Reddit mentions: The best mattress protectors

I'm sleeping on a Casper currently. I used to sleep on a Sleep Number mattress but I honestly like this one a lot better.

When I worked at that mattress factory back in the day, I had to haul off a 1 month old $5000 Tempurpedic memory foam mattresses that this couple really didn't like. I was really surprised to find that people pay so much for a mattress that they end up hating. That memory foam absorbs body heat and doesn't breathe like latex does. You end up sinking into the mattress to the point where rolling over or moving in the middle of the night becomes frustrating.

Whatever mattress you end up with, buy a mattress cover to protect it. I got this highly rated one off of Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002AQNXR4/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Nice pillows and pillow protectors are a good upgrade too. I ended up saving so much money from buying my mattress online that grabbing extras like new pillows and a really nice set of sheets didn't hurt my wallet so much. These pillows are super squishy and provide low-to-medium support: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000SONR1W/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1#

Sheets make a big difference to me and when I first saw the price on the sets at Parachute, I chuckled at how ridiculously high they seemed. I asked around online and bit the bullet. I have never been so satisfied day after day with any purchase. http://www.parachutehome.com (They talk about how they get softer after each wash and I thought that was total BS. It's actually true. The sheets get softer the longer you use them!)

Watch this video to learn more about what makes the Casper and Tuft and Needle mattresses different. It talks about what they're made of and who they're geared towards. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sov1T1BJ-mc

everybody always says towels but honestly i hate using towels. they don't really prevent the mattress from getting wet and they get heavy when soaked. when i first started squirting i used a waterproof crib mattress pad. that one is pricey, imho. i just paid like, 5 bucks for two at walmart. they worked really well for solo times but very poorly for partner times. i will say...uh...i outgrew the crib pads so to speak. they eventually couldn't handle my volume or um...spray pattern even during solo times. for partner times, these fascinator throws work AMAZINGLY well. i put mine down, go to town and when we're done i just move it off the bed and spend afterglow on a dry bed. the throw works really well solo times as well. they are pricey, which is why i sewed my own. i think if you can't d.i.y. one the price will be worth the peace of mind, honestly. and lastly, i will say that if you do not have a waterproof mattress cover, get one ASAP. do not pass go, do not collect $200. get thee a mattress cover. it protects the mattress from any spontaneous solo action or partner action or when the crib pad or throw is dirty and also from...overspray. as far as partner opinions, i recently had a partner who was shocked and turned off by the fact that i squirt and am multi-orgasmic. i gave him a heads up about both before we got down to brass tacks, but i don't think he was prepared for the truth of my words. :shrug: that's fine--he gets to have his opinion and i'm glad we found out early on. other guys i've been with feel like they've found the holy grail. one man's holy grail is another man's "ewww". just be you.

These waterproof blankets from LL Bean are my go to. they're a little crinkley (mostly when you're unfolding it) but cheaper and way better than the liberator blanket.

ETA: This mattress protector is really great and a super effective backup. It's not crinkley or hot like some waterproof mattress protectors I've tried and is great for the times you can't stop long enough to get the blanket

This isn't exactly what you asked, but I struggled with it too. The issue I had is that my mattress was maybe 12" thick before and these encasements are more like 16" thick, which is meant for the thicker mattresses.

The issue it created is that the dust mite cover would slide around, bunch up, etc. and that made it hot and uncomfortable. I hated it. But I didn't know what to do and couldn't find products with a snugger fit.

I also realized my mattress was a little old. I went to Amazon and bought a new one (Zinus green tea mattress) that was actually 16 inches thick and allowed the cover to be a better fit. This resolved the fit issue and made it nicer to sleep on.

Because the cover causes sheets to still slide around (it isn't as grippy as the mattress itself), I use those little corner clip things that help keep the cover in place.

It can run a little warm, but isn't as bad as before. I've learned to leave the temperature in my home down a little and use a fan as needed.

Hope that helps a little bit. This is the cover I use: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/

I totally get that. For most of us it's a pretty serious priority not to inconvenience others. I'm wet about 60%+ of nights, and I HATE for it to be bad enough to wake up my wife. I do wear diapers to bed, but I also use a waterproof mattress protector. She's probably not wet frequently enough to use disposable diapers, but she could use cloth all in one overnight pants. They aren't sexy, but they sold hold an accident, have an integrated waterproof barrier, and you wash them as needed.

I would recommend getting a waterproof mattress protector regardless. I think everyone should have one, bedwetting or not, to protect your mattress. Sell them in every major store now. Don't get a vinyl one, they suck. Vinyl is super cheap, but it's noisy, sweaty to sleep in, breaks down and tears quickly, and has a plasticy odor when new. Look for one with a "non-woven" barrier, or a PUL (polyurethane laminate) lining. They are quiet, and generally indistinguishable from a regular skirted mattress pad, and not much more expensive. This is the one I currently use:

https://www.amazon.com/Waterproof-Mattress-Protector-Queen-Size/dp/B07SMG5GGB

The surface is terry cloth, so it's very comfortable, and you just put the fitted sheet over it. The only warning is not to wash or dry on high heat, as it can melt the membrane. Warm wash and dry settings are fine.

To be totally frank, I've also accidentally peed on the couch, and an upholstered rocking chair, so I can't give you the best possible advice there. I can tell you that I spent a good deal of time scrubbing and washing to be sure I got them clean afterward. I mean, if you live with someone with some degree of incontinence there are going to accidents from time to time ...

However, I'm with you that she should be both more proactive about keeping the bed and other furniture dry, and if she's not, she did be more responsible about cleaning everything up when they're is an incident. It really isn't your responsibility to deal with her bedwetting, because she's not your child. That's the real issue I see you dealing with here. I think that's what deserves a conversation. I would be very honest about it, and tell her what you said here. Your concerned about the furniture being ruined. You could volunteer to help protect the mattresses, but all that she also consider wearing some protection to help keep it from happening as well, as eventually there mattress covers will fail (like everything, they eventually wear out). If she's not, she should also be making sure that she's the one taking care of all the cleanup when accidents do happen, and she should be vigilant not to fall asleep in places that are unprotected, OR she needs to change into personal protection in the evening if there is a risk she might fall asleep before getting ready for bed. It's just a reality of this condition.

I hope this is helpful, and don't worry about the other responses I got. I responded for you, and I'm used to getting crap from other people, but they aren't why I do this.

Many cats develop behavioral problems, especially litter box issues, when exposed to stressful situations. Obviously the cats' owners need to step up and take responsibly for their pets. That being said, here are some things you can suggest:

• Ensure that their litter boxes are located a low traffic area and kept clean (scoop at least once a day).
  
  
• Ensure that the cats have enough litter boxes. The general rule of thumb is one box for each cat plus one extra.
  
  
• Provide a scratching post or scratching pad. The corrugated cardboard pads are cheap and cats love them.
  
  
• Provide toys for them to play with instead of shoes. (Note: they are then likely to play with the toys IN your shoes, so better to just put them away.)
  
  
• Clean anything that had cat pee on it with an enzyme cleaner such as Nature's Miracle. Even after you clean it up, the cats will still be able to smell it and may be more likely to pee there again. If you replace your mattress but then use the same sheets/comforter that they previously peed on, this could be a problem.
  
  
• Even if you are now keeping your bedroom door closed, I recommend that you get a waterproof mattress protector. You never know when a cat might sneak in there, and it could save you a lot of money. I have one of these on each bed in my house, and no one (not me, not my husband, nor any of our frequent guests) ever notice it.
  
  
• If the cats are bothering your allergies, I suggest trying Zyrtec (or its generic equivalent). It helps a lot of people with pet allergies (myself included).
  
  
  
  Good luck!
  
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  Edit #2: Just saw your username, and would now like to repeat my recommendation to buy a mattress protector.
  
  

Here's a chart. Buy your twin mattress from Amazon! The boys fucking love those mattresses. It keeps them from sweating at night and even us adults feel comfy on it. I've napped on them many a time 😂 Also, Here is the mattress protector that I got... It's amazing and I can't believe it's so inexpensive.

Edit : woo! 7 years of glory!

I wouldn't call the product a BIFL but I had one that lasted about 5 years before I got rid of it when my ex took the cat. It was pretty easy to wipe clean most of the time with some water and non bleach cleaner (didn't want to accidentally bleach the bed sheets)

King Size SafeRest Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWK2A8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_kJCuzb67XQF08

There are 3 general types. 1 is a pure cover. Like this VODOF Soft & Warm Full Size Waterproof Mattress Pad Protector Cover, Breathable, Fitted Sheet Mattress Cover, Stretch Up to 17" Deep Pocket. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M7V63P4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_uCz3Cb35CGA7X (just using links for examples not recommendations). This won't change the bed at all. There are zip up versions too. Then you've got a lightly quilted cover. LEISURE TOWN Queen Mattress Pad Cover Cooling Mattress Topper Cotton Top Pillow Top with Snow Down Alternative Fill (8-21" Fitted Deep Pocket) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073TZF8BL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_uEz3CbA39GE7P there's light quilting with filling in it. It can help make the bed cooler. I can't see it changing the way the memory foam works. The only one that might have a slight difference is a feather bed or faux bed. That's because that's what they are. puredown Premium Natural White Goose Down Feather Overfilled Bed Topper 100% Cotton Fabric Mattress Pad King Down https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075FJGDT6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_6Iz3CbY8YPFPN in general this would be adding a "feather bed" on top of your mattress. They run 2-4 inches and it would give you that extremely soft fluffy feel. The bed would still do what it's supposed to but that feel of a feather bed would alter the feel a little. Feathers are warm. Probably a ton more than memory foam. Some love feather or faux feather. But it like anything else is a preference and would slightly alter the feel but it's supposed to. All links are because I'm too lazy to save photos in imgur. Another password i can't remember. They are not recommendations.

I really liked the putting a potty chair in his room idea. It’s good to have the option. Sometimes if they’re sleeping they can’t feel it coming and there’s no waking them up. Limit fluid intake before bed, go potty as part of his bedtime routine and be patient, they will grow out of it eventually. In the meantime use pull-ups and keep a protective/plastic sheet on his bed. That way you can easily take it off and wash it and he and his mattress won’t smell like urine.
SafeRest Twin Size Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWS9AI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_MJUiDb4M1WCDQ
I really like this brand because it’s plastic on the bottom and a soft fabric on the top so it doesn’t feel like you’re sleeping on plastic at all.

I recently bought a new bed, and I looked through this site to determine what would be best. I ended up going with a latex mattress. I'm pretty satisfied with it. The frame depends on what type of mattress you're getting. You'll probably want a frame and box spring for an innerspring mattress, but everything else just needs a foundation. Also, be sure to get a waterproof mattress cover to protect your mattress.

What I went with, for reference:

https://amzn.com/B002AQNXR4

https://amzn.com/B0051AQXZK

https://amzn.com/B00M169YVC

P.S., buy at least a queen if you're going to have another person in your bed. A double will be pretty cramped.

I've had great luck with this: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EJOYNBA

My ex girlfriend and I used to engage in wet play all the time, right on the bed. Never had any major problems. Usually it involved her on top and just completely releasing her entire bladder all over me. Sometimes she'd even stand up, holding onto the headboard, and let it all out. We did this probably at least once a week. At one point we stayed in bed for several hours while drinking heavily, and she did it 3-4 times in one night, resulting in a huuuuuuge wet mess. The mattress cover still held up pretty well.

The mattress pad does get weaker each time you wash it if you aren't careful, so at some point it is possible for a few drops to get through. If you're super concerned about it, use two! Or use towels in addition to it. You can't tell it's even there and can sleep on it regularly as well.

Not an HVAC person, nor a doctor, but I am an allergy sufferer that lives in Texas.

Allergies suck here. Come up to D/FW and you'll think you are going to die. Nice air filters and room air purifiers can help, but you'll never create the "clean room environment" you think you will.

Here are things I would try/check:

Get a good allergen reducing pillow case like this:

http://smile.amazon.com/Allersoft-100-Percent-Allergy-Standard-Encasement/dp/B002R0DR3I/

and a good mattress cover like this:

http://smile.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWNH4Q

Those two things will do tons more than the air filters.

Reduce or remove strong scents from the house (candles, scented plug ins, etc) as well as from detergents (try All free and clear). Try cleaning with "green" cleaning products, like any of the stuff from Mrs. Myers instead of the standard stuff. It takes a bit more elbow grease, but it can really help if you have respiratory issues.

If all else fails, buy some Flonase and use it reguarly (every day, even if no symptoms that day) during your bad allergy season:

http://smile.amazon.com/Flonase-Allergy-Relief-Nasal-Spray/dp/B00MXOVBO0/

It will take anywhere from about 3 days to a week to build of effectiveness after you start using it, but it generally will help almost anyone (I'm not a doctor, I have no idea what it will do to your girlfriend, check it out with a doctor if you aren't sure).

Good luck.

I use cotton bedding as well. I'd suggest picking whichever type of weave feels most comfortable to you (percale, sateen, etc). I'm currently using Threshold percale sheet sets from Target and Tommy Hilfiger sheet sets from Macy's and love them.

Dust mite allergy is a big thing for many eczema sufferers (including myself), and my allergist recommended using dust mite covers for the mattress and pillow to limit exposure. I just bought this one on Amazon last week.

As for doing laundry, it's a good idea to wash bedding using hot water weekly for cleanliness as well as to kill dust mites and bacteria etc. Fragrance can be a huge trigger for eczema, so I've been using All Free & Clear detergent and using white vinegar in a Downy ball for the wash. I also use dryer balls in the dryer instead of fabric softener (no fragrance and chemicals!).

I've been using a mattress protector and pillow protectors from Sleep Tite for about 18 months and I think they're great. They're completely waterproof, yet still have a degree of breathability so heat retention isn't too bad. Best of all, they don't make the crinkly plastic sounds you get with cheaper protectors.

I run them through the wash every time I clean my sheets and they've held up really well, even though I don't dry them on low heat like you're supposed to. If you take good care of them, you can expect them to last for years (they even come with a 15-year warranty!).

I know exactly how you feel. I've always squirted, and yeah you really do get sick of cleaning up all the damn time. Plus, if you're have your period things get REALLY messy. I generally just avoid masturbation/sex then, or use the shower. I used to hate it, but I don't mind it now though, I feel pretty neutral about it, it's just how my body works.



The best thing I've ever bought was a waterproof mattress protector like this - it goes over the mattress under the sheets and soaks up any spills. It's a godsend. I don't have to worry about the mattress any more, and I can get away with washing my sheets once a week.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003CT37L0?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s00

$349.99 + free shipping with prime. Had mine since April 14, 2014

Downsides :
takes like 2 days to decompress once you get it - and i see you're in a time pinch.
You absolutely should buy a protector at the same time, and those are hard to get right ... some of my ... 'sleepovers' complain this protector is too hot - probably because it is waterproof - which might be a good add for op. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0035E63WM?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00

upsides:
pretty much everything else, comfort, price, quality, durability. Spring mattresses are good when new new (1-2 yrs) especially for husky (250lbs) young men who like to ..... jump ... on the bed, this thing is just as good since the first day my evil bitch ex girlfriend unboxed it while I was still at school. The video on the unboxing looked pretty awesome..... but i will never know if it was actually that awesome.

Go to mattress firm and try out a Tulo Firm, it is pretty firm, comes in at 700 right now.

Target has a wide variety of sheets, you can get a king set for less than 55 typically (https://www.target.com/s/threshold+king+sheets)

If you are a Costco member or know someone I think they have some sheet sets that are less when on sale.

Mattress Protector: Luna: https://www.amazon.com/Luna-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B002AQPUW0/

Or Coop - home goods mattress protector: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00UKHSNYI/

Both are good choices, $50, luna is a cotton jersey feel, coop is a more smooth and ever so slightly thicker feel.

Foundation: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006MIVR06 , basic zinus metal frame, 67

Another zinus more traditional slatted option: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07199DPJM 95

Comes out to around 875-900 before tax. Leaves enough for a comforter or blanket. I am sure there are cheaper options for everything I've posted, but those are all products I've tested and at least are familiar with them.

If you want to be adventurous and try a DIY mattress (not very difficult) I can recommend some parts that might work out within your budget too.

Ultra Luxe Bamboo derived Viscose Rayon Mattress Pad Protector Cover by Coop Home Goods - Cooling Waterproof Hypoallergenic Topper - King - White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00UKHSNYI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_juMpzbNKCD6GV

I have been very happy with this one! I live in a very hot, humid region and sleep with a husband, cats, and one dog. Still keeps me cool and has held up to many washes. :)

I also recommend these sheets -
Zen Bamboo Luxury Bed Sheets - Eco-friendly, Hypoallergenic and Wrinkle Resistant Bamboo - 4-Piece - (Queen, Purple) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01FKNEQXS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_JxMpzbYBS99HA

This is the one that I got. They're very reasonably priced for the quality that you get. The top feels like a stiff terry cloth, but it's waterproof. They reviews are somewhat mixed about washing them, but generally, people who've washed them on gentle with cold water and air dried had good results.

I still recommend using towels whenever possible (or one of these(NSFW) or these (disposable, but can be slightly uncomfortable and squick people who are turned off by medical supplies)). There is a little bit of stiffness to the mattress protector, but that's easily remedied by a mattress pad if it bothers you.

~~~The more you know~~~

After seeing someone recommend it on baby bumps, I bought this one:
King Size SafeRest Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWK2A8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_6lOgybV6Z17F3
It's been working great. Less than $40, No sound, feels soft, keeps sheets from pulling off bed and had good reviews.

I got this mattress and this frame along with this mattress protector. I've been happy so far and I am sleeping better than before. I have lower back issues and need good support. This is a firm mattress and it takes a couple minutes for you to sink in, especially the first month. After the first month or so it does not take as long for the foam to shape to you.

I love this one: https://www.amazon.com/Luna-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B002AQNXR4

I've had the same one since 2011. It's never failed, even with the kids sleeping in it and wetting the bed sometimes.

I think it's important to take care in washing and especially drying for it to last a while. Always, always let it air dry. Don't use harsh detergents.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00MW50EDY/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I purchased this for the very reason you mention! It works great. No plasticy feel or noise, but totally protects the mattress.

Have fun!

These have been great for us - not at all crinkly, and easy to wash:

SafeRest Full Size Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNGQU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_yZzvCb6KB1AW3

What you want is a terry-lined Gore-Tex protector like this one. It's breathable, but water and mites don't get through. The top of it feels like a towel and won't make you sweat. Bed Bath and Beyond or any mattress store should have them. We got one when we got our last mattress four years ago; it has saved that mattress from two pre-housebroken puppies and a kitten. Mattress still looks brand new.

Mattress protectors are a thing. You should get one. It's like a plunger, you hopefully never need one, but great for that one time you do.

We have this mattress protector. We keep it on the bed 24/7 (except when we wash and dry it), so we can wet the bed any time we want - which is AWESOME!

We hardly even notice it, really. The only thing is that it makes the bed a little bit warmer than normal. There is a slight crinkliness, but you get used to it really fast and we don't even notice at all.

We have only had a small leak once, and that's because a cat clawed a tiny corner once and we didn't notice. Aside from that it has been absolutely perfect, and we've had some really heavy piss play on it.

As far as care. Wash it like normal, but air dry it. Putting it through the dryer will ruin it.

I got this from Amazon. Haven't leaked on it yet, but it does not make any noise or feel sticky or make me sweaty at night, so I'm liking it so far!

Edit: I had to say it. Not an hour later my cat threw up all over the bed. That mattress pad worked great though, nothing got through!

Mattress Protectorsare pretty cheap. Or a bath rug can work just as well. Both can be thrown in the wash post sexy time.

I have this waterproof mattress protector and it's great! I just leave it on under my sheets until I do any watersports and then I'll wash it with my sheets. I never have to think about it or plan ahead, and you can hardly tell it's there! No leaks so far, it stays centered on the mattress well.

LINENSPA Premium Smooth Fabric Mattress Protector - 100% Waterproof - Hypoallergenic - 10 Year Warranty - Vinyl Free - King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MW50EDY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_Hz.pzb0Z9X164

We have a waterproof mattress pad on our bed. It's got fabric around it so it doesn't rustle and crinkle like plastic, and the top layer absorbs liquids so it doesn't spread around like it would if the top layer were plastic.

We have it to keep our mattress free of pet accidents (my dog's a cancer survivor and has some issues from it) but it's the best 45 bucks I've spent. It's similar to this one, it might actually be the same one.

We have pee pads on all of our beds now because gimli5doggo thought the guest room was his personal territory. :/ We have this one and it's great - super soft, and no "squeaky" noise....and has saved our guest bed twice since then!

I bought a waterproof mattress cover that lives between my sheets and my mattress topper. It doesn't crinkle or anything, and it has protected my mattress from multiple women who are in the same boat as you.

I'm pretty sure this is the one I have.

I'm also in the medical field so I know exactly where you're coming from... We bought waterproof fitted sheets. Put a regular sheet on top and you don't notice it at all. This is what I have and I highly recommend it!
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B003PWNGQU/ref=oh_aui_i_d_old_o2_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1
(put a regular sheet underneath so when you're done you can just peel off the top layers and pass out on clean sheets)

Happy for you!

My girlfriend had a love hate relationship with squirting before we started dating. She loved it, because it was much different than just having an orgasm, but she hated the clean up of it, so she would always try to hold it back. All of my previous girlfriends had also been squirters, so I was already prepared for cleanup when we started dating.

I own what we like to refer to as "The Sex Sheet".

I own a memory foam mattress, and if you expose them to too much liquid they kind of start to break down (or so I've heard). Anyway, this thing is 100% water resistant, so there is no wet spot left on the mattress. When we're done, I usually just toss it to the side, throw the regular sheets on, and save laundry for the next day.

neato coloring book is the cheapest on my list.

This is most needed at the time for my lil ones bed

Thanks for your contest! and yay for your 1st contest!

We use these together and have survived accidents. The first is really thin and the second is a more traditional mattress pad so you can put one on top of the other.

LINENSPA Premium Smooth Fabric Mattress Protector - 100% Waterproof - Hypoallergenic - Top Protection Only - Vinyl Free - King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MW50EDY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_wOHJDbF675RZP

Sealy Waterproof Mattress Pad, Full, White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BSS9L23/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_MPHJDb64PF3X4

Wirecutter (personal go-to for product testing) is reccomending a SafeRest Premium Mattress Protector
its also supposed to be available from walmart, is pretty cheap, and supposedly is fully waterproof while still feeling like fabric and won't degrade with washing
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I could use a new mattress cover (which is on my "Household" wishlist), but it can wait for a couple of months. My current one has worn thin in a few spots!

Good luck in your training!

I know some futon retailers (like in portland, oregon) make their mattresses by hand from layered cotton/wool padding though these days most contain a synthetic core. It is also possible to get a hypoallergenic covering for another mattress to reduce contact with the materials.

I have similar issues with allergens, asthma, and autoimmune problems. My experience says to cover pillows and mattress with something [like this] (http://www.amazon.com/Cool-Shield-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B00D04MTA2/ref=sr_1_13?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1374866971&sr=1-13&keywords=mattress+cover+hypoallergenic)

but you may have to get more specific with what you are sensitive to. if it is polyesters you may have trouble because finding a completely chemical free bedding is neigh impossible. This article (about crib beds primarily) was interesting.

i got an 8 inch memory foam one from walmart's website and had it sent to the store. (spa sensations) i got one of these from amazon: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNGQU/ref=twister_B009IUV9WQ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

i've had this bed for about 6 years now, and it has held up pretty well. it is NOT a firm bed at all. for me, it's more comfortable than spring mattresses though. yes, it does keep heat in, but i'm always cold so i need that.

Well, you most definitely should. Just read the reviews for this mattress protector for example. There are plenty of them, they're synthetic (not entirely sure of what type of materials they are made of), and they work. Keeps your mattress stain and odor free, and if we're discussing what's sanitary and what's not - I'd rather not to sleep over old body fluid stains, be it mine and SO's or anyone else's.

Edit: There seems to be a company called LineSpa that advertises a mattress guard that protects even from bed bugs. Don't know how reliable their claim is, but simply use judgement when getting a used mattress.

This is the one we bought. Survived a massive water spill. My boyfriend did the research on this one. All I know is that it saved my mattress.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

My wife found out she was a squirter about a year after we started dating. I have a memory foam mattress and I remember those days. This has helped us greatly, every now and then they go on sale and I pick up about 4 lol. Enjoy: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

SafeRest premium hypoallergenic waterproof mattress protector vinyl free, hopefully this link will work.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B003PWS9AI/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1420559663&sr=8-1&dpPl=1&dpID=51PRnheTMAL&ref=plSrch&pi=AC_SX200_QL40

if the first time was an accident the couch now smells like potty.

You need to clean it with an enzymatic cleaner to completely eliminate the smell for the dog.

If it happens again - then it is a training issue and you definitely need to not allow her on the couch.

I would purchase a waterproof mattress protector to cover the seat cushions AFTER you use the enzyme cleaner.

This way if there are other occurrences, it won't actually soil your couch again.

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It happens. I woke up one morning, woke him up, got out of bed and turned around to watch him start peeing. He knew better. Only thing I've found is my Dane needs consistent reinforcement of training. They are smart enough to try and do whatever they want.

Also this cover kept my memory foam mattress 100% dry. Doesn't make any noise either.

I have gone through a ton pf waterproof covers and the cheap ones never last very long. If you have the funds I would get a wool one but those cost hundreds of dollars. I have tried the terry cloth waterproof ones from Malouf and it barely lasted 2 years before it started leaking. I wash my mattress covers about once a month and sheets weekly.

Also these aren't just cotton there is a hidden waterproof layer. The quilting is really comfortable too.

Might be a little late, but this bamboo mattress cover is MAGICAL. We have been through accidents with our dogs while adjusting to a move and with my SO after he took on the challenge of drinking four 40s in a night. Not a single drop on our foam mattress. Might help to at least ease your mind about your furniture/mattress while you try to address the behavioral issues.

Oh noes, I caved and bought a really nice one for like 30 or 40 bucks for my queen sized bed.

Here is what I have

They have come a long way since the plastic covers, thank god. I don't remember exactly what I have, but it's like this. As far as the towels, I don't go to sleep on one, I just lay one down and sleep on it after the first time I get up sweating.

This ( https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01413355S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_ejBuxbQDR3PNH ) is the one we've gotten for our mattresses. Don't believe the waterproof claim, but other than that it works really well. They're pricey, but we were also lazy and didn't want to shop for them in a department store. I'm sure they're some out there that are cheaper and work just as well.

I also have the same bed. I haven't had any issues with heat dispersion. I love it.

Edit: I just remembered that I have a mattress topper. So just the mattress itself might get hot. With this topper I've never had an issue though.

Your due date is November 4th and your baby will be a lovely little girl.

$20 link

$40 link

You're not supposed to remove the cover from the SI mattress.You should get a mattress protector/cover + sheets and wash those instead.

I have this one and it works great.

You want something like this https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01413355S/ref=sr_ph_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1485188736&sr=sr-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=mattress+encasement

You put it on and seal it with a zip tie and then be sure not to take it off in under 2 years.

Get one of these

We have one for our memory foam mattress and it's great.

You probably need a running fan and a cooling mattress top. Lighter/sweat wicking bedsheets might help too. Alternatively, sleep on a hammock together.

Honestly, it doesn't bother me, since I know I'm going to get horribly gross every time I'm on a plane, and then I just clean me/my clothes right afterwards.

But, if you're really excited by this idea, something like this might be best: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWS9AI/

It's waterproof/non-permeable, but small enough to pack in a carry-on without too much issue. Essentially just a waterproof fitted sheet.

Buy a waterproof bed liner. The sheets still get wet but it keeps the mattress safe.

Edit: Added a link for the bed liner that I have.

you havent been ruining it but it would probably be more comfortable/better in the long run if you put a mattress cover on! you can also get an encasement to protect it from stains, spills or bugs http://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Defense-System-Waterproof-Encasement/dp/B006C6EWXW

There are lots and lots of brands of vinyl free waterproof mattress pads like this. I don't have that exact brand but I have a couple different ones and they're all fine. I recommend putting them in the dryer on low though, or they wear out really fast and the waterproof part can start to not be effective.

Yes the mattress cover will encase them so if they are in your mattress they can't get out but i would treat it with diatomaceous earth first to help kill any that are there. They say to leave the cover on for at least 18 months cause bed bugs can survive a long time without food. If you do decide to get a new mattress i would get a cover anyways to protect it and prevent any bed bugs from getting into it. This is the one i used when i was going through the same thing.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01413355S/ref=s9_top_hm_awbw_bBeAhjv_g201_i3?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=mobile-hybrid-4&pf_rd_r=XA0JX6KR3S2DARXVJYM8&pf_rd_t=30901&pf_rd_p=0e5e5993-1dfb-50d8-b25d-80f88192b738&pf_rd_i=10671066011

I use something like this and it's plenty for occasional play: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/r

I have the Luna premium allergenic waterproof sheets. They had held up well the past 5 years from both sexual play and from an occasional cat potty issue.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002AQNXR4/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Not sure about where you but we have something like this because we have pets, and messy sex and I also really like my mattress.

This is the one I use on all our beds. Never had a complaint! [via amazon](The Original Sleep Defense System - Waterproof / Bed Bug / Dust Mite Proof - PREMIUM Zippered Mattress Encasement & Hypoallergenic Protector - 60-Inch by 80-Inch, Queen - Standard 12” https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01413355S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_afuUAbXP50MBD)

We've been using this on all our beds for a couple years now. It's protected the mattress flawlessly from bed-wetting, spills, and puke. Highly recommend!

I bought this mattress pad that’s waterproof and I can confirm the material used here is in fact waterproof and it’s also incredibly light weight. Perhaps you can buy one and alter it or locate similar fabric. SafeRest Queen Size Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_aLv8Cb6CS3FKG

This is what we have on all our beds


SafeRest Queen Size Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_2pTTDb9P6R4B7

According to the label: good for protecting against fluids/dust mites/bacteria/allergens. Have fun!

SafeRest Queen Size Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_DkttDb70XS9NH

Have been using it for my Tempurpedic Pro Adapt Medium for almost 2 weeks now. Can't complain :)

Protect-A-Bed

I really do stand by them, and they're half the price on Amazon as they are in most brick-and-mortar. If they don't protect the mattress, Protect-A-Bed will clean or replace them. But I've never heard of one not working.

I've been using one from Luna that I bought via Amazon, 100% waterproof, breathable, 10 year warranty, protects against dust mites and all that, has a terry cloth type top on it that makes it 'noiseless', and MADE IN USA. $30 for a twin size. I've had mine for 4+ years now with no issues, and you can't tell its there.

Not OP, but I have this one under my mattress pad and you really can't tell it's there. Not like the old ones that felt like sleeping on cellophane.

We have these mattress protectors on our beds. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B003PWNH4Q

We accidentally locked one of our cats into the guest room for a day and he peed on the bed. The mattress protector caught it all and the mattress was completely perfect.

I agree, take him to the vet.

In the meantime, get an waterproof mattress encasement so you can wash up the smell and the urine doesn't soak in the mattress.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNH4Q

Here are some good mattress cleaning tips. Otherwise, a waterproof mattress protector and pretend the stains don't exist.

I've used this amazon waterproof cover. Even bought a second one for my other bed.

Its not crinkly and doesn't make the bed hot. Like NewYabdl said I use the protector even when I'm not wearing.

Hey, Sorry I don't go on reddit all that often so I just saw this msg.

The protector doesn't change anything about firmness or support. It's about as thin as a sheet so I can't imagine how it would. It's not thick like a mattress pad would be. This is the one I purchased http://www.amazon.com/Luna-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B002AQNXR4/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1410799758&sr=8-2&keywords=mattress+protector

No, a mattress pad before the memory foam craze meant like a mattress protector, like another cotton, sometimes lightly padded fitted sheet that is sometimes waterproof / water resistant which keeps your sweat and body oils from leeching into the mattress. ex https://www.amazon.com/-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWS9AI/

As a female that squirts every time and can't help it, I can totally understand how she feels. It's not that common (chances are none of her friends do, so she feels like the odd one) and it doesn't get talked about much. And some guys don't like it or get freaked out by it, so she may have had a bad experience with a previous partner.

Reassure her... A LOT. That you like it/find it arousing. Also, that you don't care about any potential mess. By the way, Amazon has this amazing mattress cover that is worth every penny. Reassure her that she is normal - studies have shown that potentially about 45% of women experience this at some time, if not regularly.

Some tips I can share that may also help if she really wants to avoid it, because even if she gets to the point where she's ok with it, there's some days where you know there's gonna be some frisky time, but don't wanna deal with that mess. Drink lots of fluids earlier in the day if you're anticipating evening frisky times, but cut back around 4pm. Start with LOTS of foreplay. Whatever amount of time you're thinking, triple it. As you're getting closer to it, take a break - opportunity to go run to the bathroom real quick. Sometimes I'll forget about it and hubby will make a point of taking a bathroom break so that I remember to as well.

But overall, take time to discuss this OUT of the bedroom. Try to find out what about it is making her feel self-conscious so that maybe you guys can work through the underlying issue together.

I have the liberator throw (the fascinator), and even though it's expensive, it'll last a good long while.

You can also get a waterproof mattress protector for a bit less.
http://www.amazon.com/Luna-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B002AQPUW0/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1330752206&sr=8-4

I have both. Maybe pricy, but cheaper than a new mattress.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s02?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I have this one on my bed with just a regular sheet over it. Feels fine to me.

I don't see why this sub can't be that place. It's not a sub for hosting professional porno, these are all real people doing the thing (and a shit ton of lurkers).

That said, to answer your questions:

a. Get some kind of waterproof barrier. It can be as sexy as this fitted, rugged, waterproof sheet, or as utilitarian as this regular mattress protector. Then get a cheap microfiber blanket or flannel sheet for absorbency. Or get the fancy Liberator Throw. More expensive, but a better all-in-one product.

b. All the positions. Go for distance. Upside down and backwards. Sixty-nining. Really whatever strikes your fancy... but from what I hear: use an enema before you literally pee up someone's butt.

As for places other than the bedroom... camping? idk, just don't fuck up an AirBnB

yeah you get used to it and I no longer notice it, Im not sure if thats because its broken in now or I dont notice it. it might be better if you put a mattress protector on it as well.

This is the one I have:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWK2A8

Im not sure how different the chillipad or ooler feel, its basically the same technology (tubes under a pad)

https://www.amazon.com/Original-Sleep-Defense-System-Hypoallergenic/dp/B01413355S/ref=redir_mobile_desktop?_encoding=UTF8&keywords=mattress%20encasement&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&qid=1485188736&ref_=sr_ph_1&sr=sr-1

This is the product I was linked to.

Protect-A-Bed Premium Waterproof Mattress Protector, Queen Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004P1I22I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_k6sjDb6SBJ3W6

Get a dust mite cover for your entire mattress too. They are cheap and i had a noticeable imprement in my breathing after i started sleeping with one.

I use this one it is only $27 and helped me a lot.

I have these (http://www.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWS9AI/) on every mattress in our house just for regular protection and nothing has gotten through them yet. For birth though, I'd go with the plastic sheet or shower curtain.

I found using a mattress encasement helps keep it from getting gross. I use one, since if I run the slightest fever, I sweat buckets. This is what I use.

Sleep Defense System - Waterproof / Bed Bug Proof Mattress Encasement - 54-Inch by 75-Inch... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006C6EWXW/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_5Ewuxb...

the review is legit too

This is what we use: Queen Size SureGuard Mattress Protector - 100% Waterproof, Hypoallergenic - Premium Fitted Cotton Terry Cover - 10 Year Warranty https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EJOYNBA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_p-ZjzbN4YY7D5

After trying a ton, we only buy these now: https://www.amazon.com/HOSPITOLOGY-PRODUCTS-Sleep-Defense-System/dp/B006C6EWXW/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1549155748&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=hospitology+mattress+encasement&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1521257966&sr=8-3&keywords=mattress+protectors

I got you covered.

> sheet is tempurpedic

http://www.tempurpedic.com/Basics/Basics.asp

cheaper: http://www.amazon.com/Luna-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B002AQPUW0/ref=sr_1_2?s=bedbath&ie=UTF8&qid=1451404036&sr=1-2&refinements=p_n_size_browse-bin%3A362282011%2Cp_n_feature_twenty_browse-bin%3A3254100011%2Cp_n_feature_keywords_two_browse-bin%3A6002813011

Found it

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/review/B00MW4ZK8O/RJX3KDBZTIB09/ref=cm_cr_dp_mb_rvw_1?ie=UTF8&cursor=1

Direct comment link... Priceless!!!

It's not a child mattress.

It's a waterproof cover - similar to what you'd use with a kid. Here's an example.

This should do the trick. http://www.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1407377963&sr=8-1&keywords=hypoallergenic+mattress+cover

Prednisone gave me night sweats that got even worse after I tapered. This waterproof mattress cover is great. I honestly cannot tell it's on. I don't need it right now but we leave it on because there's no reason to remove it.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWK2A8/

A cheaper option is these matress protectors. https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B003PWNH4Q/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I have the same problem and I got a couple of them and they work great. But you do end up cuddling in a cold puddle afterwards, which is a bit gross :p

Sorry, just saw this!! Yes, we are using this one:

https://www.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=3D9RFDPQJ509I&keywords=mattress+protector&qid=1567139706&s=gateway&sprefix=mattress+prote%2Caps%2C332&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyU1o0OFFTUUhLRkFaJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNzkxNTkxMjhXUTM4QzVaVE82SiZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwMzYwOTA0MVJXSEFDTks5V0s2MCZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

We use something like this as a backup...just in case. Because it’s a pain to clean and a pain to put on and off...but at least the mattress doesn’t get destroyed.
Queen Size SafeRest Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNH4Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ibh9Ab8N37YG0

Will post what I mean by pad here I a sec. let me find a link.

Except that it makes your bed noisy and weird to sleep on.

Edit: I stand corrected.

I have just successfully dealt with this without an expensive exterminator. First thing is to take the bottom liner off of your box spring and use this dust all on it http://smile.amazon.com/CimeXa-Insecticide-ounces-bottle-Rockwell/dp/B0085HRWI8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1463285327&sr=8-1&keywords=cimexa . The Cimexa will get under their exoskeleton and dry them out and kill them usually within 2 days. You want to use the Cimexa on your baseboards, light fixtures, outlets, and furniture. From all my research this is the best way to get rid of them as they are really resistant to chemical insecticides. Put your mattress and box spring in bed bug resistant mattress covers. Through all I read this brand was the best http://smile.amazon.com/Sleep-Defense-System-Waterproof-Encasement/dp/B01413355S/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1463285687&sr=8-1&keywords=bed+bug+mattress+covers. I put the Cimexa on the box spring on top of the mattress cover just to be sure everything died. You want to leave the mattress covers on for at least a year, the bugs can survive for up to a year with no food, so if you are just trying to starve them out keep everything sealed for at least a year. The plastic foot to put under your bed works, I used tuperware of water but I have plastic bed feet so I don't have to worry about rusting my bed frame, they cannot swim at all so the water is very effective, put bleach or witch hazel in the water to discourage molding and mildewing. Wash and dry all clothes on high heat, they will die within 20 minutes if exposed to 120 degree heat, can also put things in your oven that wont fair well in the dryer. Vacuum daily, make sure you take the bag out seal it in a garbage bag and take it outside far as you can from the house as soon as you are done vacuuming. Keep sleeping in your bed, you want to draw them out of their hiding spaces to get in contact with all the Cimexa you have laid out, you are essentially using yourself as bait, there are also so DIY CO2 traps (they are attracted to the CO2 we exhale) that use water and yeast or dry ice, I haven't used them but you might want to look into them if you feel so inclined. Good news is they are more annoying than anything, they are not known to spread disease or cause actual harm aside from being itchy. Good luck I hope this helps you.

Are you sleeping directly on top of the mattress, or are you in a sleeping bag?

Cold, dirty and sticky... ugh. If they're close to standard mattress sizes (twin I'm guessing), why not just get a mattress protector? They're made to protect the mattress from humans, but will also work protecting the human from the mattress.

Something like this:

https://www.amazon.com/SafeRest-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector/dp/B003PWS9AI

Not sure what you might have available in NZ though. Along similar lines, you could make one from a tablecloth, the kind with fabric on one side and plastic or PU coating on the other.

Two years and over 25,000 miles with no problems on unprotected white seats. However, I did start out covering the seats with mattress protectors.
Queen Size Luna Premium Hypoallergenic 100% Waterproof Mattress Protector - Made in the USA - Vinyl Free https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002AQNXR4

I'm surprised more cat owners haven't mentioned using one of these waterproof mattress covers. http://www.amazon.com/Malouf-Hypoallergenic-Waterproof-Mattress-Protector-/dp/B0035E63WM/

It's a thin as a sheet and completely silent (no plastic-y sound or feel). I picked this up when the cat was having bladder crystal irritation and peeing in our bed (supposedly, they do that when they're stressed and looking for a safe place to pee).

We don't have that problem now with proper supplements, but the cover is still there for just in case there's a flare up or some sort of rare vengeance piss.

We all have covers on our mattress. Mostly for allergy but hey humans and pets leak occasionally at any age.

Twin Size SafeRest Premium Hypoallergenic Waterproof Mattress Protector - Vinyl Free

The ones that zipper the mattress in have a tendency to vacuum pack it, making the mattress uncomfortable.

Hey there, I'm sorry for the stress that you're going through. I totally understand the frustrations of it all. My husband and I had the same problems with the second cat we adopted. We're lifers when it comes to our animals but honestly this cat was exhausting us and we were on the brink of giving up on him because getting woken up constantly by cat piss is the worst.

After trying everything we eventually got a prescription for Prozac, and although it sucks shoving a pill down his throat everyday (I suggest a pill popper) it solved the problem!

And this mattress cover is great!