looks like a low-back converter (example) might be an option to consider. That would allow you to wear a regular bra and not have to worry about finding something with a low back. They can compromise fit and support, however, so if you're interested in going this route make sure you try the bra on with the converter ahead of time.

Check our special event guide and see if there's options for you on there. All the size ranges are in UK sizing unless otherwise noted. There are size conversion charts you can reference here

First, get sized on r/abrathatfits. I have to have ones with hooks because they provide far more support than the pull-over-your-head. Also, but ones by band and cup size, not ones that are S-XL sizing. This one by Glamorise is currently my favorite for support. I like my ones from Cacique too. Panache makes supportive bras for larger sizes, but for me the fit isn't right with that company.

If you live near a Cacique (Lane Bryant), you can order a bunch and then return them for free at the store. And certain stores on Amazon like NY Lingerie offer free returns. I recommend that and buying a bunch to try on knowing you won't lose any money if you have to return them.

Hi again! It sounds like you have the non-elasticised extenders. Here are ones with elastic and here is the kind that are not elasticised. The ones with elastic of course have more stretch, and they change the fit/feel of your band more (although still reversible, of course), whereas the non-elastic ones are just like adding extra hooks to your band; the band will feel a bit looser but it's closer to simulating a larger size band. It's one way to get an "in-between" band size; the other being to buy the larger band and do it up on tighter hooks. It does alter where the straps sit on your shoulders a little; some find this uncomfortable and others don't notice. But if you don't like it, you just take it off.

Wide wires refers to the placement of them; or more precisely how wide apart the wires are in the cups. So if you measure on the inside of the cup (with the bra off, of course) across the widest part of the cup from one inner edge of the wire channel to the other, that's the wire width, or cup width as it may be called. Measuring instructions here. Elomi and its sister company Goddess have pretty much the widest-set wires of any bras, though some other companies have the wide wires/cups as well.

I hear you about the center-pull straps as I prefer them myself, but they're hard to get. Elomi and Goddess do them, and so does a company called Fantasie in some of their bras, but I'm hesitant to recommend them because they don't seem to give enough support for the larger bust. I don't know that Goddess has anything better to offer you than Elomi. Their Keira bra (my "namesake") is similar in fit to Caitlyn but not identical. Keira has clones; Kayla and Adelaide. It's a bit of a shallower fit. Then again, if you're experimenting with going up in cup size in Caitlyn, then the comparable cup size in Keira would give you something just a little different to compare. Then they have a couple of bras called Clara and Alice that come up higher in the chest piece, but it's extra fabric, not a higher gore. They too fit a little differently. Goddess uses US cup sizes though, so an Elomi H cup is Goddess K cup, HH = L, and so forth up to Goddess N cup in some cases which is equivalent of JJ cup UK.

Yeah, Im currently single, but ive definitely thought about what relationships i might miss. What ive decided though, is that if i find someone that really loves me, they will love me no matter what i do, and anything else isnt worth it. (Ik thats so oversaid, but i really think its the right idea)
That being said, it doesn't make it suck any less.

If you haven't talked about it with her yet though, i wouldn't count it out just yet. One of my friends recently went through a similar experience with his girlfriend, and she was totally accepting.

For tucking, i don't have a whole lot of experience, and dont really know what youre referring too haha. but what works for me is using this gaffe with some boyshorts under it because its assless lol.

And yeah, i have mild anxiety so i def understand.

I like the Glamorise No-Bounce bra that JessPlays mentioned, but I love the Glamorise double-layer custom-control bra.

I get good support from both, but the custom-control gives me a better shape (more rounded and more pushed-up). I ordered a bunch of the custom-control ones, and now I only use the no-bounce ones as a backup. I'm a 38H, so I know how important good support is!

As a general reference, bratabase can be a good resource for bra reviews and suggestions for your particular measurements.

I was a 34 DD when I went to basic. AF but relevant advice anyways.

Double up on the cheaper, less supportive bras.Also, consider going down one cup size from what you should technically wear.

If you have the money, Glamourise makes this one and Moving Comfort makes this one. Both are awesome but the Glamourise one is my favorite for bounce control and a bit of separation. I trained for three half marathons in the Moving Comfort ones and the Glamourise ones have ended up great for running since having kids/gaining weight and turning into a 38G.

Trust me on the bras.

Not quite the same, but I've been quite happy with "Kalon" stuff. Someone else mentioned them here as great for tucking, and I can confirm. I've not used LeoLines, but I've used other gaff panties, and I find these work better than many, and they're cheap.

Boyshort style works best imo, but the hipster panties work well too:
https://smile.amazon.com/Kalon-Womens-Spandex-Boyshort-Panties/dp/B01GK7FENE/
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01GKAECHU/

I’m 23+4 and have quite the bump. I’m still in my pre-pregnancy underwear (the seamless 5 for $20 Target undies mentioned above, and I can second that suggestion), but from pretty early on I bought and started to use bra strap extenders, and I cannot recommend them enough!! I got a multi-pack on Amazon, and I use them literally every day. My boobs have gotten bigger but I feel like I’m not spilling out of the cups of my normal bras, and it’s just as much my rib cage area has expanded (I was a 28-30 band size before, have always been narrow in that area), and I hate the feeling of being squeezed. I have a particular bra style I like and didn’t want to buy all new bras not knowing how big I’d end up. I do plan to get nursing bras when the time comes, but who knows what size I’ll want at that point. So the bra strap extenders have been legit game changers. They’re up there with maternity leggings as one of the best purchases I’ve made in terms of maternity clothing. I’ll find a link and add it when I have a minute!

ETA link: The best $8 I’ve spent in a while!

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00I54XGZE/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I have bought other binders, but I pretty much only wear these. They are incredibly comfortable and bind well. They don't get me completely flat (I'm about a C cup and a bit overweight,) but make my chest look acceptably masculine. Would definitely recommend.

I got these and I love them. I've never felt or seen those really nice expensive ones online but I must say that for the price I am extremely satisfied. Nice feel and shape - just won't blend in and look real on your skin if your trying to go topless. Perfect for filling out a bra under your top though.

I have the Grace, and I can tell you it's pretty projected and probably a shape mismatch for you - more space at the apex then you need. You should try the Porcelain itself, which has a lower cup and higher gore (which may help with the tissue escape) than the Deco and about the same amount of projection.

The Cleo Jolie is adorable and looks like it fits quite well! You should try the Maddie and the Juna too. And maybe some other half-cups - half cups and tall roots are a great combination - like the Curvy Kate Ritzy, b.tempt'd Ciao Bella, and Pour Moi Amour.

Maybe something like this? http://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Rebecca-Spacer-Molded/dp/B00UTGOCSG

or this? http://www.amazon.com/Fantasie-Womens-Smoothing-Moulded-4500/dp/B00UTGODBM/ref=cts_ap_1_cts

Or this? http://www.amazon.com/Elomi-Smoothing-Seamless-Underwire-3911/dp/B0014VKKI6/ref=sr_1_12?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1452486860&sr=1-12&nodeID=7141123011&keywords=molded+bra+34GG

You can tell if it's UK or American sizing when you're shopping by seeing if sizes like FF or GG are listed... American sizes don't double letters after DD or DDD (depending on brand.) Good luck!!

The first thing that immediately jumps out at me is the discrepancy between your measurements and the bra band size you went with. Sister sizes get gradually shallower and wider as you size up in the band, while having the same volume. Does that make sense? In other words, a 28D/DD or 26DD/E is going to have far more projection in the cup than a 30C is.


It seems like you're experiencing what a lot of us on here did, stuffing our 30DD busts into a 34C and ending up with a fit that sucks. I think a 30 band size is going to be much too large for you given your measurements, and even if CK runs 'small' in the band it's not going to change the mismatch in cup shape, which means the C cup is going to be much too shallow for you.

I'd highly recommend trying something in a 28 band size, if not a 26. I understand that 26 bands are quite hard to find. In my experience 28 is significantly easier to find. What is available to you is probably gonna depend on your geographic area, but ordering bras in your size online to try on isn't a bad idea. Amazon Prime, for example, does free exchanges/returns.

Edited to add: Here are a couple bras available in 28D/DD on Amazon Prime.

Parfait Charlotte, assorted colors

Skarlett Blue Petite Plus Balconnet (I have this bra and it's one of my favorites! I would get it in all the colors if I could.)

Freya Patsy

In my case I originally thought my boobs were shallow, but later found out they are projected, just thin. I'm sure the fact that I wear binders somewhat regularly doesn't help them in that department, heh.

Just got this one a few days ago, so far its pretty good, I have somewhat of a larger chest and it flattens me out pretty well. Comfort is good too. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00I54XGZE/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I'm getting somewhere in the 38C/D range, but it does sound like you have a shallow shape, which is why you're finding that smaller cups appear to fit.

There should be plenty of bras available in your size on Amazon, which is pretty neutral/non-obvious packaging. I'd say it's worth trying Freya Marvel or Deco, which comes in soft cup and wired versions.

Hey, looks like a really fun build. If you don't plan on really showing any cleavage and are going to have it covered the entire time, Amazon sells breast forms like this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015YJ6BJU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
They will help give you the shape and movement without costing a lot of money.
Also you should probably check out the /r/crossplay subreddit, they have some really good advice over there too for this stuff.

I think AA is unlikely when you've ever been this big but one can hope! You're probably not actually 34D or DD now btw, it is unlikely your band size went up unless you've gained weight in general? Probably the sister size 32E!

Pretty ones are usually nylon and everyday is cotton. I look for two layers at least and get them to fit really tight (almost binding, they're tiny and uneven anyway might as well go for the Tiny Titty Committee look)

I have this sticky bra that I have been reusing for like a year. It provides a little shape- not as much support, but you're never going to get much of that in a strapless bra- and stays on REALLY well. I am a 34C. It's lasted so long because the adhesive is SUPER sticky. When I take it off I just stick the cups together. Never had a problem with sweat but that's just me

I wore an adhesive strapless bra (https://www.amazon.com/Tidetell-Adhesive-Invisible-Strapless-Thickness/dp/B00PIAPPYI/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1480560080&sr=8-1&keywords=adhesive+strapless+bra) because I knew seeing the bra at all would drive me crazy. Definitely wore panties that completely covered my butt though!

I wore heels because I'm pretty short and knew I'd be wearing heels on the day of the wedding. So, I wanted to see how the dress would look on me when I was a bit "longer" :)

That said, I would just wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident!

Cheap cotton sports bras are the best. They breathe, which is super important when you're in a bra 24/7. I was wearing a more lycra one for a bit and got boob pimples. Not attractive!!

I now wear these, and they work great. Hanes Women's Stretch Cotton Low Imact Sports Bras - 2 Pack, White/Black, Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009DJCHWI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_oQ9EzbNPMYBWP

Spacer bras! I have the Panache Cari and I've also heard good things about the Fantasie Rebecca. They're not quite moulded cups, more like a thick, stiffer mesh that breathes well. Note that these are European sizes, so if you haven't already, head over to r/abrathatfits to find the right fit :)

34DD to 34DDD here: I finally invested in a better-quality bra than Victoria's Secret (sorry, nothing there fits me) and this one is baller: http://www.amazon.com/Wacoal-Womens-Delicate-Notion-855162/dp/tags-on-product/B002FGUPUM

It's the only thing I wear now, and the bf loved it too. FYI, it's a bit see-through too. ;)


Ninja edit: It was recommended to me by a large-chested VS bra fitter, who prefers to direct people to the best bra for them, not to the best VS bra for them.

I do think it's possible to have a properly fitting bra that can be rotated (with a bit of effort, perhaps), around the body. Depends on the person and their comfort.

I think it's an important distinction that a nice snug band is necessary for support but I don't think that's a rule of thumb. I do think a 36 band is going to be way too big and not offer enough support.

My thoughts, /u/through_her_skull is to get her a bra extender (example linked). It may be that she needs to get accustomed to a tighter band or that the bras need a 'breaking-in' period. Either way, a bra extender will help and also allow for something like a 'half size' since you can move the hooks more incrementally between a 34 and a 36.

One last question: She is hooking her bras on the loosest hooks, correct?

I can hook you up! I've found the Amazon brand Feminique is great in terms of squishiness and roundness. They're pretty cheap compared to everything else, and look mighty convincing under clothing.

https://www.amazon.com/Feminique-1000gr-Silicone-Breast-Crossdresser/dp/B015YJ6BJU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Feminique&qid=1575009867&sr=8-1

I wear panties every day and own literally hundreds of pairs.
My favorite everyday panties are kalon boyshorts from amazon. these ones feel nice and feminine, are neutral colors, so they look like they could be just underwear, and the boyshorts cut has plenty of support for sissies with big balls Kalon 6 Pack Women's Nylon Spandex Boyshort Panties (Medium, Winter)

Hi new friend, I have very similar measurements and I'm also shallow! I'm more full-all-over than FOB though, just FYI.

The Deco is my worst enemy. Worst. I've tried it in 6 different sizes and I'm convinced that it just doesn't work for larger cup shallow breasts. Two of my favorite bras are the Cleo Juna and the padded half-cup version of the Freya Patsy. The other Freya halfcups (the ones with the vertical seams AND the horizontal seam across the top... these can be identified by the contrast fabric, like this) may also work out for you. All of these should be pretty easy to find, too. I'd recommend going for a 28G in the Juna and a 28FF in the Freya halfcups based on what you're wearing now, though my same bust measurements have me in a 28GG with the Juna and a (very loose) 30FF in the halfcups. But that could be a shape thing.

I find they stretch after a few wears, so better to go for the 30 back. If it is too tight on the first couple of wears, you can try an extender -- they are pretty cheap: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0000864RH
Good luck!

I have two 34G (UK) Wacoal bras that are unlined. This one: http://www.amazon.com/Wacoal-Womens-Retro-Chic-Figure/dp/B002WJH3DY and this one: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B002FGUPUM. The first is nude/black, and the second is black. I'd like $15 + shipping for both, but if you want to message me, I'd be happy to figure something out. I just want to get them out of my closet.

I bought these the other day, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015YJ6BJU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

They feel great, and really help with my dysphoria but I can't really help with the differences in shape or which are the most realistic. I will probably won't buy anymore because I plan on growing my own, but /r/crossdressing might also be a good place to go for those type of questions.

Are you in the US? For regular bras, I found some cute ones on Amazon with free prime shipping and free returns in either 28D or 28DD that you could try if you like any of them!

• http://smile.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Charlotte-Padded/dp/B00H7KS6F2/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Flourish-Underwire-Balcony-Blossom/dp/B00JOENC4O/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Gem-Balcony-Black/dp/B009W48W78/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Underwired-Moulded-Fuchsia/dp/B00KIQURQI/
  
• http://smile.amazon.com/Curvy-Kate-Womens-Portia-Spice/dp/B00KHJ6WRO/
  
  Also, you can turn any bra into a babydoll like so: http://www.instructables.com/id/Turn-you-bra-into-a-sexy-Baby-Doll-for-Valentines/
  
  Sure, it's not necessarily as pro (or as lazy ; ) as buying it premade, but it gives you a lot more options!
  
  

How backless are we talking?

You can get one of those adapter things- basically they hook onto the bra back closure, and you wrap it around diagonally. They are like this: http://www.amazon.com/Low-Expectations-Back-Converter-Piece/dp/B00519BDV0
I got one at TJ maxx for like $4. It's good in that it allows you to wear your normal bra.

I had the same problem with the CK Princess and other CK bras. Just recently picked up the Cleo Lucy, and it fits perfectly. I also got it for $35, so that's pretty awesome.

That is really pretty! Would something like this help?

https://www.amazon.com/Clips-Conceal-Straps-Cleavage-Control/dp/B012XFR25U/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1494439919&sr=8-2&keywords=bra+strap+clip

I saw them at Target yesterday too.

28C is sadly one of those very elusive sizes that is hard to find. Cleo will be bringing out a 28C later this year and there are a few options if you really need a 28C, but until then it might be easier to just try a 28D and work from there.

Cleo Juna is a good beginner bra that comes in 28D and beige. Alternatives would be the Freya Deco Halfcup and the Freya Patsy Padded Halfcups or the Freya Deco Softcup. The latter comes in 28C.

http://www.herroom.com/cleo-by-panache-6461-juna-balconnet-bra.shtml

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Nude/dp/B006BSN4TY/

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Patsy-Padded-Ballet/dp/B00EM8N2S8/

http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Soft/dp/B00AIIKRNO/

Also check out this thread:

http://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/1ub9fp/psa_for_those_of_you_with_small_shallow_breasts/

I got these breast forms online, and they're pretty good yet at a reasonable price: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B015YJ6BJU They have lots of different sizes, so you can get them smaller or larger if you want.

I found it! It's called Low Expectations and I have no idea if it actually works but it looks like it might do the trick for a few hours heh. I might have to invest in one next time I have to reach $25 for the free shipping..

Freya makes a soft cup Deco that is wireless, not a bralette, but it is padded. I've never tried it, but I remember looking at it at some point in time. Here's the Amazon link, although you might be able to find a better price somewhere else.

https://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Deco-Moulded-Soft/dp/B00AIIKRNO/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467647402&sr=8-1-fkmr1&keywords=freya+wireless+deco

• If you haven't already, please check your measurements according to the side bar. I can't emphasize this enough and if I sound rude about this I don't mean to, it's just important to finding a properly fitted bra of any type!
  
• How backless are we talking? They make low back converter straps that hook up directly to your bra and depending on how the back of the dress looks that could be an option for you. Typically you wear them so that it hooks directly in the back, loops around your stomach and then hooks to the other side. You can also wear them in such a way that you hook it to the back, bring the wing forward, wrap it around your back, and then hook it up to the other wing (also brought forward). The low-back converter strap method would probably give you the most support, though if it is also a strapless dress I don't recommend using one of these with the "bring it forward first" method because I imagine that it would fall down.
  
• Depending on your size the stick on backless bras may or may not work for you. There are a few different types of these, but keep in mind none of them will give you the same support as an actual bra (at least as far as the information I've gathered so far suggests). There's the silicone chicken cutlet type, the cloth chicken cutlet type, the underwire type, the U-plunge type, the disposable adhesive type, and then there's this type which encapsulates each breast, just to name a few. The problem with many of them (though not all of them) is that they label their sizes as "a-cup," "b-cup," "c-cup", etc. They assume that all a-cups (etc.) hold the same volume. This is completely inaccurate so trying to gauge your actual size is very difficult. Mostly you just have to buy it and try it multiple times until you find your size.
  
• For example: I wear a UK 30G and in a Nubra Original I found the c-cup to be just slightly too large and I ended up going with a b-cup. Though I've also heard from someone else who was about the same size as me that the c-cup and even the d-cup was way too small for them. I think I might be shallow shaped and I don't believe the other person was so breast shape may be an issue when finding one that fits as well.
  
• The Maidenform underwire one that I linked to does list sister sizes, so if you have been sized by the methods on the size bar and if a sister size is available then it could possibly fit. A possible fit issue I could see with these is that the wires could be too wide or too narrow depending. The very last adhesive bra that I listed to is probably the most accurate in terms of sizing, but from what I understand they aren't very low-cut if that is a concern.
  
• Another option you could try if you aren't concerned about support in the least is to use nipple covers and fashion tape to keep the dress stuck down to your skin.
  
  Having gotten through saying all of that, if you have been sized by the methods used here in r/abrathatfits and you end up getting one of these bras, I am currently working on collecting data in a survey so that a more accurate sizing guide could be created. Please fill it out and let us know how it goes for you, but again, only if you've been sized by our methods (and again if my repetitive nature about this is coming off as rude it's not intended to be - I just want to get the most accurate information out there for other people). And if anyone else is reading this, the survey is still going on. I've only had 2 responses to it so far.

I have some of these clips. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B012XFR25U/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_1?pf_rd_p=1944687622&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B005HTB5L2&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=0GBRR73FNSZK1DHEQNK3
They work OK if your bra straps are long enough. They are nice because you can put them exactly where you need them. Sometimes j-hooks are too high up for me.

"Bandless" is a way to describe bras. Bras are either banded or bandless. It refers to if the band goes under the cups, like Marcie (a banded bra) or like Lucy, an unbanded bra. See how on the Lucy, the bottom of the cup ends at the underwire, where the Marcie has more fabric there that continues from the band?

I understand your heavy chest struggle. This bra saved the day for me when I was training(jogging) for a half marathon. You can customize how much lifting you want the straps to do which is nice. Not my cutest sports bra but definitely my most dependable.

https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8

Someone who shares the pain! Projection is just so hard to find, I don't really understand...

I usually just wear those built in bra tank tops (the only ones that fit well are the ones from Old Navy), soft cotton pullover type things (similar to these), or the one sports bra that I've found that wasn't a full on top style... I swear, being not full on top is almost as hard as being pendulous.

Bra band extenders are my best friend! (like these)

I'm at the beginning of my 3rd trimester, and I've still been able to get away with wearing most of my regular bras with extenders. This way I can make them looser or tighter as needed. I can tell that sometime soon this hack won't cut it any more, but so far it's worked for me.

I'm not sure how much your boobs have grown, but I have found that the bra extenders, like this have really helped me get more use out of my older bras. Or if you do buy a few new ones, and continue growing, this will help you get more use out of them.

Don't know about making your own but we found some on Amazon for about $40 and they've worked really well. Here's the link: Check this out: Feminique 1000gr Silicone Breast Forms size 34D/36C/38B(size 7) Fak... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015YJ6BJU/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awdb_qMrFybDS5TQQF

I saw your post above about needing to order 28s online -- the Cleo Lucy in 28F in black or white is on sale on Amazon (Prime) w/ free shipping and returns for $31.90.

They're on amazon, ebay, aliexpress, everywhere! :)

Example: http://www.amazon.com/Fashion-First-Aid-Expectations-Converters/dp/B00QIS392O

1. Buy a box of Strap Perfects ($2.25 on Amazon). Not only does mine keep my bra straps out of sight when I'm wearing certain necklines or tank tops, but they also lift my boobs up and straighten my shoulders.
   
   
2. Always keep tampons, pads, or the device of your choosing with you! Even if your period is like clockwork, Aunt Flo's flight can get in early.
   
   
3. Don't depend on anyone else to supply sexual protection. Always carry condoms!!
   
   
4. Pores looking large? Smear egg white on your face, let it dry, then rinse off. It tightens your skin up. It can feel a little strange, but a drop of olive oil helps.
   
   
5. Shave your pits in two direction for the closest shave.

Try something like these bra accessories. They're really incredible - the straps don't fall, and they perk your boobs right up. Not to mention you can hide the straps under tank tops and dresses with racer backs.

I bought some bikinis online that are totally not flattering. Is there any way to add some "oomph" to salvage these non-returnable tops? I thought about trying one of [these] (http://www.amazon.com/Tidetell-Adhesive-Invisible-Strapless-Thickness/dp/B00PIAPPYI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1464564560&sr=8-2&keywords=invisible+bra) (link NSFW) silicone "invisible bras" underneath? Would that work? Has anyone ever tried these and do they actually give you some cleavage/uplift?

If you use one of these on the front and another on the back, you can wear a regular bra. Just make sure the band is firm and supportive and you loosen up the straps before clipping.

:)
Keep it going!
And, for just a couple dollars: http://www.amazon.com/Extenders-Individual-Bra/dp/B0000864RH

Try bra extenders, they’re pretty inexpensive. My cup size never really changed, just the bust so they worked for me.

Bra Extender 2 Hooks/3 Hooks/4 Hook, Bra Strap Extensions - 9 Packs (Black, White, Beige) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0757KB7DW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Q0IwDbGZ2EMA1

Do you think that a racerback converter might help?

Bra extenders - they'll do your body good.

http://www.amazon.com/Extenders-Individual-Bra/dp/B0000864RH

Considering these self-adhesive breast forms on Amazon. Anyone here have any experience with self-adhesive breast forms? Are they really self-adhesive? How long do they stay on?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HJ2D6WY/?coliid=I1M24ZUF6RIIF1&colid=1HYJYSOSVXZE4&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

Or should I go with a similar style and get medical adhesive to attach them? If so, do you prefer cream or liquid adhesive?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015YJ6BJU/?coliid=I35OVT5Q4UTN2D&colid=1HYJYSOSVXZE4&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

The ones I have are these cheap ones but there's a bunch of other options on amazon.
Low back converters might work too

This one is amazing!
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorise-Womens-Double-Layer-Custom-Control-Sport/dp/B00553XFN6/ref=cts_ap_1_vtp?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_p=2897711222&pf_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&pd_rd_wg=PhPC8&pf_rd_s=desktop-detail-softlines&pf_rd_t=40701&pd_rd_i=B00553XFN6&pd_rd_w=pkFBI&pf_rd_i=desktop-detail-softlines&pd_rd_r=SD21FR437XKM74DAVA9R&_encoding=UTF8

A-maze-ing!
I'm a 36j and I shove myself into 38h and there is no bounce. May I repeat, no bounce! I do a lot of high impact stuff too.

I'm interested in the 34F set! I have a two Wacoal 34G bras for trade. this one and this one but in black. What do you think?

This is pretty much a binder but can pass for a bra.

https://www.amazon.com/Underworks-MagiCotton-Sports-Binding-Minimizer/dp/B00I54XGZE/ref=sr_1_4?crid=1BNWBIDTF684X&keywords=underworks+magicotton+sports+bra+and+binding+minimizer+bra&qid=1569009608&sprefix=underworks+bra+bin%2Caps%2C125&sr=8-4

Get one of these!

You hook it on to your bra straps but then wrap it around your body for support and it crosses lower down on your back.

Seconded this! Look into brand name Parfait, specifically the Charlotte style. It's a molded cup, balconette style. I think it starts around a 28D, and is available on Amazon. Parfait is more affordable brand, too, so that's a bonus.

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Parfait - Charlotte on Amazon

There are different kinds of extenders. You can get non-stretchy ones with multiple sets of eyes, that way you have more control over how much longer the band will be. You might just need one extra hook while you're breaking in the bra. Here's a link to some on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Maidenform-Womens-Hook-Bra-Extender/dp/B0083QLOOO/ref=cts_ap_3_fbt

I'd suggest a Low Back Bra Converter (Link merely for show, no idea if this is a good one).

Otherwise, if you've got small, perky breasts, I'd suggest something to hide any nippleage showing through (depending on where you're wearing it - dinner with parents -COVER THEM/drinks with friends -Rock it!), and rock it braless.

As promised, recommendations.

Top recommendation for budget breastforms would be something like this: https://www.amazon.com/E-FAK-Concave-Silicone-Enhancer-Inserts/dp/B06XNQM5VY/

I got some that were similar from TheBreastformStore a while back, but they were open-box/minor-defect (if there was a defect, I never found it) so they were only $30-40. I can't find the page for them on there any more though.

Second rec: https://www.amazon.com/Feminique-Breast-Forms-Crossdresser-Mastectomy/dp/B015YJ6BJU/

These won't work as well for the bra you're getting though, hence the lower recommendation. These "teardrop" type forms, particularly ones with a flat back (which the cheap teardrops tend to have) work better with underwire bras.

Firstly, please do what /u/eriophora suggested! 32A is a very uncommon size, and a fitting bra will help you immensely right away if that is not your true size.

Now that that is out of the way, what kind of back does the dress have? There exist "low back bra extenders," but I have not used them myself so I am not sure how well they actually work. The ones I linked were totally random.

If you have a bra you want to wear with it, you could try one of these doohickies.

$40 or so. For example: https://www.amazon.com/Feminique-Breast-Forms-Crossdresser-Mastectomy/dp/B015YJ6BJU/r

https://www.amazon.com/Feminique-1000gr-Silicone-Breast-Crossdresser/dp/B015YJ6BJU/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?keywords=breast+forms&qid=1563181330&s=gateway&sprefix=breast+for&sr=8-3

All the items:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01LXKAK9J/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07CHCMQNZ/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B073ZBKN4J/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01HJKS9E2/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0792927JT/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01MRR2FZG/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01CU5AE0I/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015YJ6BJU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Everything but the plugs arrive Thursday!

Here's a few links for you:

Freya Faye:
Amazon Link

Freya Siren:
Amazon Link

Cleo Lucy:
Amazon Link

Cleo Kali:
Amazon Link

it is a boob job but probably not the type you are thinking (nsfw maybe?)

I'd try finding her something that fits in the cups and then getting an extender for the band.

I have these and I've never had a problem, though I generally use rubber bands or a bit of string in a pinch. I've never had the clips break (though I HAVE lost a few rubber bands) - just remember to loosen the straps before using anything to relieve some of the tension.

Ouch! that's not good, perhaps you could find a bra extender to tide you over until you can afford a new bra?

I have these: Feminique 1000gr Silicone Breast Forms size 34D/36C/38B(size 7) Fake boobs for Crossdresser/ Mastectomy Patient https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015YJ6BJU

I really like them. They also have smaller and bigger sizes. I’d probably go with these or the 600gr ones depending on your size.

Don’t use any of the “pocket bras” that you’ll see links to, they are all terrible. I’ve ordered like four different ones. Just find a decent normal bra.

I ordered a bunch of these sports bras, and cut 2 holes where the flanges would go in a couple of them. If you have an old sports bra at home, you could use that as as back up!

> will i go crazy from having to constantly wear a sports bra for seven days straight?

If you've never worn one before, yeah. Before the end of day 1.

There are a couple types of sports bras: compression, encapsulation and both. Compression sample

Encapsulation sporting bras look like regular bras: cup for each breast. Sample

A combination sporting bra has separate cups for each breast and an adjustable panel that holds them secure. Sample.

http://www.rei.com/learn/expert-advice/sports-bras.html

> Keep in mind that i just have a very small bit of breast growth, but the whole nipple situation is a problem that needs to be hidden.

A t-shirt underneath a button down shirt works for me. Keep both dark colors so the areola doesn't show through. A single t-shirt works if the material is opaque and thick. I think the compression ones may suffice, but be aware that the band sizes for compression ones may not come in your size, they seem to stop around 38-ish and some brands stop at much smaller band sizes.